4 Aug 2014

Speak Out : My Cock Is Too Big

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I don’t know if anyone else has this problem. I have a big dick. The length isn’t the problem, it’s more that girth. It is 6 inches around if you use a measuring tape. I need to wear Magnum condoms, but those can feel tight and difficult to get on and off if I getreally excited. Everyone agrees that it it is nice to look at, when it comes to taking its not many can do it.

This would not be much of a problem if I was a bottom. However I enjoy being a good aggressive top. I tried to go to either, but more often than not I don’t get to finish without pulling out. Nothing is more frustrating than that. I would love to see if anyone has any ideas on how to make this go better.

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195 comments for Speak Out : My Cock Is Too Big

  • Hey where abouts are ya? You sound like just the top I need.

  • lots of lube and you have to be slow going in. give your bottom a little time to relax and take you in you should have a good ride

  • RELAX

  • sorry man it is what it is.

  • I love the feel of a big cock in my ass. I have never found anyone who is too large. The few times that it became too intense, we just changed positions. Wish I could find more men with this problem. If you go onto some of the fisting websites, there will be thousands of men who will love you and your cock.

  • 1) there are custom condom makers out there. it would be more expensive, but may be worth it.

    2) you will probably have a harder time finding a bottom who can take it and get you off completely. or maybe pulling out and jacking off is how your dick works. either way, you need to respect what it is telling you.

  • Come to San Antonio and let me help you with that. 6″ is big yes but ive taken bigger and completely enjoyed it. Look me up on a4a: TheGetEven

    ;)

  • A dick can “Never be TOO Big” small yes, big-never.

  • Be patient and keep looking. That bottomless cave is out there somewhere.

  • No cock is too big. You just need to find the right person that can take it for longer than two minutes. I myself would rather have a thick cock over a long cock that pokes my bladder. Lots of lube and patience and soon enough you will be pounding away your loads.

  • There are plenty of guys out there that would love a guy with a huge cock aggressively topping them. (One right here.) Just be upfront about your size, how you like to screw, and what you expect of guys you top.

  • They were amateurs give me a call! Lol

  • I would love to try. I would say the solution is find a power bottom

  • i would love to try bottoming that big dick

  • Pfffft, ain’t no such thing as “too big”!

  • I have the same problem and sometimes go limp trying to get a good entry because really tight guys can’t take it. Girls either. I’ve had to stop in pussy as well. I do like to bottom though, and have had dick as large as ours and it’s really good when done right, I’ve also used cucumbers on myself. Recent I like to ride a guy while he jerks or sucks me if he’s flexible enough or the right height. But yes it’s way nice to meet a guy or girl who can easily take all of this, but hard to find.

  • Sorry if your dick anything like the pornstar SupremeCastro aka Castro, theres no way in hell will that would go in me. The only thing i can think of that can help you to find someone who can take you dick, is maybe find someone who gets into hardcore fisting.. Anyone else can voice your opinion but I don’t see that many people being able to take that big of a dick.

  • I wish I was your bottom buddy. I have longed for a top like you with you problem. Let me take you all you want as long as you want.

  • I’m a bottom who likes big thick cocks.. I have been with a few VERY thick guys. It takes a few to get them in but love it. But they have told me that there not that many guys who can take it and get frustrated with it also. Try playing with there hole and get them loose 1st or just find a bottom like me..

  • well tell me where are you, perhaps i can help you. READ MY TITLE….

  • I totally sympathize with you. I have to use the xx magnums. Teeth are a real issue when it comes to oral.

  • Well I think u need a better bottom I’m verse but my first had a really thick dick and long so I’m use to it in fact I love a thick dick

  • Same problem here. I’m 6.5 x 6.5. Fun to play with, but most guys can’t take it. So I’ve become a bottom. It works for me. I top when I can, but I like having sex, so I compromised.

  • Is the assumption here that all bets are off if guys won’t blow you or let you fuck them? What if instead of carrying your size as a chip on your shoulder, you just held back and played it as a positive to those “holland tunnels” (and they are MANY) out there? Also, are you looking for Mr. Right Now? It’ll What if you held off having sex with guys until you got to know them so well that they didn’t care what size you were because they found you cool/attractive/a match and would therefore to do whatever it took for sex to be fun? (hey, great sex is NOT only about blowjobs and fucking. i too am a “full figured” dick-sized guy. my buds acknowledge it but they always make it work.)

