Determining your online age isn’t s easy at it seems. We could all shave a year or two off our profile ages but for the guys over 45 they seem to think shaving 10 years off is not a big deal, it is. Remember, when determining your on-line age, it’s better to be a great looking 40 year old than a bad looking 35 year old.
I’m all for being who we are. I’m 48, will be 49 this year. I’m in good shape, full head of hair, attractive enough but the age thing stops a lot of guys from reaching out. Or worse, reaching out and telling me I look great from my age, thanks!!
I was reading some profiles when I read one where the guy was looking for guys between 23 and 34. Ok, I get it, he probably wants someone over 21 so they can at least have a drink out together but the 34 part? What’s up with that? How different does a 34 year old look from a 37 year old or a hot 45 year old?
For me, older guys who have their shit together are hot. They are more relaxed, more confident and know what they want.
The next time you come across a profile of a guy you like but the age thing is a turn off, set that aside and give the guy a chance, who knows he might be the best fuck you ever had or your long lost soul mate, but remember, the internet subtracts 5 years so add that in.
g skorich aka eastvalleyoral