I’ve been dating this younger guy for the past few months and everything is great. Really great in fact. One thing that comes up is when we have sex, I don’t always have an orgasm and I’m ok with it. He has said something about it but I reassure him that it has nothing to do with him.
That makes me wonder, what’s more important, the orgasm or the act of having sex? For me it’s pretty simple. It’s the act of sex. I love sex, I love watching my boyfriend while we have sex. Sometimes I wish I had more hands, lol.
I suppose when I was younger it was the orgasm that signals a job well done, but now that I am older it seems a job well done is seeing my boyfriend cum.
So guys, what do you think? Is the orgasm more important or the sex act. Where do you find more enjoyment?