  • As a total bottom, I understand your frustration. I can usually handle a very long cock, but the super thick ones seem to be more of challenge. From personal experience, I’d say the two biggest things are taking your time and getting the bottom to relax. I love an aggressive top, but if you want to just force it in and go to town I’m not going to last that long. If you go a little slower at first, and key me open up, soon enough my ass will be yours to pound! I’ll relax if I know I can adjust and believe me it’ll be better for both of us.

    Some may say, lube, lube, lube, but I’ve found that a lot of lube make the to slide in faster than I’m sometimes ready for. I also internally lube fairly well, so one you’re in it’ll be nice and slick.

  • come to Durham and let me ride it!

  • with all of these sluts, they have been fucked and need bigger and bigger to feel anything it becomes the dick is not big enough and maybe your dick is too small

  • Get a cock reduction… I am 8.5×6 and love to fuck and have not had a problem with Magnums or bottoms or cocksuckers…

  • I think you just gotta find a good bottom with a big ass that likes their hole stretched by a nice thick cock, and you gotta lock him down and make him fall in love with you and just stop using condoms. :)

  • I have a solution… Call me, you’d Never Ever have to worry about not finishing… i’ll take it for hours… no dick is too big… EVER…

  • I came across a guy about 6months ago that kind of had the same problem on a different app. He said the people could barely take him. Though luckily he’s versatile. I barely managed to take him in myself. He was 7.5in and pretty girthy. He told me that he always has trouble cumming. At first i didn’t believe him till I saw first him try to cum. We went at it for about 2hrs. At first I thought he came but i noticed that he hadn’t. Took him at least 15min to shoot his load from masturbating.

  • Oh man do I empathize. My wallet is so full of cash that it is difficult to haul it around. I have twenty bank accounts because the FDIC only covers up to $100,000 in each.
    Life just sucks for us, huh?

    Soldier on brother, soldier on.

  • your bottoms are not patient, not into the moment. i havn’t gotten laid in a very long time, hard to just hookup these days when your negative and std free, and no longer have a reg. bud. so my ass is squeaky tight, but if a bottom is truly into the moment, enjoying the excitement and sex, he will be patient enough to streachout his spinkter, wait 60 sec. for it to numb, then go ahead and attempt to accomodate the large guest. it may take a second minute of waiting, but after that an ass would be able to take a semi truck.once numb the pain transfers to a different sensation.i know my squeaky tight could do it.
    i would love to prove it too.(grin). did i mention it has been a really long time?

  • I have the same problem (length + girth). I find that bigger guys, have an easier time handling “the goods” than the smaller guys. Other than that, I just use A LOT of slow strokes.

  • I would have no problem. ….

  • I’m a power bottom and I would love to take every inch for you, as hard and as deep as you want to give it. I can deepthroat huge cocks all the way no matter how fat or long too :)Are you ever in OC, CA? ;-)

  • I don’t think you’ve been with the right bottoms. I’m a bottom who prefers BIG cocks. Little ones just don’t do it for me and I can’t really feel them. So just as for you, having a big dick and a good hole to fit, it’s the same dilemma for some of us power bottoms. We like them BIG like yours so we can feel it. If you were near me, I’d certainly volunteer my ass for you to try out. My bet is you’d love it and want it more and more and more. :D

  • Baby, we need to get together!!!

  • I know I can take that. It would be a little difficult but I could do it. Just find someone that can I guess.

  • Gotta say I refused to have sex with a few guys cause their dicks were to big. Stopped sex with a couple of others cause they insisted on trying to top with their massive cock. Nice to look at but WTF will I do with a cock that’s at least 14″ and to fat to fit in my mouth? Sorry but the size queens can have it!

  • I would say you have to find the right bottom and have them to lube the inside of themself and between the an us and just relax.

  • I have not seen a dick I could not take

  • Your cock does not sound to thick to me. When I bottom I like to have my ass stretched and have the feeling I am full of cock. It may be a little uncomfortable at first but it does not take long before it is pure sexual bliss. It helps also if they are at least 8″ in length. Once I get adjust to the girth I love a big cock pounding my ass.

  • Come see me. I havnt found one I couldn’t handle

  • Man — you just need to find the right bottom. Some bottoms (like me) love a challenge.

