Let’s say you are on A4A on a Saturday night looking for Mr. Rightnow. Someone catches your eye so you exchange details and you head over to his place. You guys exchange a couple text messages on your way over and all is good.
You walk in and start chatting and he asks you if you want something to drink, water is fine you say and you guys continue your conversation. 45 minutes goes by and you realize there isn’t going to be anything sexual happening tonight. You wrap up the conversation and say you need to head out.
I was talking with a friend of mine about this situation and his first response was “Fuck, not one of those guys that wants to chat” I asked him what he meant by that.
He explained that when he hooks up he prefers guys to come over and get down to business right away with little or no chit chat. He said they usually talk afterwards or the guys just leaves. Fair enough. I was always different when I was hooking up on line. Not sure if it was nervousness or what it was but I had to talk to the guy before we had sex. Sometimes I had sex and sometimes I didn’t.
So my question to you today is this: when you hook up with someone do you prefer the get in, get it done and get out or do you mind a little chit chat?