22 Aug 2014

Hot or Not : Bondage

Category: Fantasy : Hot or Not : Jack-off material

I have to admit that this is not my thing (probably because I’m claustrophobic) but there’s a lot of guys out there that seem to like this practice of restraining a partner to a bed, from ceilings etc.

For those of you who like me, are not very familiar with this practice, here are few things you should know :

Bondage is not to be confused with the more specific practices of B&D, the practice of restraining and then dominating or humiliating a partner or S&M, the practice of hurting one’s patner in order to achieve sexual climax. Bondage enthousiasts generally prefer the more docile form. Porn sites usually blend all these practices in their content though, I guess bondage, B&D and S&M go well together…

Would you experiment ? Personally, I would not, even if I tend to like brutal tops… being tied up would freak me out!

Do you find bondage hot or not? Feel free to leave a comment below…

Dave

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83 comments for Hot or Not : Bondage

  • bondage can be kool if u do it right light bondage is the most sensual for me i have done it and loved it nothing rough

  • I would like to be tied up and gangbanged by several guys

  • Well i done then handcuff, silk scarf, and blindfold thing (which is actually fun), but to be tied up and be full restricted like the guy in the pic i wouldn’t do.. I never got into the whole bondage thing or any aspect of it as well. Heck, i hate a man thats too aggressive myself.. Too me an aggressive man makes me feel as though he’s desperate and thats a turn off for me.. I guess thats why i hate bondage, i don’t like aggressive/domunating men.. A man whose assertive is hot as fuk, but dominating or aggressive man is not.. Its an instant deflat like hearing men calling their ass boi-pussy, man-pussy, manhole, or mangina..

  • Intriguing, yes. But, I can’t give up my power like that. I fear that someone might leave me tied up. No way.

  • I’ve been restrained once in my bed by an long time hookup buddy. It was pretty hot but I don’t think I would do it with anyone I didn’t completely trust. The whole torture thing though is out of the question. I more like it because the other man has control when restrained and you can just sit there and enjoy, pain free :)

  • Absolutely NO! I find it nuts, as well as, playing with food too.

  • Love it

  • The thought a smooth innocent and pure Twink tied up and bound with his ass open for me to pound with out restraint get me all hot-&-bothered. I have not tried it but if I could afford all the equipment id love to try it.

  • None of the above, thanks… no appeal to me.

    I’ve laughed at guys who suggest it, kind of spoils the mood.

  • Find it hot. Love being restrained and used and abused.

  • I find it really hot to look at and I’d wanna try it, but I’m not really confident enough in my bottoming skills to give up all control like that. That’s my main reason for not wanting to explore it more.

  • I think some mild bondage can be very fun if both parties are trusting of the other, and in agreement about the limits. Handcuffs to bedposts, hands cuffed behind their back while I am sucking their cock, legs cuffed to the bedposts while on their stomach and I am rimming and fucking from behind, simple stuff like that. Just knowing you are giving them extreme pleasure and they can’t escape, it HOTTT for both parties!

  • Not hot in my opinion…

  • Have never done it. Would probably get off on mild B&D (with no humiliation) providing limits are respected. Won’t know until I try!

  • NOT hot.

  • It depends on the type of bondage, I don’t mind handcuffs or having arms lightly tied with rope, but when it is in sling, having head restraints or anything used to hurt the bottom no way

  • OMG,,, I love to be restrained. Totally a turn on to me. IF there is some BDSM involved,, I’m still up for it. HELL YES

  • I find bondage porn REALLY hot. The only reason I’ve never tried it is

    A) I don’t have the body to pull off leather
    B) I’m not confident enough in my bottoming skills to give up control like that. Not yet.

  • I think bondage is awesome, I do however think respect and attention needs to be paidby both parties for the experience to be enjoyable. Start simple, experiment and enjoy your efforts. Once you’ve become more experienced you can try other practices.

