25 Jul 2013

Speak Out : Man Pussy?

Category: Gay Stuff : Speak Out

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There are very few things in this online world that really bother me. Here is one of them: I was chatting with this really hot guy the other day on A4A, having a really great conversation and getting down to business when he asked me:  Are you looking to get your man-pussy pounded?  My man-pussy?  Really?

Now I’ve heard guys joking about this and I’ve used the term before but to use it this way was a real turn off for me. Do I want my man-pussy pounded?  I really didn’t know if I wanted to laugh or shoot him. For future reference, it’s not attractive and it’s certainly not a turn on. 

There was this guy a few years ago, younger guy. We were heavy at it when he asked if I wanted to fuck his boy-pussy, I kind of blew if off hoping I didn’t hear what I heard and when I started fucking his ass he kept saying fuck my pussy, it was the first time I faked an orgasm.

Obviously you can call your hole whatever you want but remember, most gay guys don’t want to fuck a pussy. 

Thoughts? Comments?

g skorich AKA eastvalleyoral

311 comments for Speak Out : Man Pussy?

  • I’ve head the term before as well. I dunno. I guess some guys think that’s “hot” talk… does nothing for me. Just make sure you’re clean and I’m ready to have fun with your ass!

  • Different strokes for different folks. I’m 28 and 5’8″. Ever since becoming sexually active as a teen I’ve always liked taller, older, muscled guys – hyper masculine even. And to hear a masculine stallion like that calling his hole a pussy while my 10.5″ are inside him is a real turn on!

    The turn off for me is sex talk that’s contrived. You can say whatever you want (in the heat of the moment) as long as you mean it.

  • OMFG! I HATE IT! We are men and men only have an ass, not a pussy. It is such a turn off especially as a top. Im not going anywhere near your pussy. Thanx

  • I couldn’t agree more. I believe it is another way of “top” men feeling superior and trying to put “bottom” guys down by comparing them to women (or in this case lady parts). Although I am a top, I don’t think this makes me more masculine or butch. It is (like with all things) just a preference. In the same way, I don’t think that a man who bottoms for me is more effeminate or gay because he is the bottom. It harkens back to days when people thought that in every gay couple there was a “butch” and a “femme.” Haven’t we progressed beyond this yet?

  • Well I am going to throw this thought out here …. When a Mann refer to your ass as “man pussy”…. You are aware that it’s not” lady ass” either but many of you don’t want it call pussy men…. Moan like Bitches…. Go figure!!!!!!

  • Great post! I’m right there with you. I’ve had guys ask to fuck my boi pussy or tell me to pound there cunt. This is no reflection on women, and I have no problem with friends calling me a ‘gurrrrl.’ I’m secure in my masculinity, as well as, my gay place on the Kinsey scale.

    When I’m having sex with a guy, however, the last thing I was to envision or think about is a vagina. Complete turn off.

    It’s happened too many times (a handful) to let it slide. I let the guy know I don’t find it attractive or sexy. Manhole is fine, but boi pussy?!? Really?

  • Thank You totally agree!

  • Amen brother! Nothing is a bigger turn off than to hear “boy pussy, ass pussy, etc….” get your #&$@ and get out! Be gone!

  • Could be worse..how about your mangina

  • Probably because I’m a queen, I like it. Especially when he whispers it as he penetrates me. Completely gives me the shivers…LOL

  • Ummmm if your ass is stretched then its a pussy

  • Is it that serious? I mean, everybody gets off on something. If it isn’t for you fine, but not everyone wants to have sex with you. :D

  • I totally agree with u. It’s a real turn-off for me when I hear that ridiculous term. At least I’ve never heard “man-flower” used lol

  • if all guys wanted pussy we would all be straight. guys you can call it whatever you want but in the bedroom and or during sex use the word ass or phrase man hole

  • I concur…falls in line with guys calling guys “gurl”…annoying

  • In reading what you wrote I understand you don’t like the term “pussy” when it is being used to refer to a male’s anus. But what I don’t understand your dislike did not get the best of you until after you had sex. Really, are you serious. If a male wants to describe himself as female anatomy or a girl what does that have to do with disturbing you? “Eat the meat trow away the bone” man learn to enjoy life……

  • I hate when guys use that term, its a turn off for me as wells. So you tell a guy with pecs “let me grab your boobs” ?

  • No this term is in no way a turn on. I have never used the term unless someone has requested it..

  • Dude in the pic has a great boy-pussy. I’d pound it.

  • I’ve had this this guy tell me that he wanted me to fuck his ‘bussy’. My dick never deflated faster. Asshole is the term I prefer.

  • I have referred to mine as my boy pussy before, but really only because I was saying it to my bi fb. I figured he likes boys and pussy (which I personally found gross when he described to me how much he loved pussy) so maybe it would turn him on. Even in that case, not so much. Probably a misnomer we can put to rest.

  • Oh yeah, a word pisses you off so much so the only other thing you can think of is ARMED VIOLENCE! Grow a pair and don’t cry to your momma because I said you have no balls. I love “role play” and that’s what it is especially if the “bottom” likes to refer to his “anus” as his …get ready .. “PUSSY” its just erotic! Sorry if I sound like a “BIG DICK” about it!!! Jeez lmfpo!

  • I totally agree. Man puss is not my thing. Now a nice clean tight ass really is.

  • i hate this so very much. nothing makes me less interested in a guy as when he says want your man pussy anything. It’s a disgusting comparison.

  • I personally cannot stand that phrase either. Being bisexual, some guys tend to think that it’s attractive and a turn on!That is a huge turn OFF for me. Don’t name a part of your body something you can’t fathom to even touch!

  • first, let’s get the terminology right. it’s ‘boypussy’ and ‘mancunt.’ compound words, no hyphen.

    i used to object to the feminization of the lower male orfice, but then i met a guy who unleashed my fucktalk abilities.

    “i’m gonna fukkin shred your sloppy slutcunt with my big fat cock and pour my babies deep in your worthless hole” sets the mood so much better than “merciful heavens, i am about to sodomize your anus with my penis.”

    when i’m feeling playful and frisky, i may invite a buddy to go out prowling for some pussy. it’s a friendly, fun word.

    no everyone likes the euphemisms, and i’m cool with that. does seem to me, though, that the most objections come from conflicted men who have internalized the ridiculous idea that a bottom is inherently less of a man than a top.

    that dynamic can be fascinating to explore and exploit, but you have to tread carefully around the issues it can raise.

    i have, upon request, made reference to a companion’s ‘tunnel of love’, ‘turdtube’ or ‘shitbox’ (although the last two draw attention to what comes out instead of what’s going in).

    i do, however, draw the line at ‘mangina.’
    that just sounds gross.

  • I’ve had tops demand that I fuck their “pussy” or “cunt.” Nothing deflates my erection faster than having the image ” a lady vagine” come to mind when I am either fucking or about to fuck a man. I attempt to reclaim the situation by saying, “Sorry, I don’t have sex with women, but I will stick my meat into your Manhole.” This usually works, if the bottom continues the sex is over and I’m out the door.

  • To each his own: don’t fucking shame guys for having and expressing their own turn-ons. You didn’t like it, but obviously other guys do and you’re on no position to try and make them feel less than for doing so. Go fuck yourself.

  • U are absolutely right pussy is pussy ass. Is ass

  • I totally agree I thought that’s a turnoff for long time now

  • I think if you are into some kind of verbal, and its mutual, fine. I can leave that term. Also once heard the word “Mangina” I think guys can skip that one too.

  • Sounds like your real one way..

  • It’s a total turn off. Call your hole what you want , but I don’t wanna be anywhere near a PUSSY !

  • I am not gay. I am bi. I am a man who is sexually attracted to MEN as well as women. When I am with a man, I want no “female latency” so “flamgay” is a deal killer as are the terms boipussy, manpussy, and mangina. Not into shemales in any form. When I am with a man I want a man who is proud to be a man, not one who devolves into the lipsy BS of playing the role of “the woman” in the sexual exchange.

  • yah u agree the trem is nasty and stuff but I take afence ifsome say it whlile im fucking just think of some thing else oother then what hey said

  • Do what I do. Tell them that it’s not a boy pussy…it’s a poo slide.

    You’re welcome! ;)

  • I for one like the term Hairy little man pussy. Now I definitely don’t like female pussy but the thought of a Hairy hot little man hole or pussy sounds fucking great to me.

