From what I’m reading in profiles on A4A, most of you guys are into masculine men… But what is masculine and what is not?
For some people a guy can be masculine, and for others, he is too feminine. I guess the degree of masculinity varies for each person. Can we measure it?
Some people require their “masculine man” to have special characteristics like being hairy, tall, muscular, and for others, a smooth hairless short guy is the way to go…
I’ve already been turned down by guys saying I was too “fem” …. But for other into more feminine guys, they were saying I was too “manly” …
It can be very difficult to find the right guy for a hookup or even more for long-term relationships. A guy that likes you for the “whole you”: Your look, the way you speak, the way you act and dress.
I’m sure it’s even harder for androgynous guys or guys that likes to cross-dress (wear women clothes), am I right?
Which brings me to ask you the question do you find these guys attractive? Does it turn you on to date or have sex with more feminine guys? And why?
I personally like a very masculine man… I actually like bi guys or straight/curious guys the most for hooking up. But when it comes to life partners or boyfriends, a masculine total top man can do! I really can’t have sex or date a man that is feminine, even slightly. It psychologically doesn’t work! But that’s me. I can totally be friend with them, but that’s another story!
What about you? Do you like an androgynous man in your bed or not ? Why?