We received an email from a member regarding some of our past posts on bi-guys. He was motivated to contact us as a result of the recent straight-to-gay post. He said that the post made him stop and ask “why am I bi”.
He stated: “Most of my male partners have been bi guys and their “reasons” for being bi varied. The gay partners I’ve had always seemed to be recruiting me, which is ironic coming from people that claim it’s not a “choice” to be gay.
My bi friends, just revel in loving sex with both sexes. No recruitment attempted. Some bi guys, like me, like to be with guys because when we just want kinky, nasty sex with no strings, no one can give better than another guy. Yet, we LOVE women. We LOVE sex with a woman. Other bi guys limit their man-on-man activity. Possibly my favorite fuck buddy had a GF too. He loved to be fucked in the ass. So much so that I would only get 4 or 5 slow pumps in before he’d cum. He also sucked great cock. But when I asked him to cum on me, he said, “Dude, you’re gay!” Really? What does my cock in your asshole make you?”
The member went on to ask: “…I am asking you to pose this question on the blog to the bi guys out there: If you think about it, what reasons do you come up with to rationalize your being bi? Is it a conscious decision? Or have you always found both sexes attractive?”
The origin of sexual orientation is a difficult question to answer. Various theories have proposed differing sources for sexual orientation, including genetic or inborn hormonal factors and life experiences during early childhood. The possible origins of a bisexual orientation / identity is even more complex.
So ‘bi guys’ how about it? What made you bi? Is it a conscious decision? A sexual orientation from birth, the result of a progressive sexual addiction (as stated by some ‘Sex and Love Addicts’ and SLAA 12-step programs), have you always found both sexes attractive, or do you just like to ‘get off’ and you have found that guys rarely say no?