    The key, though, is taking it slow. You have got to loosen the hole up. And then don’t force it in all at once. Massage the hole for a while before you force it in.

  • There are lots of size queens out there. On grindr, jackd, etc, I get messages like “hung?”, “big cock?”, etc all the time then they get disappointed when I say I’m a bottom. Personally, I’ve seen what happens after someone takes guys that are massive and I wouldn’t want my ass to look like it’s been in use since day 1. When I read comments on xtube and myvidster people are always commenting how they want to take the biggest things ever, use horse sized dildo and other objects, or get gang banged by a group of black guys each swinging tight, magnum sized pieces so yes there are people like that out there. I took a guy who was about 9 inches long and like you, 6+ inches around. It looked like I was making the letter “C” with my hand it was so thick. Actually, the video is on xtube and you can see it there, but I took it once and it was not enjoyable for me. Others might like being gaped or open like a subway tunnel but not me.

  • While i myself do not have this issue im average i know ppl who do… the thing is you have to try and find bottoms who aree well.. total pig bottoms.. or try vigorious toy play before hand add that to your sexual routine .. the more relaxed the person is when it come time for the main event it usually helps

  • 6 inches around? I’ve never had any trouble. Been with at least a dozen guys. Easily entered dry or lubed. They really liked it. One was even a virgin. Several didn’t want to quit. One took it 4 times in a couple hours. Maybe it is the slow careful approach. The condoms can be a struggle.

  • Boo hoo… :)

  • Relax your partner, use plenty of lube, Insert slowly and let your partner take it slow. Fuck slow until it is open. Take your time and love the ass, it will open up for you.

    I never thought I could take a 6 inch thick and 12 inches long. Sometime a small dick can hurt.

    All is how you and the partner connects

  • WHAT A HEAVEN!!!
    PLS I ALWAYS NEED IT!

  • so it seems, you have the same problem that guys with teeny little dicks have.

    :-).

    maybe in porn, do you see all the glorified cases of bottoms “taking Big D,” but all of that is mere fantasy.
    also, in Porn they don’t generally show you the things these bottoms might have to do, first, in order to Take “Big D.”

    reality thus proves a much different beast..
    ..it does seem really rare, that a guy won’t have to employ chemical enhancements in this sort of situation.

    sorry that you want to be a Jackhammer Top, but unless you want to be paying people’s medical bills, or fending off lawsuits..
    ..you’ll have to accept that you’re going to have a sort of difficult time finding multiple different guys (who aren’t “freaks”) who can accommodate your girth.
    unless..
    ..you, yourself, are a ‘freak.’
    in which case then, you might have a slightly-easier go of things.

    i myself am not willing to distend or dislocate my jaw, or cause any other irritation to my skin by stretching it to the point of tearing, to Play.
    ideally, i want Dude to be plug-and-play compliant: not needing sundry complicated steps just to suck on his wood.

  • I find myself in same situation. My dick is pretty thick. I like to fuck long and hard (and rough) but many guys can’t it that much. Many times I end up just jacking off cuz I have to pull out before I cum, one guy even decided not see me anymore cuz I was too thick for him (I really liked him). He said he wanted to enjoy sex not feel pain. Also, trying to force it in (due to thickness) can make your dick hurt making it to go semi-limp for a few minutes. So it’s not all good and dandy having a thick dick.

  • Hmmm…patience is the key I think. I’m rather thick myself (thicker than most) Maybe 5…5.5-ish? What I’ve learned is to pace myself. That takes a bit of re-conditioning oneself. Being vers, I know what it’s like to get screwed and having someone who’s rather thick try to ram themselves inside of me will either earn ‘em a punch in the face or a trip across the room. Your partner may also need to practice breathing and taking a little at a time until he’s used to it. Another thought that can go along with all of this is massive foreplay. Become a foreplay God! Foreplay and the like tends to relax your partner. A lotta dudes eyes are bigger than their holes and they want it then when confronted with it, realize they’ve bitten off more than they can chew (pun intended). Foreplay, breathing and just generally taking your time gives his muscles the opportunity to relax to take you then soon, you’ll be strokin’ away.

    My 2 cents worth.