  • I personally love being made to submit, being tied up and fucked out my mind. Its a huge turn on for me at least. And being what is known as a human pup doing whatever my master says is sometimes thrilling all on its own. Though most the time they tell me to do stuff thats pleasurable too. And the bondage is awsome

  • No bondage isn’t hot. The fact that you beat, hit, humiliate another person to get off makes no sense. And it’s like leather it starts off with one or two things, then u aren’t getting off so you do more, try more, and pretty soon you aren’t getting off just trying to have straight sex.

  • Bondage play can be very hot! The most fun is finding those sensitive areas and listening to the moaning.

  • Yes, I am a sub bottom and enjoy all of this, I like being restrained to the bed and being spanked and paddled and other things. I like to please the man I am with and whatever he enjoys I am up for.

  • You know, I really do like bondage but for a long time thought there was something wrong with me. Sites like Straighthell and Brutal tops was the only thing for awhile that would turn me on. Then I actually tried it and it didn’t quite work for me. I had too much self esteem to “bonded” and other s&m fun. On the other hand I had too much compassion to treat someone else like that – even if they wanted to! Power dynamics are such a strange thing. Ultimately, I realized while it’s fun to watch porn like that from time to time, the emotional connection is what matters most in intimate relationships. While I’m aware many dome and subs have an emotional connection, I couldn’t help but feel like I was playing a game. For me, this is a case of the fantasy being better than the reality.

  • Do not get tied up in your own home.
    Never with strangers.
    Do it with someone you absolutely trust.

  • There is a spectrum of B&D and S&M from mild to insane. Gotta be with someone you can trust and who will respect your limits. To the degree that I would allow happen, both were exciting the first time. But in the end, I just like good sex without all the ropes, chains, clothes pins, wax, blindfold, leather costume, safe words, etc.

  • HOT between trusted freinds.. not something you do with out pre set rules..I luv being bound and helpless to my mans will

  • I don’t trust anyone enough to do bondage. What if they don’t let you go? Same for glory holes. Why would you stick your dick through a hole not knowing what the person on the other side may have (ie; knife, scissors, etc.). Don’t think I want to explain that in the emergency room. Nope, not for me.

  • Never tried it but it’s always been a fantasy of mine. I don’t know what it is about being tied down and fucked that turns me on so much. Would definitely have to be with someone I know and 100% trust though.

  • I always thought I wanted to be restrained by others and let them be in control. After doing some self bondage and getting good with knots, it was difficult to find someone I trusted. Putting I like bondage in my profiles got me talking to guys into the same thing I was. They wanted to be tied up and I knew the knots.
    I discoved I like tying a guy naked to the bed and playing with them. Learning what each guy liked and hated. Long edging sessions where the guy can not stop me, especially after they cum.
    I never knew how much fun being rough on a guys balls can be fun for both of us. Guys have told me they had the best orgasam they have ever had tied up. But you have to find someone you can trust.

  • I am all bottom and I’ve tried bondage once and to me it is totally hot. My top had my wrist shackled to the ceiling my ankles chained to the floor spread wide apart. Then he put a gag ball in my mouth and blindfolded me. I was rock hard. Then he used me for his pleasure. One of the best experiences of my life. Wish I could get it again. Totally hot.

  • Hot. Very hot.

  • I was first ‘tied’ about 5 yrs ago and have been about 6 or 7 times since.. wish I could find more. To be blindfolded, restrained and then ‘made’ to suck cock or have my ass played with (toys, or cock) makes me hard just thinking about it.
    My job has me in charge most of the day, to give up the control is a great release and total turn on.

  • I was first ‘tied’ about 5 yrs ago and have been about 6 or 7 times since.. wish I could find more. To be blindfolded, restrained and then ‘made’ to service whoever has me tied mouth or hole(toys, or flesh) makes me hard just thinking about it.
    My job has me in charge most of the day, to give up the control is a great release and total turn on.

  • Definitely VERY hot.