  • Totally agree. I’m bi, and nothing makes me go limp faster than a hot, masculine bottom that refers to his anus as a pussy. They are nothing alike, and if I wanted pussy, it certainly wouldn’t be a guy giving it to me.

  • Yeah. No. I’m a bottom and I would never call my ass a pussy. That’s totally contradictory lol. One time a guy asked me And I quote: ” do you want me to fuck dat pussy?” I responded and told him I don’t have one. Its called an ass hole. A sphincter lol. Not a vagina or a cat. A hole. The term itself, for a guy to say it, is totally paradoxical.

  • Agree 100%. That is the biggest turn off during sex for a guy to refer to his ass as a pussy. Now don’t get me wrong if he is fine as hell and it is good I can shove a pillow in his face and keep going.

  • I don’t care what you call it, I’d fuck that boy in the picture!

  • My partner refers to my ass as his boi pussy and honestly it turns me on a lot, idk why but he really makes me hot when he says that.

  • I am an older mostly top Daddy type. I was married for 9 years and have two sons. If I wanted a pussy I would have stayed married. I am bi sexual. I like men and boys. I don’t like bois. I love it when a hot bottom gives it up to me but I am like you. I like pounding ass. Not pussy, even boy pussy.

  • It’s a huge turn off. The only time i use that word is when I’m referring to my cat

  • I agree. There is nothing sexy about referring to your asshole as a “pussy.”

  • My bi guys ” Friends” say that at all the time and It turn me on so bad. So I love my man-juicy-pussy gets pounded so good ;)

  • AGREED! I prefer a nice meaty, muscle ASS, over Pussy any day.

  • Agreed! Whether it be man or boy pussy, shaved hairless, lacey panties or teddy, or really fem, the guy might as well be a chick. Get out of my bed and make room for a man!

  • Totally agree that the man pussy phrase is a turn off. I’ve actually stopped fuckin a guy before and asked him to leave. I was even too turned off to see him again and we were regular fuck buddies. Ugh!!

  • Agree 100% it is no where near a pussy. Only ladies have a pussy. Its an asshole, rectum, whatever but not a pussy or man pussy. Plus that pic needs a little hair in there. Shaved clean is a turn off. Men are usually hairy. Give me a hairy crack and im in!

  • A number of bottoms get turned on by thinking that they are playing the “female” role when a top fucks them. They fantasize that the top is fucking their pussy the way a straight guy would fuck a female’s pussy. These bottoms like a verbal top. I will say that I have topped some bottoms like that and have been verbal with them by reminding them that I’m fucking their pussy. Actually I’ve even said it while I fuck their mouths and they love it. And so do I. To each their own.

  • As a bi mwm I do not mind if a bottom refers to his hole as his boy pussy or man pussy or man cunt. I do let the bottom tell me though as I have known some to be like you and find that to be a turn-off.

  • It’s kinda’-sorta’ hot if I’m doing a young twink guy and he
    uses “boy pussy.” Not so much with older guys. Maybe some-
    thing you should “outgrow with age”??

  • Just awful…I was having sex with a guy once and he exclaimed…”Your BOY PUSSY FEELS SOOO GOOD”…I wanted to run out of there as fast as possible…I was horrified

  • Yeah, I feel the same way. It is a real turn-off to refer to an asshole as a man/boy pussy.

  • Those of us who enjoy fems do call it a pussy and we enjoy treating like one… to each their own.

  • I despise the term man pussy just as much as the word cock. It’s a personal thing but those words with a few others will make me lose an erection almost instantly. It isn’t a cute or sexy word and just because you see it or hear it in a porno doesn’t mean you should bring it into conversation or the bedroom.

  • I think when a young fem twink uses it its sounds hot! I love hearing boy pussy…..man hole…boy hole….but that’s jus me

  • LMFAO!!! Man-Pussy…OMG! Wow…I have heard guys call their asshole pussy or MAN-CUNT. Such a turn off. LOL or MAN-GINA…WTF?! LMFAO

  • Agreed! I’m definitely not put off by women or pussy but for me it’s not a turn on for guys to use those terms during sex. I’m fucking a guy…there should be no pussy involved. Thanks in advance. ;-)

  • LMAO…….it seems quite afew of us have this same story.
    all of my i have attracted to someone like myself (masculine
    and there is nothing more of a turn off as hearing some guy who is all worked out….talking about his pussy..what pussy?
    if..and when i have had or wanted pussy..and yes” some of
    have been to kitty city….lol”..that’s another tale”..pun
    intended..ha-ha”..for another time. i want a real one. with
    that being said..to each his own…i just don’t want it in my bed.

    NOW BEND OVER GIMMIE THAT ASS!!!…….LOL

  • I agree with you. I don’t like the term much myself. I read it all the time on websites, but I agree….girls have pussies, not men. Men have hot asses! And that’s what I’d call mine and prefer my partner to call his. I’ve had pussy and that definitely isn’t what I’m looking for anymore.

  • I agree with the “author”…..I HATE THE TERM “MAN PUSSY” WITH A PASSION….THAT’S ONE THING A MAN DOESN’T HAVE….eeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwww

  • OMG….I thought I was the only one who hated this. It seems to be younger guys for the most part. And you’re right, if I want to fuck a pussy, I would have stayed married. Total turn off.

  • what else do u call a hole u fuck and cum in? An ass is the cheeks. But I feel ya, I’m masculine so whatever u call it is fine with me, just let me lick it and bang it open.

  • My reaction to that term would be the same…

  • Agreed. Ask for man pussy and you arent getting my ass lol.

  • For real?

    People have all sorts of attitudes about anything and everything relating to sexuality. No big surprise that we aren’t all the same.

    Calling a man’s ass pussy doesn’t somehow transform it into an actual pussy. It is just word play, some people are into that. My and my bf both call his ass his pussy, and during sex we are both likely to use words that wouldn’t apply normally – bitch, nasty slut, pig, dirty whore, faggot, rape. It’s just dirty talk, for some its hot in the moment, and meaningless after the moment is passed.

    For future reference, it’s not attractive [to you] and it’s certainly not a turn on [to you].

  • Glad to hear that I’m not the only one who thinks “boy/man pussy” sounds utterly ridiculous and is a major turn-off!!!

  • I agree with you. I don’t want pussy. I want a furry man’s ass that fucks like a man’s ass. None of that squishy pussy stuff for me!

  • I think men are starting to call it their boy pussy is because like pussy it tight then it opens up. And if you been fucking for a long time you are not longer tight anymore like pussies. Especially these guy fisting. And if you don’t like boy pussy come up with a name for it. That host and sexy. Man just like fucking a hole whatever you call it. boy pussy or asshole. And I don’t think you are turn off my the pussy it the woman with the pussy. You don’t like. Just my opinion.

  • You are so right man. I hate the term too, I am bi, but more into dudes. Because they are masculine, hairy,hard, smells different(in a good way)of course. So when I am with a hot masculine guy giving him some length and he then says, “Oh yes fuck my man pussy” I have to use my mind not to lose my erection. This term is a definite turn off for me, it almost sounds vulgar, for some reason.

  • I prefer the word Butt hole

  • really that turned you off? We should be commenting about anything goes and how people will threaten someone’s health just to bust a nut and this is your turn off? You are entitled to feel how you want as that guy was entitled to say what he said but this really is such a non event to me compared to other stuff it really is not an issue .

  • I am with you. I hate the terms ‘man pussy’ and ‘asscunt.’ If a guy wants to have a pussy he can do that with enough money and the right surgeon. But unless that is the case, it’s not a pussy, guys. It’s not a cunt. Total turnoff.

  • Well I know what you mean here. When it comes to conversational skills here, most of the guys don’t have any but what they see and hear in PORN. They think, or believe if it is in porn, it is acceptable in real life, with that being said, it goes the same way here where guys display there goods here like a bill board advertisement. Call me old fashion but I like a little mystery when meeting a guy.

