Hi guys, I received an email from Love102, he was asking me to post about the top (more dominant) / bottom (more submissive) relationship. He was wondering if he was alone thinking that a top has to be more manly than him and wearing the pants in a relation?! He said he personally finds it sexy when a man can do things he cannot do himself, like fixing the flat tire of a car for example.
So he wants to know do bottoms like tops to “take control” in the relationship? What about tops, are they turned on when they are looked up to?
I’m like Love102, I am 100% bottom and like my man to be more “masculine” or “manly” than me. I like a man that is taking the lead in life and in bed as well. I’m not saying I would let him control my life, not at all. I have a strong personality, career driven, ambitious…but I like to be the younger, the boy in the relationship, more on the sub side in bed.
Let me know your thoughts on this. I guess for versatiles it is different, let me know what you think about this and what’s your role in the relationship?