  • I love bondage. Being blindfolded and tied down to a bed, table or over a chair it’s so HOT. Not knowing who or what is going to happen next is always the best part.
    Been told once to enter garage eyes closed and was tied up to something over my head and got a full body shave, than taken to a room and put to use for the guys pleasure.Was returned to garage where I was aloud to uncover my eyes and leave never seeing him. It still get’s me hard thinking of that night.

  • There is nothing quite like giving up power to another person. This can be done through bondage, or other role play scenarios. I’m not sure why it appeals to me so much, but I am happiest when I am being used by another man for his pleasure, especially when I am bound and completely helpless. I would not suggest it on a first date as it is important to know the person first. As always safe sex is a must even when bound.

  • For me, quality time with a good man or men is very enjoyable. So, enjoyable that when I’ve tried toys, slings, roleplays, etc., those become distractions. I just prefer to learn during repeated play with buds what small actions make their toes curl, what makes them moan, what makes them spasm, etc. It’s a matter of exploration and experimentation. There’s nothing better than when a good long term bud says “shit, no one has ever made me react like that before.” And if something new works with one guy, I’ll try it with another. Not all tries are wins, but when they are it’s golden.

    As with all things in mansex, it’s a matter of what the players are comfortable with, what turns them on, and what they’ve agreed to do on the workbench. For me, dominance, S&M, bondage, toys, drugs, etc. during sex are superfluous. Keeping sex straight up, for me, is perfect.

  • Some of the points you made are some of the reasons most guys pass on bondage: claustrophobia and being freaked out. I find rope exciting. True, I like making out and sex without rope, but there’s something hot about the sight of a sexy guy with his hands tied behind him and his arms bound. Part of what makes sex work is tension. The heart rate changes, breathing changes, anticipation builds. Sensitivity rises as all the senses become more alert. Now, add in the openness and trust of a guy letting me tie him up. He willingly let’s me begin binding his hands. Once they’re tied, he knows he’s passed a hurdle. And he partly feels he’s given up that little bit of freedom, so he gets a little nervous–accentuating the tension he felt trying to hook up. As I move his body around, applying the wraps and knots, I feel his reactions and he feels my hands and the texture of the rope on his skin. As I reasonably tighten the bindings, I feel him resist. And he feels my control. It’s an ascending headiness. And when I’m done, he knows it, and now he realizes I’m going to be responsible for everything that follows. His flexing and sqirming accentuates my awareness of his responses, and he can only experience his own pleasure, since he isn’t free to do for me. And if he wants to, he can only gesture. If he wants to kiss or use his mouth on me, he has to wait for my move. So I see how badly he wants to, and I can stall it, so it builds up even more. If I tease and foreplay, he can’t jack himself, so he builds up even more. And I get to enjoy prolonging his pleasure. If he gets coy, turning from a kiss or flinching from a ticklish caress, he knows I can still do what I wish, so it adds another playful twist. But only one of us really takes the lead in the flow of events, so the pressure is off him. He can only watch and wait to see what next pleasure I give. It tests my alertness to his body language. And if we agreed as fully as we should have, before the first knot got tied, he knows I can look after my own needs. He knows he has to let me get mine. The only limit is boundaries agreed in any sex, with or without bondage (and of course, I keep an eye on his color and circulation. Those wiggles let me know he’s not getting numb). After the orgasms, he may want to stay bound, like a self-contained cuddle. And a chance to relish the nervous tension of self-denial and unknown anticipation. Maybe I do more, seeing how much layered pleasure he can stand. Maybe I untie him slowly, to see how horny he still is. Maybe he gives me a grin and reaches for the rope. And I turn around. And put my hands behind me.

  • I personally love a little bondage. Getting completely dominated makes me super horny. It all depends on your personality. I think b&d and especially s&m are very hot.

  • Bondage isn’t my cup of tea! I often feel that bondage, dominating or humiliation, along with S&M are not sexual expressions, but more physical! I also think that some of our gay men feel that it less “fem” if they are this masculine person in control in the bedroom! and then, much of the behavior is apart of our hetero friends too! Hence, Sex is Sex and love making is love making! who’s to say?