  • it’s hot when the botom refers to his hole as his man-pussy or cunt as long as my cock is in it. just sayin

  • it’s hot as hell when the bottom calls his hole a cunt or a pussy as long as my cock is in it. just sayin

  • If you want to see an awesomely great video about a transvestite using the term in a comical way, look up Mauricia Rodriguez- Dassit

  • In a real nasty, dirty fucking sex scene with nasty dirty talking, love to hear FUCK YOUR MAN PUSSY. Big turn on, I know it isn’t a women i am fucking. I am fucking a man’s hole. LOL LOL LOL

  • For guys that use the term for themselves, I have no problem. Granted, a guy really only has one orifice to fuck; he could just say, “fuck me.” But if wants to call it his “man-pussy” or “boy-pussy” that’s fine with me. But, like the original poster, I don’t have a “man-pussy” or “boy-pussy” or any kind of “pussy”–don’t use that term with me. Just say, “I’m gonna fuck you,” and believe me, I’ll know exactly what you are going to do and where you are going to direct your efforts.

  • Right with you on this one. HATE that term. Years ago, I knew someone who went home with a studly guy dressed in cowboy gear. My friend was exceptionally well-endowed. Soon into the encounter, the cowboy through his legs up in the air and said, “I want you to fuck me and turn me into a real woman”. Well, that was the end of that…..ROFLMAO

  • I think the word is hilarious. But I’d rather hear, ” you looking to get your manhole fucked?”

  • Oh gods, I couldn’t agree with you more! I think it’s creepy and weird when guys refer to an asshole as a manpussy. Call it an ass, a hole, an asshole, a butt even, but don’t ever call it a manpussy. Instant turn off.

  • pathetic… have heard it said and have tried to like it. It is a tight asshole take it and move on.

  • What a man calls the hole he gets pleasure from is a personal preference.women can call their clitoris a dick . What’s the big issue with the need to make sex race culture so exclusive.. i guess it causes to much discomfort in concepts of others without loosing themselves

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  • Thank you. As a bi guy, I can get pussy when I want. When I’m on here, I want a man. Not a man pussy. That just sounds…wrong. Like cringe worthy wrong. Guys, we are better than this.

  • I agree totally. I’m hearing it all too often recently and it turns me off (as does spelling boy “boi”, but that’s another topic). I asked a stud that was fucking me not to call my hole a pussy or cunt, as he was doing, and he got very upset but I was firm in my resolve. I don’t want to hear about or think about any female body parts while I’m having or talking about man-2-man sex.

  • Where is that picture from???!

  • No greater turnoff for me then to hear Pussy ugh. Once somebody mentions that in a sentence I’m totally turned off. No matter how hot you are

  • If I wanted a pussy I would be with a girl….Man pussy is way wrong

  • sounds like one more bitchy queer hating on others for being queer. don’t we get enough of this crap from the GOP and the crazy Religious Right? if you’re so shallow you can’t handle a difference in semantics, maybe you should live on a deserted island.

  • I agree………I like men and all things manly…….pussy isn’t one of them……….that being said….I wouldn’t stop fucking someone if they used that term during sex…..I would probably just put something in there mouth to keep them occupied and unable to speak……

  • I had a friend that called cock his pussy but to each hisown I say
    Pussy cock dick what u called it u still masturbate it wash it and keep it c lean for your boy friend or lover

  • Grosses me out. But then any sort of verbal stuff — “You want my cock?” “Tell me how much you want my cock.” “Ya, suck that cock!” — is pretty much a buzzkill. Moan and groan all you want, let me know you’re enjoying it … but for God’s sake, DO NOT TALK!

  • Totally agree! So not a turn on when you’re pounding someone and they say ‘fuck my boy-pussy, fuck it harder!’. The funny thing is it’s from the people you least expect it from! It’s about the quickest way for me to lose my hard-on!

  • You sound like an uptight prude and idiot. It’s a hole. Who cares what you call it when you are going at it hot and heavy? Those are my thoughts and comments.

  • That is funny you say that because my close friend always says man-pussy and mangina and brown eye and all of which gross me out and gets me soft lol. but the only sounds i really like to hear during sex is moans and such. some queeny guys want a vagina i guess lol

  • I think calling a guy’s ass a “man/boy pussy” has to be one of the stupidest things on the planet! It makes about as much sense as how some guys refer to other gay men as “she” or “her”. I mean really guys? If I wanted to hear shit like that I’d still be with women! IT’S NOT A TURN ON, NOR IS IT ATTRACTIVE! STOP DOING IT!!!

  • I for one hate it when guys tell me let me fuck you man pussy it gets on my nerves and really is a turn off.

  • Makes me go soft and quit what I’m doing when I hear them 2 words together. you have an asshole no matter what you try to do its just an asshole. Buck Angel has a “Man Pussy”

  • I also don’t like when people post pictures of their hole. It is a turn off and nasty. I like a cute butt. It is all we need to see, so stop flashing your nasty starbaby at us.

  • Jesus fucking Christ no I do not have a pussy male or female but if someone needs that or has the idea that is what makes them happy I simply say no thanks and let go. God Damn if we can’t allow for others differences within our own segmented community why do we expect the others to accept us and/or gay marriage or anything on our side. I do not believe there is a Gay agenda but until we within our own world/community allow for others preferences and needs we will never move on. If something bothers you, say thanks no thanks and move on, there are a million others with vastly differing wants needs and fantasies than your own, remember to be open you might find you enjoy their perspective.

  • I can’t stand it when guys say they have a pussy or u want this pussy. If i wanted pussy I would be with a woman. It is a turn off you are not a woman. Pound this ass oh yeah, pound this pussy no thanks. I have this guy who hits me up all the time asking me when am I coming to see him and bust his pussy open. I told him until he realizes that he dosent have one I won’t be. Get a clue your a man u don’t have a pussy. Just my thoughts sorry if you don’t agree

  • I say fuck my man pussy all the time. I don’t see the big deal and never make the connection to a womans puss. But, to each his own.

  • Indeed. If I wanted to ‘fuck a pussy’, I would have stayed married.

  • This is too funny, lol and your right about most gays not wanting to fuck a pussy! This shit had me rolling!

  • Total Turn off…like you said what gay guy wants to fuck a pussy…lmao…its an ass call it an ass or hole or whatever yoou want just not a pussy…turd box also turns me off…Gross!!!

  • I agree, its a bit weird.

  • To me its a total deal breaker and a turn off

  • I dont see the big deal, man pussy, boy pussy but you need to understand some bottom guys like being handle like a female in bed and think as their ass a pussy so no big deal. My mayor concern is this person honest in regards in not having std’s in general.

  • tried this earlier and was denied so I’ll try and edit…
    I have to be honest though if you want comments its hard to believe you need to edit them we are adult and I thought that was the point of the site adults meeting and sharinig with adults.

    Jesus $ucking Christ no I do not have a pussy male or female but if someone needs that or has the idea that is what makes them happy I simply say no thanks and let go. God Damn if we can’t allow for others differences within our own segmented community why do we expect the others to accept us and/or gay marriage or anything on our side. I do not believe there is a Gay agenda but until we within our own world/community allow for others preferences and needs we will never move on. If something bothers you, say thanks no thanks and move on, there are a million others with vastly differing wants needs and fantasies than your own, remember to be open you might find you enjoy their perspective.

  • Yeah I agree I am bi but I lean more toward guys and I hate it when the guy calls it a pussy if I wanted pussy I would fuck it but I want a guys hole and its that simple…

  • Haaaaaaaate it when people say that, or any variation. It’s just so… gross? That doesn’t quite cover my negative feelings towards it.

  • I find that more “straight” or bi-sexual men like the term boy pussy because they find it more feminine or what not.
    My ex to this day talks about pounding my boy pussy, and apparently some of the guys he gets with are not too pleased with that term haha

  • I’m not real big on that word either, nor a couple of others… especially cock…ugh, that word makes me shiver even reading it.

  • I have heard of the term Man Pussy, and i get what guys who call i that are saying. Being in the Submissive, or Bottom role some would regard that as having a Woman’s Vagina. Since most Men don’t have them, calling their anus a Man Pussy solves that. I prefer Manhole myself lol, any problem with that?

  • Deal breaker. No bigger turn off than the term “boy-pussy”.

  • Single fastest way to make my dick go flaccid. As if its not enough to have all these guys going around calling themselves “girl” or “queen”, they gotta go call their anus a “man-pussy”. Seems like they are trying too hard to forget they have a cock!!

