Keeping up with your profile picture could be a full time job. We all try to put our best pictures on our profiles, some of us put our faces and others put whatever they think their best asset is. What I am finding difficult to understand is this new trend of putting pictures of what we use to look like or what we want to look like….
I’m pretty active on A4A and will use the site to hook up or meet guys for coffee or dates. Now we are all attracted to what we like so when I come across something I like or when someone tags me and I like what I see, I will respond.
I have learned it is easier to meet in a public place because honestly you never know what is going to show up. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not shallow but when you present yourself one way and deliver another way that’s deception.
The only time I am surprised is when they show up and they actually look like their picture or better. Most times who shows up is a facsimile of what they posted on their profile.
I guess what I am trying to get across is be yourself and people will like you for it. There is no way we could update our profiles with every haircut but we don’t really change that much from day to day. Putting a picture of when you looked your best 5 or 10 years ago will not get you laid, unless you still look that way.
So click here and upload your best picture as your main….and a recent one….not one from 1993!
g skorich aka eastvalleyoral