  • I have the same issue except I’m 7 around. I feel your pain. Having to pull out & finish yourself off is the worst. Dudes even complain about giving me head for more than 5 mins. Only the whores can take it like a champ. That’s been my experience anyway

  • Honestly I would like to know some tips as well. I have an 8.5 inches. I’m not as girthy as you are but I am long and dig deep. Sometimes I add more lube and go easier on the bottom so I don’t have to pull out and it works but there have been a lot that talk a really good game about how much they want it and how they are a power bottom but then after I’ve been fucking them for a long time they ask me to stop and pull out. Does anyone have other suggestions?

  • Yes cum to my town and let’s practice. I am a total bottom!!!!!

  • Well, i’d suggest you to take your time and make sure that your partner gets stretched, use a lot of lube and poppers for your partner as well.

  • Some of the bigger guys I’ve been with have made the mistake of trying to shove it in too quickly or too soon. When a big guy shoves it in too soon and I feel pain, my dick goes limp and usually doesn’t recover. If you want your guy to be ready for you, you have to take the time to make him want it. You can do this several ways:
    1. Rimming
    2. Fingering. Start with one and work your way up to two/three
    3. Small sex toy
    4. poppers (for some)
    5. Rubbing the cock tip against the hole w/o penetrating.

    Once he’s warmed up, use a lot of lube on his hole and your dick. Slide it in about an inch and wait a few seconds. Pull out, add some more lube and then slide it in a bit more until he is relaxed and able to take it a little deeper.

    This is what works for me. Other people probably have their own things that help them.

  • I’m a total bottom because I can’t get mine up! I take medications for a medical condition that pretty much has done my “top days” in. I welcome a nice huge cock…in my butt that is. I have an exaggerated gag reflex making it hard to give oral to even a not-so-gifted guy.
    :(

  • Well. Hard to find guysthat can handle that. I can and have before. Love to try for you. Try vibrator in ass to help you get stimulated

  • Sorry, but I just can’t sympathize with your issue. I am certain there are plenty a men out there that love it extra thick.
    Place yourself in this one; I have a small dick. It is so small that it looks like a swollen clit when it’s in rest mode. And I am versatile. There are products and procedures out there that supposedly help men to accomplish same you’re having problems with. No sympathy here. Revel in the luck of the draw you’ve gotten.

  • You just have to find yourself a talented power bottom. Everyone is a bottom these days. “I can take a Mac Truck!” they claim on the apps and online, but when they come over as soon as the head touches their ass they start whining about how big it is. Send them home and get another one. I used to be a power bottom before I made the bottom-top transition, and if I made the boast then I had good follow through. You need to advertise for power bottoms, not just your standard run of the mill bottom. If your dick is as girthy and thick as you say it is then you’ll need a power bottom to not only take the thing to completion but also enjoy it while it’s happening.

    Otherwise just buy a pair of earplugs so you don’t have to hear the constant whining about how it hurts too much.

    Cheers!

  • Personally I would tey different types if lubes. One has to work better than others. Also ask your boyfriend to train himself to take your dick. Buy different size dildos and start small and generally go up from there.

  • I don’t know about others out there but I really enjoy the challenge of getting a big one to fit into me. Maybe its the attempt of getting it all in but it’s very exciting to have a man with a big one to work it til it all in.

    Jeff

  • I never thought I had a big/thick dick until I made a comment about another guys dick and he said “Yours is thicker than mine!” and he was right. Mine is about 6.5…
    Here are my tips on being a successful top
    1) patience- go slow, push in a little at a time maybe only half and inch and wait until he becomes more comfortable then push in a bit more. go too fast and the bottom will shut it down
    2) poppers- lots of poppers under his nose :)
    3) distractions- bring their awareness to another part of their body on the push in… kiss their ear, massage their shoulders, lick or kiss their nipples.
    4) squeeze push technique- push your cock in and pause wait and tell the bottom “now squeeze my dick with your butthole”. like a Kegel… when they release the grip push in A LITTLE bit more. Then repeat until you are balls deep.

    used alone, or in any combination, the tips above should be getting you into the ass you desire.

    last tip… when pulling out. It can be just as painful as insertion if we are not mindful of the effort it took to get in. PULL OUT SLOWLY. Just about when I’m about to pull the head out I will say “wiggle your toes” bring their awareness to another part of their body.. and remember GO SLOW!

    I hope this helps.. if anyone wants a personal demo…
    call me at 800-ASS-MSTR
    (of course I joke.. just about the phone number… :)

  • Horse hung bottom here…
    U are just the kinda tops I dig..
    plenty of us great bottoms out there who will have u smiling all day long..