  • hot, like being tied up…..but its also nice to see a cute guy struggling…..gotta try it…..you might like it!!

  • Being bound and defenseless with whatever material for whomever is not something I will even contemplate. I refuse to do it or even think about it, no matter how much I may like someone. I don’t even look at bondage scenes, does not interest me at all. No way, Jose. If someone is into it, then that’s their bag, definitely not mine!!

  • I actually enjoy it. Like the feeling of just having to take what’s being done. It’s kind of adventurous as long as it does not get out of hand.

  • HOT

  • I’ve tried hardcore bondage, it was fun as a fantasy. Been stripped on the side of the road, hog tied and shoved in a trunk,, then taken to an unknown share house and strung from the curling for a whipping, then taken down again, driven home tied to a bed and ducked for an hour. Mostly, I just got bored. Soooo bored. But that’s cause I like being interactive not passive. I’ve tried several other bondage scenarios over the years.

    The only thing that really made it hot was the tinge of fear brought with helplessness. Once I got over that, it just became a chore.

  • Bondage to a muscular smooth good looking stud is HOT. Muscles defenseless to be explored, teased and played with.

  • NOT

  • never had tried it but would be willing to try with the right guy. Got to be light, not dominate

  • Strangely enough, I have found that mostly bisexual dudes are into being bound up and fucked or as one regular bi dude likes…bound up, orally fucked and then have his balls and penis zapped with a small electrical charge (it does nothing other than a sharp shot of pain and then a numbing sensation for a half hour later). But he pre-cums so much just in the anticipation of being zapped (while being bound up in my cage) that I have to put a drip pan at his feet, now. His record is 2 shots to the tip of his penis and two to his balls. I don’t know how he does it, but after each “treatment” as he calls it, he is able to unleash a huge string of cum. Which, I dutifully make him lap up off my chest.
    For me, the pleasure comes from seeing them in my cage, bound and naked. I take pictures of the whole process from start to end, and of course send them out to the lads that have agreed to take part. I find doing this to be a great form of artistic expression, and it lets off a lot of steam, to see them so vulnerable.

  • i find it very fun…when i reach a point i trust the dude…i love to be tied, gagged, and defiled…..would love to do this for 3 or more to own my holes…

  • Bondage can be very hot when in the mood and feel safe enough. Done it with bfs as a good bottom. I still remember a hot time with a stranger. Got handcuffed to the posts under the bed. He asked if I was ok with it. I flipped the bed up, pulled my cuffs out and turned to him before the bed hit the floor. We made out while I was still cuffed the I got back in position. I ended up with a wine enema and a good fuck.

  • Would love to try bondage as a top! As far as discipline… I’ve only done that as a top. Surprise! I get into spanking a hot dude’s ass! Just hard enough to be hot..

  • Light bondage, like being tied up or handcuffed while someone is fucking u would be hot. However, I would have to trust the person or persons doing it 100%S$M no way. I like pleasure not pain during sex.

  • I want to get tied up in a sling & then Gang banged

  • haven’t found the right guy to get into trying this yet. i grew up being the not so willing test subject of being tied up, blind folds, etc. having been awhile since this happened. i’ll consider most anything with the right one.

  • As with most things sexual, to each his own. Personally I love bondage and submitting to my top be it someone I know or a stranger. I find this VERY erotic. Some guys it scares the hell out of. Again it is all about how the individual feels about it. I am a submissive bottom so any dominant top is gonna get what he wants and how he wants feom e!!

  • Good Guy….good time…tied up with my best $80 tie…and squirt city. Same guy caused some squirts on the outdoor backstairs with me tied to the rail. I always assumed he was a typical plumber…!!??

  • Not hot. I want to be a full, willing participant in my submission to a Man.

