Dating is hard, we all know that but one thing that can make it easy is honesty. I’m not talking about being honest with the other person but being honest with yourself. Ask yourself what it is you want from a potential partner. Think about what it is you expect, will overlook and what you will tolerate.
Wanting to date someone just because they are cute, have a great ass or a hot cock is great for a while and might even be great for a lasting relationship but is this all you want from another person? Let’s say you like working out and you meet someone who hates to work out but has a great ass. Now like most men you might say hey, this is cool I can deal, I’ll give it a couple weeks. If you are looking to fuck someone then it’s probably ok but if you are looking to date someone then eventually you will probably want your partner to like some of the things you like.
Find someone who shares your interests and has some of the same goals as you, be honest with yourself on what you expect from someone. Most people settle and hope the other person will change or worse that they can become the person the other person wants. That’s another story.
g skorich AKA eastvalley