  • I hear boy pussy, man pussy and bussy. As long as I fucking ASS!! you can call it what ever you like

  • I don’t know, it’s kind of a turn-on for me! Personally, that kind of dirty talk just adds to the ambiance of a good, old-fashioned kinky hook-up. Nothing wrong with a little boy gash ;)

  • Wow!
    I agree with your comments 100%. I will never fully understand the overly feminine vibe of gay males. I am a male who is romantically attracted to males….what does feminine euphemisms have to do with me. I have never had male to male intercourse….mostly from fear of Aids and other sexual disasters. I am both intellectually and romantically attracted to guys. But references to females and overally sexual lifestyle has left me a older virgin.

  • I agree. I think most regular dudes arent gonna want to discuss man-pussy. Its too stupid. I like to be fucked and its all good, but don’t call it that. Fuck my ass, but leave the drama for Julliard

  • To hear a man say that is disgusting.. We are men. We don’t have pussies. Big turn off. If i wanted I woman, I certainly would have no problem. I like MEN. Period! and, MEN DON’T have PUSSIES!

  • I almost hate to admit it but I love for my ass to be called a pussy or a cunt. But, it is something I discuss before sex and it is not a deal breaker if he doesn’t want to say it. I won’t say it either if it bothers him. But we decide all the dirty talk before hand. It is so hot to have the during sex dialog,

    “You like my hot little pussy?”
    “I fucking LOVE your hot little pussy.”
    “You like my cunt?”
    Oh, I LOVE your fucking little cunt.”

    And, personally I get no greater sexual thrill than when a man puts his lips close to my ear and tells me he’s about to cum in my hot little pussy.

    But, that’s just me.

  • I prefer manhole if not just some good,plain ass.Manpussy is for fems but I dig manly men.Few yrs ago had a 24yo call it his “boycunt” I said really dude? I told him I wanted his sweet ass & I fucked really hard & good to teach him a lesson about true M2M sex…

  • I really don’t care what anyone calls it. Just as long as I’m balls deep. He can call it his velvety tunnel of natural good ness for all I care.

  • I’ll be honest and say that I call it a manpussy / boypussy. I like bitchboys and submissive guys so to me it’s not only a turn on I find it normal.

  • Boy-pussy doesn’t sound quite as bad, but man-pussy? Nope, not gonna happen. Neither will “milk”, “cream”, “skeet”, “meat”, “pole”, or “mangina”. Any time I hear those terms, I picture this guy I used to work with. You know the one, you’ve worked with him, too. Think Steve Buscemi from his ‘Fargo’ era – slicked-back hair, probably greased down with Brylcreem or Vaseline or some such. He doused himself with Brut or English Leather or Jovan Musk and you can smell him before he gets out of his El Camino. Probably married and cheating on the Mrs, although she probably made him move into the guest bedroom about 3 years after they got married. Skanky. Bad dental hygiene. Zero morals.

    Oh wait, I was describing Congress. Derp.

    Anyway, yeah, just the disgusting sort of man-slime that no one wants to touch, even with someone else’s “pole”.

  • I 100% agree with you! when a guy ask me if I want my man pussy fucked I tell him I don’t own one. I tell him I have never had a pussy and I will never have a pussy.I would love for him to pound my ass.!

  • I think it adds a layer of erotic-ness to it. But it totally depends on the guy and whether he can pull it off or not. I wouldn’t want to hear a super fem talking about his pussy but if he’s a hot masc guy who says it it’d drive me crazy.

  • It doesn’t bother me in the least. As a gay man, mainly top, I have referred to my boys hole as his man pussy. It is not a pussy, but calling his ass hole a boy or man pussy is as appropriate as poop chute, tail, a-hole…. If it works for both of you it is cool. We all know a pussy is meant to be fucked, so it is appropriate analogy.

  • I use to date women back when I was younger. Know I’m in my mid twenty’s and I cannot stand for a guy to call his hole a pussy. I have stop in the middle of sex and told a guy to leave my house. I was pissed off about that. I think a person who call his hole a pussy should ask before sex if it is ok with the other person first.

  • I love it. Turns me right the fuck on, like nothing else. Back when I was a bottom, I found bi guys got really turned on by it and could work themselves into a frenzy when they heard me say it. Oh well, to each his own.

  • Really depends on usage. I also have had it used where I don’t like it, when it seems to imply I am a woman.
    But it can be sexy to when used with the right tone and purpose.

  • I call my asshole my “pucker patch.” I’ve had guys tell me they’re going to fuck my “cunt,” “pussy,” “man-pussy” – doesn’t bother me at all, I like dirty talk. But I can understand why it ruins the mood for some guys. To each his own.

  • You are right, it is not a turn on for me at all. If i wanted a pussy i would go fuck a female. Just saying

  • Who cares what you call it aslong as your getting to fucking it…

  • lol, is the writer of this the same guy who is the moderator?

    either way, you both are a BIG man pussies…

  • You are soooooo right! What gay man wants to fuck a pussy. That’s precisely what we don’t want. Turnoff all the way.

  • I have heard it called that too, and also mangina, but it is usually used by bi-guys.

  • yea they associate vaginas with man hole thats not conducive to our needs or desires this why its a turn off he probably was a dL guy and never thought about what he saying sad state of minds on this website

  • don’t like the word to describe a mans hole, the other one is cunt

  • I do not like that term and I do not find it a turn on. No need to call it something else, if you can’t accept it is an ass or anus then don’t do it. I am not fond of nutsack or nuts either as sex terms.

  • I’m a 42 years old bisexual bottom male..i love when a guy fucks me and calls my hole a pussy …some of us love to think of having one and i have met tons of hot guys into it too..i have been thinking about tatooing one nice pink pussy right on my anus to make it more real … i guess you have to just find the right guy for you but judging us for loving our pussy is not realy your place…just be cool

  • I totally agree, man pussy is a total turn-off.

  • All I can say is; Too funny!

  • The terms “pussy,” “cunt” and so on are bad enough when applied to women. When applied to men, they’re absolutely revolting. I can’t imagine anything less attractive and more likely to cause me to bolt.

  • Well, here’s my take on that topic. Since it’s normal for women to receive the penis, in a sexual relationship, than why be offended if it’s used in that way. Let’s be for real, there is not one single man who posts, or visits this site who will begin to have babies. Or better still, did it occur to you that that’s how they see the “role” that they play in a “relationship”. Have aa good day

  • Men were not born with or inherently have a “pussy,” vagina, so why do some of us feel compel to speak as if we do? A big turn-off, I agree….

  • Really I agree with you. I joke with straight guys about their man pussies but I want to pound a fucking ass or get mine pounded not think of something feminine.

  • Having to look at one is an ever bigger turn off. I know it’s there, I don’t need to see it up close and personal .

  • BIG turn off. I like real MEN.

  • I agree it is not what I want to hear while being pounded. I have mostly been a bottom in my sex life and been called everything you can think of. While being fucked I think it is funny when “straight guys” want to say “take this dick in your pussy” or “you like this cock in your cunt”. I prefer mine to be called a hole. I really wish you would talk about the F_G word and how we as gay men should not be calling each other that term? I could write all day what a negative and degrading way I have been called that over the years. I would like to hear what other guys think about that word?

  • No no noooooo nooooo man-p#%%`@ is never never a good term to use,,,no noooo !!!!!

  • Absolutely nothing against this way of refering to our fuck hole like man-pussy, man-cunt, ass-crack…or whatever else in this way..what fucking happens to be our main sexual organ ( of many) if not a kind of it? And according to my very so humble opinion, this association doesn’t make it less or effeminated in absolute anything, sure, depending on the context and tone, like everything

  • AMEN! Thank you for saying it for me! :)

  • I 100% agree with you on this. Every time I hear the term seriously used in sexual discussion, I shudder a little bit. Men don’t have pussies or pussy facsimile.

  • Definitely a major turn off.

  • Man Pussy… I hate the sound of it. I so miss good solid men. Seems like some guys are too busy trying to mimic a woman. What’s the purpose of being gay? I want dick and ass!!!

  • It’s an ass… we’re gay- masc. or fem… still an ass. If you want a pussy: fuck a girl… just saying… lol

  • Could not agree more. That’s one big turn off term

  • I guess it’s true that gay guys don’t want to fuck pussy. But straight guys – when they walk on their wild side – mostly like to get fucked, and a lot of them talk about their “man pussy” when I’m giving it to them. Just saying…

  • Please take this one down. We’re not discussing this matter. Disgusting. Want to see a dick go limp in two seconds flat?

  • THANK YOU!!!!