  • My boyfriend and I do this on a regular basis. There is nothing like be restrained by the one you trust the most and letting him take control of you. I would only do this with someone I completely trust. There is nothing like having his big dick in my mouth and ass and having no control over it. Also into being blindfolded. We also like people to watch us having sex and jerk off while they watch us…

  • So hot

  • I am very motivated in trying the bondage, anonymous scene.
    The very thought of being at someone else’s beck and call while being blindfolded. Not knowing who or what was going to happen to me.

  • I have recently gotten into watching bondage and edging on a porn site. It really gave me a different feeling while j/o. I have a very quiet life and haven’t been with anyone in over 10 years so finding this was quite fun. I don’t think I could be tied up unless it was someone I already knew. But I could easily do it to someone willing to. Some of the intricate knots I saw were quite artistic looking and the guy being edged/tied was quite hot. Since I don’t have the proper body for it, I doubt I’ll ever be able to find a hot guy to do it with. But one can always dream :-).

  • Personally it’s the main part of my fetish. I need to be restrained , tied up and put on display. I would never do any of the things I’ve been working up to if not while being tied up. It makes the excitement almost addicting.

  • Personally I love bondage. But many of you above have the wrong idea. The question for discussion clearly distinguishes between bondage, b and d and s and m, but only asks about bondage. So lots of you said things that amount to “bondage isn’t hot because I don’t like s and m.”. others said “I don’t like bondage because I couldn’t give up control… its a fantasy folks… some people like sexy undies, or tight jeans or drag… its not like you’re gonna get raped… (although pretending can be hot)…

    in fact its usually the one tied up who’s running the show. Think about it… if you’re tied up you really don’t have to do much but sit there and be serviced…
    And most people who are into bondage aren’t morons… its your lover or partner or close friend doing this with you… not a one time hook up… that would be masochistic (s and m…) to the point of madness. so its not the discussion intended.

    All in all I’m disappointed in you all for this discussion… of course its hot… or people wouldn’t do it… and if you can’t see that what someone else likes in bed is hot… how will you know what to try next? We fags should know better than anyone that diversity is the engine of progress. We should be ashamed of not being able to recognize and accept it in our community. How many of us suffered how much because others couldn’t recognize ours? And now were sitting here together doing the same thing to ourselves? Shame folks… shame…

  • There is something very hot about being held down by either the person or by rope and chains. I love getting fucked when a man ties me down, puts a blindfold on me and leaves my ass open and ready for use. I still have that in my head. A guy I met online I went over and he blindfolded me, cuffed me to a sawhorse and introduced me to a riding crop. it was crop for about 10 mins then fucking for about 15. best sex I had. I swear to this day that at least 2 or more people took turns on me.

  • I love the idea but not interested into anything which involves pain, blood or scat. But again… Is hot to watch some videos…

  • i think bondage is very hot specially if it includes me getting the belt to my naked ass making me cry and beg for and get no mercy .. i love getting dry drilled to it is so hot to be madfe to take it…

  • I always wanted to find a man on the X, on the cross naked.
    So I could torture his cock and balls for hours by making them feel so good he begs for mercy. See how many times we can make him cum. A guy or two taking care of his cock and a guy sucking and licking his balls at the same time.
    And I would like to be on the cross having men do that to me.
    The cross has straps we hang onto we are not bound to it.
    All men should kick back one way or another sometime in there life to find out what it is like to be milked for hours and hours. This is something that makes better men out of us.
    Celebrate manhood often. Enjoy and be proud of our cocks and balls and all the pleasure we can get and give to others with them. Keep those balls in good shape with good workouts. Often Keep smiling guys. Makes every one wonder why we are so happy.

  • Personally, I like parts of it, but is not something I normally partake in. When I have bottomed in the past, I let the top tie up my hands for the sake I couldn’t touch myself. That I like! Other than that, I don’t really get into it.

  • Depends on with who

  • Bondage has an edge to it that, for me, is very uncomfortable. It is almost as if we, as gay men, are subsurvient. I’m not sure that I understand the mind of a man willing to be abused. Does he want to punish himself for being gay?

