It’s a little unnerving opening an email on A4A that begins with: ‘I want to feel your cum dripping out of my ass while your friends piss on me’.
Now for some that is hot, but for me that isn’t an opening line. First off the thought of my friends standing around pissing on someone is not fun for me. Secondly, what ever happened to hello?
I realize this is a sex site but that doesn’t mean there can’t be some form of etiquette. We have discussed smiles in the past and most guys are offended by them but a nice ‘Hey there, great profile, read mine and let me know if there is any interest’ can’t be all bad can it?
How you approach someone is very important and can be the difference between getting blocked and getting laid. Some guys respond to the upfront, waste no time approach: Lets Fuck!! Other guys need a little more. Read the guys profile before sending a message.
My biggest peeve when a guy tags me for the first time:
Me: hey there, great profile, what’s going on?
I don’t know this person and from these three lines he isn’t very exciting. Be prepared to answer a question with more than a one word response. It’s annoying.
There is an old joke: what is the definition of sexual harassment? Answer: an ugly guy asking for a date.
Don’t be that ugly guy. Come with confidence and I think you will be surprised.
g skorich AKA eastvalleyoral