We all know the scenario, two guys who have been in a relationship for some time are having problems and they decide to break up. For whatever reason one of them can’t move out and they end up being roommates.
They lay the ground rules down and things are moving along nicely. They go to dinner together, movies, hangout on the weekends. They do everything they use to do together except at the end of the day instead of going to one bedroom they go to their own rooms.
Eventually one of them starts to pull away from the other one and starts doing more things on his own. While they are broken up there are still a lot of unresolved feelings that haven’t had a chance to heal. It’s during this time that one of them starts dating again.
Suddenly the other one wants him back. This is where it gets all crazy. Emotions fly and feeling get hurt, those unresolved feeling have a way of getting resolved. Sometimes these guys end up back together or one finally moves out.
Being friends with an ex is a great thing but only after you have had time to resolve any unresolved feelings. It’s probably easier if you are the one breaking up but if you are the one being kicked to the curb, do yourself a favor and take the time.