So you’ve met someone on adam4adam and you are getting down to meeting up. You live 30 minutes from the center of it all. You tell Mr. Tonight and he says it’s too far. Too far? How far is too far for sex?
In some instances, travel time would take longer than the actual deed but who’s to say you aren’t passing on meeting a really great guy? It also depends on the time of day, I won’t travel if it’s late at night but during the day I might stop off for a quick blow and go and then get some groceries.
I get that men would like you to be 5 minutes away, do their business in 10 minutes and head home for a cuddle with the boyfriend. That’s great but in reality it doesn’t always happen like that. Sometimes you have to travel to get the goods.
I recently met a guy who is in a long distance relationship. His partner, who he recently started dating, lives in Germany and this guy thinks 30 minutes is too far, really? The most common response I get when telling people where I live is: “that’s kind of far but if you are over this way lets hook up”. Ok, so, it’s ok for me to travel to them but not ok for them to travel to me? Wow, delete.
So, how far are you willing to go?
g skorich aka eastvalleyoral