    I agree with you 100%. If I wanted to fuck a pussy I wouldn’t be with a man. Nothing turns me off more than the term “Man Pussy”…..girl friend….sister….etc. Why do so many gay men feel we want to be or our body parts referred to as a woman? Makes no since to me…and it’s not sexy at all.

  • As a man with an actual pussy (FtM transgender), I’ve always found it a bit jarring when cis-men claim to have pussies. Call your butt whatever you like, I guess, but it’s really not the same.

  • i love this topic for gays! its cuz youre not a bottom. lol :P i find it to be hot and a turn on and yes im a bottom. BUT its more of a personal word to describe said bottom.(meaning, i agree with you to some extent. pick the right moment to use it) its more of a term to use in the heat of the moment and its just a term we like to refer to during those hot times. yes its a little contradicting but i mean there are gays who act more feminine correct? well this sense of power they feel compared to a “non- feminine” gay is different but for every guy in the world the word pussy is a trigger word for them. hope you catch my drift. ;)

  • Calling it a boy pussy is so hot!

  • So if it is a turn off to call a mans anal cavity a pussy just what would be the correct name for it?I agree pussy kind of turns me off but not to the point that I am not going to fuck a guy who wants to call his ass a pussy.Have fun!

  • I disagree…I am ALL TOP and my bottoms LOVE for me to call it pussy…

  • It is repulsive. Aside from not wanting anything to do with one of the more despicable words describing a vagina, it’s a emasculating word in the first place. I have kicked a man out of bed and house for referring to my ass as a boy-pussy. It goes passed turn off to pure insult.

  • I agree with the turn off. If I wanted a “pussy” I would be straight. Some people just do not know how to express themselves correctly.

  • BIG turnoff.

  • I would say more guys like it in the heat of the moment like it call their man pussy

  • I am laughing out loud at this post because I’ve been there and felt the same way as you. But it doesn’t bother me so much as to make me not continue to enjoy the sex. If you’re hot and I’m into you then if you like to call either yours or mine a “pussy”, well, then, as Shirley Q. Liquor would say, “To each they own.”

  • I’ve noticed that a lot in the Kink ccommunitty. It’s has a lot to do with domination, humiliation, and immasculation. The first time I heard it used, while a guy was fucking me, I thought, “uh….ooo-kaaay.” It only bothers me a little, and sometimes (if I’m in a really submissive headspace) it’s actually a turn on.

    As with any “deal breaker,” it’s probably best to communicate your distaste for that particular vein of dirty talk beforehand.

  • Agreed!!! This is a huge turn off!!!

  • I have a problem with that too… I am from the old school… it is just what it is an “ASS” not a “MAN-PUSSY.” I wish people learn to play the game the uniform they are issued…

  • Totally agreed! ITs the fastest way to turn me off!

  • Im with ya…I want no pussy

  • Like so many things, to each his own. You may be right about the general gay population, but there are quite a few DL tops, or ones who used to be “straight”, like with an ex-wife and kids, who like to call it a pussy. Also quite a few Doms and subs like to call it that, probably to further diminish and/or humiliate the bottom by comparing him to a woman.
    The real issue here is your failure to let your partners know if something is disturbing you or turning you off.

  • I’m with you. It’s ass! I fuck man ass! I want ass and I call it ass because even saying ass turns me on. It’s not man pussy and if you insist you got one then you won’t be getting with me.

  • The term Man Pussy IS GROSS. I hate it when I hear it. I don’t want any part of a man that has a “pussy” of any sort. Just sayin…

  • I think it’s hot to call it a man or boy pussy. Being a top-it turns me on to know that I’m making a manly guy into a submissive slut for my cock. I thought it was weird at first but it’s just a way to verbally dominate a hot guy and let him know you are gonna fuck him like a bitch. But then again-to each it’s own. Some guys don’t like it when you call it fucking, while others can’t be more turned on by being a dirty lil boy for your man.

  • Shoot him. With extreme prejudice.

  • i think calling my ass a man pussy is the biggest turn off i have, call it what it is, im a man not a pussy

  • Normally, I would agree. However the stigma is the word *pussy*…
    As a man of transgsender experience (think Buck Angel), I normally just call my extra hole, just that an extra hole. Front hole, mangina, even pussy….. because regardless of who I am now, I can’t erase my past.

    I think if you are comfortable with who you are, a simple correction normally takes care of the problem.

    However if the person is disrespectful after that, block works. We all say something stupid sometimes. We humans are fallible.

    Judgement is hardly necessary. Unless needed.

  • If I wanted pussy, I would have stayed married. It doesn’t taste like chicken either. I’d rather hear “hot ass” rather than “hot pussy” ’cause I don’t have one. That would be a big turn off for me.

  • that or “When are you going to let me breed you?” Not asking my name or my status, or whether or not I even care to know theirs.

  • Yup, I agree. Keep the pussys with the straight folk. I want nothing to do with that. A hot ass, on the other hand…

  • Want to read an anthropological article about this very topic written by yours truly? See: Adams-Thies, Brian. (2012). Fluid bodies or body fluids. In Language and Sexuality 1 (2). It really isn’t as boring as it sounds I promise!!!’ Have a read :-)

  • Couldn’t agree more. That is such a turn-off.

  • *bodily not body. Apologies.

  • Agreed… Man pussy, boy pussy…. Both a total turn off.

  • I am sorry but by the time you are fucking me you should know whether I have a man pussy or not and what I mean by that. Men get so caught up in stereo types…try it you will like it. Besides call it what you want it is still a hole, and if I am fucking it I like it whether it is a man pussy or a boy pussy it is sensual and the rest is your trip. Figure out who or what your dudes are before you fuck them otherwise you are just making a nasty mess, who wants your nasty mess in their hole.

  • I too hate that term. Its an asshole. Not a pussy, cunt or vagina. When I was asked to get my mangina fucked, I said no. Get it correct, its my asshole I want fucked

  • very good question – i have always heard of a man’s ass as a man pussy – only until recently have i heard it’s offensive – i don’t think i want to use it anymore – it turned off a very hot man i was with a while back – he kept saying to stop calling me that – so i’m gonna be safe n not call it that unless i discuss it with my partner first…

    very good question tho – who can afford to lose a hot man over simple terminology that can be avoided?

  • I agree wholeheartedly. I don’t care what a guy calls his hole, but I don’t want to hear it referred to as a man-pussy/boy-pussy while I’m fooling around. It would be like a woman referring to her clitoris as a fem-cock. Unappealing and downright bizarre.

  • Well……it is what it is – I guess. I generally refer to mine as being my tight hole – or asshole……but, when joking around with friends, the word pussy has come up. I have joked about painting my home a delicious shade of Vagina Blush – once or twice. Generally, I find calling one’s ass a pussy – funny. No, it’s not a turn on for me but, it does reduce me to uncontrollable fits of laughter, which can end an otherwise hot, sexy encounter, prematurely. Captain D’s anyone?

  • 99% of gay men are only men in body, but a woman is trapped inside. Look at your own blog: You wrote “REALLY???” That’s completely female the way you used the word. Not only is it girly, it’s bitchy. Were you turned off or just pissed off because your friend saw your inner girl? I love fucking boy pussy, chick pussy, whatever. A hole’s a hole. I think you just need to lay down and get your boy pussy fucked and stop worrying about stupid shit.

  • I was just sitting reaading this woth my bf and we both agree that is the only thing that ticks us off more with our hook ups then anything. We have both had in “the moment” guys saying that. I ( top) literally got soft while fucking someone when he started saying ‘try this boisy up.’ The only thing that “that” hole should be refered to is a ass! And his question is, ‘Why do you a lot of tops espcially african american guys, think that phat ass is the same thing a pussy?” So like I was sayig, wtf does a pussy have to with an ass, besides making looking like one?

  • LMAO!!!

  • Boy pussy is hotter.

  • I’m not sure how I feel about calling it man pussy, but what really gets me is when a guy tells me he wants me to plant my seed deep inside him. Hey guys … we are both males and last time I checked I can’t get you pregnant. As a good friend once said … Butt babies don’t live … however I did hear a good joke once …. the punch line was “where do you think Lawyers come from?”

  • I couldn’t agree more! Boy/man pussy is the most unattractive statement ever! I’ve definately dismissed guys who use that term. I’m a man and I like men. Not cute at all!