  • very hot :)

    When iam about to meet a guy to do some bondage,
    I always tell them
    I will keep my hands on them at all times and when I blindfold them I do the same

  • I just spent 2 days tied up and being abused this weekend. I’m a jock, 5’10 175, multiple piercings and tats, look decent in leather. ;) A guy I met on adam tortured me for hours, this included heavy biting (broke the skin multiple times), whipping, fisting, heavy tit work (great clamps and more biting), and so on. We videoed a lot of it. He bit my dick hard enough so that the skin broke too. I couldn’t put a shirt on afterwards because my nipples were so tender and sensitive. Needless to say, it was hot.

  • My first experience with it was bad. I was tied down on my back. The guy rode me until I nutted. He took my condom off and splatted it on my abs and then he did me. He pulled out and did my face. He nutted all over my face and left me there. My dormmate and friends had to untie me with dry cum on my face and a splatted condom on my abs.

  • I have found that guys who enjoy total restraint are more likely to see sex as a way to please their partner as much as to obtain satisfaction for themselves. If your top enjoys it — and just the visual stimulation is enough to heighten the foreplay experience — why would you want to deprive him of that additional sensation?

    The sub is just as much in control as his dom partner. Any time you are giving what he wants, you are exciting him so that he is more likely to fulfill your expectations.

  • On a rare occasion but mostly no

  • Nope. Nada. Nein. Not into it.

  • I find it very intriguing!! But..I wouldn’t do it with a random hookup..way too dangerous..the thought of being tied up and letting him have his way with you as he likes makes me HOT!! it’ll definitely have to be with someone I know very well..the world has gotten to be a dangerous place..and ive made my mark in many statistics..murder victim is one I’d like to stay clear from thankyou very much!

  • Total turn on.luv to be just hands tied while on my knees, blindfolded while a group facefucks me, cumming all over my face n body. Mmmmmmm

  • I did it to an ex boyfriend I had, he had never had it done, I had never done it to anyone beofore, ao we were experimenting, when he did to me, I didn’t like it, cause I feel like I have to have some soar of control over a situation, in didn’t, so I keep doi g it to him because he liked it, but he never did it to me again

  • I’m into soft bondage and spanking. It turns me on to know that my top can do with me as he pleases. Not into s&m or any other kind of torture much less extream pain.

  • it’s not just bondage,ALTHOUGH SOME JUST DO THAT,BORING,IT’S LIKE ESTIMMING,MILKING,TONGUE AND LOVEMAKING TO A BOUND MAN THATS HOT!!!,I HAVE HAD MANY INSULT ME AS I DESPISE THIS NEW ‘”RUBBER “” THING,ONE ON xtube,WAS GIVEN ACCOLADES,OF PRAISE ON HIS SEXY VIDEOS,MEN TOTALLY COVERED WITH RUBBER,FACEMASKS WITH A THIN TUBE TO BREATHE,!!NEVER A FACE SHOWN,TORSO,ANYTHING BUT MAYBE COCK/BALLS,THAT’S IT, TOLD THE SICK LITTLE MONKEY WHO DID THE VIDS, “”THAT COULD BE YOUR GRANDADDY,OR EVEN GRANDMOTHER UNDER THERE,WHAT THE FUCK”,ISN’T WATCHING YOUR SEX PARTNER GO THRU ORGASMS,KINK,ECT,WHAT EXPRESSION IS SHOWN BY A JERK WHO IS ONLY SHOWING HIS GENITALS,THIS IS HOW SICK OUR IDEAS OF MAKING LOVE ARE,IMAGINE THESE “”RUBBER COUPLES'”,SHOWING PICS TO FRIENDS “”OH,ISN’T ROBERT SEXY WITH THAT BLACK TUBE HE BREATHES THRU,AND CHECK OUT THE SKIN TIGHT NEW HEADWEAR”,this is as morbid as the sphincter destroyed fist fuckers showin “”rosebud”,they’ll soon be buying tampons,or buttplugs all day as they have destroyed the elasticity of the assshole,freaks!

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