  • A Mouth sa Mouth
    a hole is a hole . Sometimes my pussy gets wet …oooohhhh but ass is best !

  • I think it’s hot. The end.

  • If in the heat of the moment you’re worried about the terminology someone uses, then get the fuck out and stop having sex. I’ve called my anus (if you want to get technical), my asshole, my ass, my hole, my culo, my chute and yeah…my pussy. Know why? ‘Cause the top doesn’t give a damn as long as he’s going to fuck me….and straight guys I’ve found will use “pussy” more than anything else. Well, straight frat boy, if calling my hole a pussy will get your 8.5″ inches balls-deep in me, you can call it whatever the fuck you want.

    Get it now, eastvalleyoral?

  • The absolute LAST thing I want to hear while hammering (pun intended) out details or during sex is the word “pussy.” Whether you attach the word man or boy to the beginning, it is still not only a turn off, but a deal breaker, too!

  • Yes I’m not alone! Lol I hate when guys call it that! Why it’s such a turn off. I was having sex with this 19 year old guy (smokin hot) and he said the same thing while I was topping him…I’m like ummmmm okay I guess I’m rolling with it!

  • You just gave me an idea for a youtube video. I shall make a write and record a new song, and it will be called “Man Pussy”. My youtube screen name is 1981bendover, by the way.

  • I don’t particularly want anything pounded because I’m not into pain. I believe that when think in terms of pounding, they wind up fucking really hard before the bottom is ready for that kind of action.

    As for man-pussy, I’m a man, so I don’t have a pussy among my body parts. And as a gay man, I’m definitely not interested in pussy.

    The term is a big turn-off for me, no matter how it’s used or by whom.

  • nothing makes my boner wilt faster than my bottom mentioning anything about pussy….if i wanted pussy i’d fuck chicks

  • Some guys wanna call it a man pussy, some don’t, I’ve even heard the term “mussy” which cracks me up. As long as you wanna get your bang on with a cool, respectful guy, do what you want and enjoy yourself!:)

  • Oh god lighten up

  • I think you are making more out it than need be. Who cares what he calls his ass as long as you are fucking it? Talking dirty during sex can be very hot. I find nothing odd about calling his ass a man-pussy. Perhaps a blow up doll that doesn’t talk might fit your needs. lol

  • I love to get penetrated hard… in my anus, boy hole, hole, ass, etc. I DO NOT have a pussy. please fuck me accordingly.

  • I agree Turn off!!!

  • I dated a guy a few years ago, him and his friends would always call their asshole “pussy”. I went alone with it for a good while until I bottomed and someone called my asshole a “pussy”. Nevertheless, me and that guy did not hookup. Sadly, I still have guys around me that call their asshole “their pussy.” All I can say is this….”I came out of one, and not trying to go up in one again.”

  • And what would you do if you were with a guy and he called his hole a “shithole” or “turdbox”? I admit that I’ve called mine both of those before. lol

  • My friend texted me earlier and told me to fuck his man pussy. I thought it was pretty hot actually. Got me hard reading his text.

  • yes i do agree 1000000%

  • I call it koochi all the bttms me top think it’s cute an they laugh

  • I hate it when someone calls a hole a pussy unless it actually is a vagina. I agree with you it’s a turn off. I wouldn’t want my “pussy” to get pounded because I don’t have a pussy. Nor have I ever said “fuck my man pussy” it’s always “fuck my ass” or “make me your bitch”

  • This is such a major turn off. I have this hot sexy top guy whom I had to tell to stop saying “I love your pussy.” Not even “Boy” pussy, but PUSSY. Call it anything you want, EXCEPT pussy. He was such a good fuck however, that we compromised on my “Boy Hole” or my “Fuck Hole” or his “Cum hole” but NEVER “boy pussy” But if you looking for some good Boy pussy then Check out Carolinacharm ;) JK

  • I think that’s pretty small minded. In fact I’ll go as far as to say its pretty misogynistic to find “pussy” a turn off. There is no inherent relation between the pussy and vagina. Rather it clearly signifies the receptive organ of anal sex. For my part, I don’t care if a guy calls his anus a cunt, pussy, hole, if its tasty and tight ill enjoy pounding it and all I care about is making sure if he is having fun. Guys moaning me to fuck their cunt is going to turn me on because (1) those guys are brave enough to be honest about what they want, opening themselves up to judgement (from people like yourself) (2) they are letting go and having sex without hang ups.

    In other words, get of it or you aren’t man enough to fuck their pussies.

  • How do you quantify the terms, “most gay guys”?

  • I totally agree with you opinion. It’s a total turn off! I’ve faked it too just to get out of the bedroom! Men DO NOT have pussies!

    Peace

  • BELIEVE IT OR NOT MY REAL NAME MANUAL PUSATERRI… SO ‘MAN PUSSY” HAS BEEN MY NICKNAME ALL MY LIFE. TRUST ME. A MAN PUSSY CAN BE THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENS TO YOU… ;-)

  • I guess some guys think it makes them sound more manly/hetero to refer to the other guy in feminine terms, so he says you have a man-pussy. I wouldn’t shoot him but I’d be like “uh, I don’t have a pussy”.

    But there may be others who go for gender roleplay, like the younger guy you were with. Some guys are total bottoms and like being the submissive one, or “the girl”, so to speak. I think gender expression may be as much of a spectrum as orientation.

  • he can callit his pussy or his cunt as long as my cock is in him

  • Dude I gotta agree with you. I know some guys that think it’s hot. It just sets up the work image for me. -shudder-

  • Why do gay men insist on making everything feminine? Man-Pussy, Man-Boobs, Man-Cunt, calling each other “girl” or “sister”.

    I’m a man who lives to get fucked but if you call it a man-pussy you’re done.

  • Opening up to bottoming I would say I’m looking to get smashed. Can’t say that the lesser hetoral sexual gay guy would enjoy. I say this mostly because I’ve met men that don’t mind their asses called a pussy. I would opening up the topic that most bottoms like getting banged like they have pussys ……. I won’t

  • Definitely don’t want to be likened to a female. Nothing against them, but I’m gay. I like being with men and I like being a man.

  • Your right, It is an asshole, not a pussy. I am very turned off when It is called a “man pussy/boy pussy”

  • I love a man when he’s pounding me out to call my ass his ” pussy or man pussy” it turns me on extremely… In heat of great sex I just luv a man that’s vocal and I really don’t care what he calls my ass!

  • The term is a turn-off to the max. I equate other guys gender to my own, and I am ever so glad to not have a pussy. I try to keep in mind that it’s only slang but it is one thing that’s best left unsaid. But hey, to each his own! I guess it’s not politically incorrect.

  • man its the most ever thing to turn me off…its a big turn off to me also…I hate when guys use that term for their anus…apparently they have never had sex with a female before.because its a big difference between an anus and vagina..

  • I totally agree! This has really bothered me for a long time. Actually, the verbal feminization of any male body part is a turn off for me. No I don’t want to fuck your man pussy, and no I don’t want to suck your titties.

    I was once getting into it with a guy and started fingering his ass. Once I slid my finger all the way in he looked at me with sexy eyes and said “That’s my pussy” IN A BABY VOICE! Dick went soft, finger came out, and I remembered an early morning meeting for which I had to get ready.

  • I couldn’t agree more … if I wanted pussy, I’d be str8 (oh, wait … I’m married to a woman! How in the world did THAT happen??!?). Men don’t have pussies. Ick.

  • Well, it’s a surrogate vagina, isn’t it?

    It seems obvious that it would eventually be called, by gays, a man pussy or mangina.

    Funny, many gays will use the disparaging term “breeder” to refer to straights (as if gays are sterile), yet will say “breed my ass.” Do you like breeding or don’t you? Breeding brings more gays into the world, right?

    Isn’t that basically what being gay is about? You have the brain of a woman in the body of a man, no?

  • I agree Skorich, I much prefer to fuck an ass, not any kind of “pussy”, I do not understand the need to call things something it’s not. It is a turn off

  • I see your point on this..it all comes down to preference,and normally this term is for guys that want to really submit..and its a psychological thing..personally this would normally turn me off..but with the right very macho,dom top,it can be a turn on for sure..everyone gets turned on by different things..

  • I did don’t know that a man a boi pussy neither. Me and this dude was getting it on and he also said them exact words like how you like this pussy. And I told him that if I wanted to fuck a pussy I would go and fuck a female he told me that his pussy was just as good a female. I politely told him know because females pussy is real and he got so upset about it that he told me to pull it out and he never wanted to hear from me again. I told him no matter what the he will always have a booty hole and that is no way it would ever be called a pussy.

  • I 100% agree. I am not a woman I do not have a pussy in any form. The minute they use that term I am done.

  • I agree, I’m bi and do like pussy but there is a different and I like my men to be men……the ass I ate out and pounded yesterday was clean and hairy and all man, like the guy it was attached to, a tall, uncut hairy trucker

  • That’s fine. Send Them all my way. THICK-DICK

  • i think if they want man pussy they want the guy .. with a soft hole like a pussy ….

  • No, thank you! The term is a turnoff to me. I want my cock in a hot and hairy man’s ass! No more sushi for me!!

  • man pussy is what gay men call it-or most. i say it all the time. nothing wrong with it. i tell hot men all the time if i can eat their man pussy.

  • Its an asshole. call it what it is. Calling it a “man pussy/boy pussy” is a big turn off. I love toeat asshole BTW

  • When I read this I couldn’t help but give a hearty chuckle. I agree if in a come on line “Do you want your man pussy pounded”? I wouldn’t find that a turn on either.
    However… when chatting with friends either online, person to person,or even a group of friends, the what seems like normal camp, it’s always a riot. As an example sitting in a bar and meeting with a group of friends it never fails that for whatever reason at least one of the friends is always late. It usually seems to be the slut friend that everyone loves and adores who is generally the “Welcome Wagon” for all the men wherever they go… As they arrive with a disheveled look and hair all a mess the usual comment is “Girl look at her, late again, no doubt getting her pussy fucked somewhere” Always with fun,camp, harmless intent among friends.
    AS a come on line NO THANKS. Just my opinion

  • Lots of people have fetishes (words, motions, concepts, ideas) intimately connected to their erogenous zones for causal reasons no one can yet map. Sexual words appropriated from non-gay sex contexts can be fetishes as well as any words or actions. I like having my ass referred to in this way, because it suggests objectification, effeminization, domination, and fuckability during role play. Many tops say ‘Guys who call their hole a pussy fuck best’ and many of these tops are smoking hot by any standard. Why would you write a vitriolic post to attempt to shame people into behaving in a less diverse way, simply because it doesn’t appeal to you? That’s Pat Robertson’s game, and unworthy of a gay man. If you’re not into a role play of any kind, just say so without condemning and stifling the different tastes humans have. Think hard before you condemn, and you’ll probably be happier in the long run, and so will everyone else.

  • I think Mangaina would be sufficient.

  • You mentioned an incident where someone used that term and you then proceeded to get with him regardless. So, that’s on you.

    For a lot of guys, that particular flavor of dirty talk is very much a turn on. Just because it’s not your thing doesn’t mean it’s not perfectly valid for other people.

    If you’re not into something, you don’t have to fuck a person who is.

    i see a lot of people on these sites belittling other people’s body types,race, body modifications, kinks, and fem/masculine mannerisms. If you don’t like something, fine. You don’t need to go around bashing on people who are into it.

    If someone is into something you aren’t, see if you can negotiate an encounter that doesn’t include that or just politely decline to hook up with them and move on.

    Additionally, it’s worth noting that not every guy who fucks guys is gay anyway.

    You’ve a right to your opinion, but i take exception to the fact that A4A would publish something that presumes to tell everyone what is “attractive” and what isn’t. There are probably things all of us aren’t into, but that doesn’t mean we invalidate those things and make those people out to be somehow inferior. Just don’t hook up with them and get on with your life, and quit bitching about something as irrelevant as what someone calls their fuck-hole.

  • Talk about blurred lines. As a bi guy – I want to keep pussy and ass separate. Unless of course it’s part of a hot steamy 3way.

  • I hate pussy, even if it’s on a man.

  • I am gay – think 6+ on the Kinsey scale – so reference to female parts is a turnoff (as are a**holes as big and gaping as a vagina) I do laugh at the term “mangina”, tho I really prefer a nice tight ass for just about anything : )

  • We’re all different, so of course our preferences are different. Personally, I like the term man-pussy, both for my own fuck hole and for a buddy’s, but then I’m bi-versatile for versatile, and I think that partially accounts for it. I love to fuck and lick woman pussy when I get the chance, and a hot fantasy for me is getting screwed while I’m nailing a babe. I hope to one day find a bi woman who’ll nail me with a strap-on. I think it kinda depends on whether a twat is an appealing thing in and of itself. Many gay men feel genuine revulsion toward female genitalia. It’s a fundamental difference between gay and bi. But both are OK, so let’s live and let live.

  • Totally agree! big turn off!

  • I agree…..man….and pussy just don’t go together…If i want to fuck a woman they are out there…..BUT I love to fuck and seed a hot mans Ass and want my bud to be alllll MAN. LIke to watch his eyes roll back in his head when my fat cock stretches his hungry ass.

  • Definitely a turn off for me. I was married for 20 years (still am actually) and vagina is something I am not interested in anymore and any reference a man makes to it is just wrong. A vagina and a man’s ass aren’t even close to the same in feeling and texture. I can’t even describe the difference but honestly they both feel great but in different ways. If a guy said that to me I could still finish but I would have to tell him next time don’t call it a pussy.

  • I have many tops refer to my hole as a boy-pussy or pussy. I often get messages like “I want to fuck that pussy” or “I’m going to wreck that pussy” or “looks like that pussy can take a pounding.” But you are not alone. A lot of guys don’t like the term. I personally never refer to my hole as a pussy unless they use the term as its not for everyone. Alot of guys seem to like the term “Gash” to describe my hole…guess that’s what I deserve for serving it up to big black men..lol

  • Absolutely agree! Since when do any of us have a pussy?

  • STOP BEING SO UPTIGHT!!! I don’t get why the phrase man-pussy or boy-pussy turn’s you off so much, when I’m sure you know the difference between what a girl’s pussy and a guys asshole looks and feels like. It’s just a phrase! We all require a little dirty talk to get our juices flowing; so if your sexual partners, who are willing to let you pound them hard, request’s that you call their asshole’s man-pussy or boy-pussy, just suck it up and FUCK them, and stop whining about a harmless phase.

    At the end of the day, you’re getting a piece of ass instead of jerking off alone.

  • your more of a queen the the guy wanting you to fuck his pussy, its totally acceptable and a huge turn on who wouldnt want to fuck a man pussy, grow up man times are a changing

  • manhole sounds better to me than man pussy. too feminine

  • your comment section don’t seem to be working!

  • I agree. It’s a stupid term. Any man that thinks he has a pussy is nuts in my book.

  • Yeah, right on! You’re right on point, I’ve ‘jokingly’ refered to the male anus in said fashion. However, seriously, during sex, NO! Someone who is seriously into havin’ it refered to like that, I can not seriously been into, and yes, “pun” intended.

  • Who cares what its called? Humans are so obsesses with bullshit labels that they miss out on and/or forget the love that’s right in front of them. Sex should be a fun thing, a time to forget and play with each other. Who cares if he calls it a “man-pussy”? He’s interested in you, what’s the big deal if you disagree over terminology?

    Like my friend told me, “I don’t care what you call it as long as we’re having sex”

    Getting worked up over words is something our scumbag politicians and grumpy old men do

    For the record I love drilling boypussy…please don’t think of power-tools and blood when I say drilling

  • @all. when I write these blog entries I try to keep it light and interesting. I realise there are opposing views and that’s great. it is not my intention to piss anyone off.

    thanks for all the great comments

  • Honestly,,, I totally love it. It is a total turn on to me. With being a totally submissive, slave, pussyboi, I actually want my MASTER or partner to tell me that. I guess thats part of the humiliation I enjoy.

  • As a Bottom that I am, I dont care how they call my tight hole. I just love getting pounded and Only real men can do that hehe ;)

    So my manpussy mangina etc is always ready for action.

  • I a HOMO so it’s a all about MEN COCK BALLS and HOLE You bring up women or female parts during sex and your out . If your Bi that’s your business but I don’t want to hear about it and I certainly don’t wanna watch straight porn , what the fuck is that about . Bring on the haters

  • Why do you have to call it anything, what happened to making love without all the names. Is it not enough to just be with someone and enjoy the time together. Manpussy just sounds like some nasty name to call someone.

  • It amazes me that so many guys here are judgmental about other people’s fantasy preferences. Gays and bisexuals OF ALL PEOPLE should have learned by now that tolerance for people’s differences is a basic necessity. If you are so revolted by someone else’s fantasy preference that it makes you sexually dysfunctional with them, maybe it’s time to loosen up a little and learn to accept people as they are. Isn’t that what the rainbow is all about?
    I especially had to laugh at the comment complaining that people were spelling and punctuating slang words for body parts incorrectly. GET REAL! Grammar police for sex slang? GEEEEZ!

  • getting real tired of trying to post my opinion on stuff and never getting posted.
    What up with that! I don’t post anything offensive and seen 3 people who said the same thing as me and their comment was posted

  • I’m into young guys and if they want to call it their boi pussy like the guy in the pic, I’m game. Call it what you want while I’m fucking you, it’s cool. like dirty nasty talk while sucking and fucking.

  • All you guys who find it offensive should stick to masculine on masculine sex and don’t moan when he hit’s your spot and just grunt. I’m masculine and I prefer fems who want that pussy explored…

  • I don’t think there is anything wrong with a man referring to his ass as “boi-pussy” or something close to that. I mean after all, it is HIS ass. He can call it whatever he likes. I think people dislike the term because it makes the bottom partner seem feminine and somewhat close to a woman. And most gay men always say (this same bullshit) “If I wanted a woman I would go get a girlfriend”. Which isn’t the case, because your girlfriend doesn’t have a dick. We live in a world where there really isn’t any 100% masculine men. So with that being the case, all of you better start to embrace the feminine qualities that gay men have in one another because if you get turned off everytime someone says something feminine you will be ALONE and miserable with 12 cats for the rest of your fucking life. All of you should just suck it up. There’s nothing wrong with a man being masc, fem, or whatever. Be who you are.

  • I picked up a guy at a bar and brought him home. Once we decided to take it to the bedroom, he cooed, “I can’t wait to feel you inside my man-pussy.”

    I slapped him right across the face.

    Used the same hand to jack off that night.

  • I don’t care what you call it. Just bend over and spread ‘em.

  • Araz:

    I suppose it’s all about who you hang out with and where, but there are plenty of nearly all masculine gay men out there. Most just don’t even bother with the mainstream “gay community”, don’t speak with the learned stereotypical gay lisp, their favorite music isn’t by divas. They have their own circle of friends etc., who dare to be who they want to be, like what they want to like and be sexually turned on by who they want to be sexually turned on by.

    Being gay does not require anyone to be a certain way. Gay isn’t a club one joins, with gay rules etc., it’s not a group-think religious cult and there is no pledge of gay allegiance which obligates all gay guys to be together in some uniform way of being.

    Like straight guys; gay guys are just as diverse in who they enjoy being around and some gay guys have their own taste is guys they like being around and having sex with. It doesn’t mean that anyone hates anyone else. Some gay guys just like other guys they have more in common with is all.

    Other gay guys can do and or be whatever they like or call their butt holes whatever they like.

  • as a gay man i believe we have zero tolerance for anything who doesn,t look alike everywhere is label if i want to call your hole a pussy like it or not i will is not about always what you like but what i want gay are like the french they don,t like anyone or anything beside themselves theirs ego are so big they should take a mirror under their legs maybe they can see theirs pussy
    fantasy is est for good sex open your mind your hole will follow like a pussy

  • I heard the term pussy boy and I also had this dude said let me fuck the boy pussy, and while we fucking he be saying yea yo boy pussy feels good.

  • it’s a turn off for me bc to it’s not sexy and more so not masculine at all! Although i know guys who love using the term but you know “to each his own” right? I think the word is so funny but i think it should never b use during a hot hookup. lol I’m tryin to bust a nut or two not putting on a comedy show.

  • Yea that term turns me the fuck off. It is an ass and you have an asshole. I fuck women still and that would be like a woman saying fuck my asshole but referring to her pussy. It is just a dumb term and makes no sense whatsoever

  • Have you noticed that 199 of your members have “pussy” in their screenname?

  • That’s a BIG turn off!!! I’ve heard people calling it mangina !

  • Gee Guys don’t we have enough to worry about, then what our ass is call. it don’t make me no different just fuck me and shut up

  • I have to agree to a point on this one as well, I like rugged masculine men and younger guys as well I guess I’m not into the whole feministic gay thing. I’m not attracted to guys that talk with a lisp( no offense ) I’m not attracted to men who act like they are the queen of the century. I like my men firm in their skin, and your not a girl so why should I treat you like one? I know that no matter where I go in the gay community there are feminine men some of them are really great friends of mine, but when it comes to an attraction I’m not going to fuck your pussy and I will end the sex session or just pretend to have an prgasm so I can get the hell out. :)

  • Many of you guys are showing why the LGBT community has a hard time being accepted. With all your prejugdices,what does it matter and why not just stick with your type. Most masculine guys usually prefer masculine and they use manly terms on each other. Why can’t the rare few masculines who prefer fems have our choices too? We like fems, transgenders, crossdressers, and queens who call their parts female names. Why can’t we live and let live…

  • Yet you go to the bar and everyone’s GUUURL!

  • It doesn’t bother me. In fact one of the most downright sexiest guys that recently fucked me called it that, and that was a first for me. If it turns you off then tell the other person. I hate it when people play games like faking an orgasm simply for the sake of fucking.

  • Gay communities are a varied bunch. Every gay dude has something that they don’t like. (I have dislikes as well. I will own them and people respect them. I respect people’s dislikes as well. No problem.)

    I have called a dude’s asshole a “manpussy” before. (I was turned on at the time. He was a delicious power bottom.) That guy didn’t like it. I apologized. We still fucked the whole night and a little bit the next morning before work.

    Everytime thereafter,I never referred to his asshole a manpussy again in his company out of respect and high regard for him.

    Lesson learned. It is best to find out the sexual terms of endearment one likes before using them shotgunned.

  • I cant stand the term…I once was gonna bottom for really hot twink, and after he has me with my ankles on his shoulders reday to fuck, he says to me, “Im gonna tear your boi pussy up!”…..I threw him the hell off me and told him to gtfo!…BIG TURN OFF!

  • I LOOOOVEEEEE MY HOLE BEING CALLED PUSSY OR BOI PUSSY. You people are such whimps. Get over it. A true bottom knows his place.! fuck off.

  • NO NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!!!!! IT IS NOT TO BE CALLED THAT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES. >=(

  • i say the same thing to every guy that fucks me,,,,,,,,,yeah fuck my tight ass,,,,,or i had guys ask me if they can fuck my hot ass or can i fuck that gorgeous ass!!!

  • Ok…all these guys saying how much they dislike these terms..but from personal experience when a so called masc. Or top guy has approached me these are the same terms they use when trying to engage or initiate …and not once have I ever said come fukk my pussy yea i’m fem but that jus sounds weird saying it to a guy but I do have a phat round ass if that intrest you…lol

  • In the middle of sex this guy blurted to me “I want your baby”. Everything went south after that.

  • What’s next?? Fuck my vajina??? Hell no

  • ok …well i guess that why so many of us are alone and on adam we don’t like anything beside our ego we judge everyone no tolerance for other if i like to say let me eat that pussy hole is my thing and if you don,t like you can always go but so many bottoms you won,t go to scare not to get no dick in that pussy
    i like what i like and i,m not asking you to like if you don’t get to next dick and you will is never enough for you .!!!

  • you do act like a pussy go figure.

  • Call it a man-hole, or a fuck-hole, but don’t ever call it a pussy, or a vagina, or mangina.

  • I think it’s degrading to our manhood. call it a fuck hole. it sounds better. man pussy or boy pussy is just wrong. if i wanted some hot guy to call me that. i would stop him and tell him to get the hell out of my house. i was married for 3 yrs. and even then i couldn’t stand it then. why use that fraze now. big turn off. gay and proud. i rather rim and fucking pound a man’s asshole. thank you very much.

  • I have heard it been called many thing’s, I do not think it resembles a pussy,so why call it that, I heared it been call a mancunt, which is a big turn off, and I have a good friend that calls his ass hole a “manhole”, before I comment on that, I call mine my ” my hot hairy italian ass” I do like the term “manhole”

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