    My prob is guys usually see my dick and want me to top them….
    So… if ever in NYC
    lets meet…..
    ;-)

  • I don’t think that 6″ of girth is too much. It’s definitely substantial, but unless you have an unusually or disproportionately large head I don’t see how it’s too big. I know men with girth around 7″ or or more and they don’t have issues finding men willing to take it, in fact, it’s quite the opposite. Not sure what your length is, and length can be intimidating, but I think most guys that enjoy getting fucked often prefer a big dick.

  • gee, sucks to be you

  • love to wrap my lip around that

  • I have same problem mine is 6.5 thick almost 7 . Guys in lockeroom always called me beercan. Most guy can’t do anything but lick head and only f#@k guys who. Have been fisted daily. Country bears with thick cocks need love too.

  • I’ll gladly take your thick cock in my ass. I prefer thick than long any day!

  • I have the same problem, guys take one look at it and say “Sorry its too big” Even the most patient lubed up bottom has issues with big cocks. Everyone says there is no such thing as too big but it is a problem. I wish people would be more willing to TRY before saying they cant. We Tops know it is a challenge and are very patient and considerate as long as you are willing to try! lol

  • I’m 8″ long and 6″ around. I always use lots of lube on my bttms as well as myself. And I always start out slow so they can get used to it. But once I’m in there good, I bttm out their ass like nobody’s business. (And no. I don’t do virgins or beginners. They can never take the dick.)

  • Patience is the key. Definitely doesn’t hurt to find a power bottom.

  • I wish I was your bottom. I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE a big, thick cock!! My favorite dildo is 6.25 inches is girth. You will be no problem for me to take. I guarantee you will finish with me.

  • Hmmmm… I’m tempted to say that no dick is ‘too big’, as there Are bottoms who actually Can take a dick that size.
    But, the reality is, that dick is too big for Me… and I would rather not hook up with you Now and Waste your time later when that “I really Can’t handle it” moment strikes.
    Nothing pisses off a Top more than his time being Wasted with a bottom who later WIMPS out right in the middle of a session!
    Here in Albany NY on our m4m Craigslist ad boards over 95% of the guys listed are absolute Size Queen Bottoms. I state that with sarcasm, because if you notice almost every ad begs for a big dick and even Bigger if them guys can get it. Now comes my sarcastic part: how many of those total bottoms on Craigslist actually CAN take a big dick that size, or even if it were 7 or 8 inches with a proportionate girth? They Talk all the noise, but when you meet them they can’t even take the head in their mouths- AND they wimp out of the deal! They’ve wasted the Top’s time and travel efforts, and hotel room money (or bookstore booth money, if meeting in a bookstore!). Myself, as a Top (I’m a 6.5) I would never waste my time with bottoms who are all talk and no action, especially the ones on Craigslist. And, as a Bottom, I am comfortable with a Top who is up to 7.5 with a girth diameter as wide as a cardboard tissue roll core and no bigger than that… as long as I prep my ass for it, and I can suck it to the back of my tongue without scraping it with my teeth, I’m always on my game pleasing my Top guy to full satisfaction. I’m not into deep throat BJs, so in reality, 7 inches is Perfect for me because then I can please the guy beyond his pleasure threshold; and if my face muscles still get sore from sucking I would finish him off with an edging hand-job. I check for cock size before I meet the guy, because I don’t wanna waste his time if he’s too big for me. Now back to your case, as the others have stated, you need to find a bottom who is accustomed to cocks your size and who will commit himself to satisfying you completely from start to finish. Those bottoms are out there, you gotta get your Foot Loose on and find them; and be up front about what you expect from them. So many bottoms out there, you gotta weed them out Now before they weed you out Later. Good Luck, and Happy Hunting.

  • The real problem with really hung guys is when they sit on the toilet to take a crap. Their cocks are so long that they hang down into the toilet water. Think about it!
    Have you ever entered a public toilet stall and found wads of toilet paper between the split seat, across the front? That was left there by someone really hung because they have to rest their cock on the porcelain to preclude it from going down into the toilet water when defecating.

  • Try the female condom it feels better for big dicked people

  • This is a problem most guys would not fret to have but in cases like this. It’s about making sure u and the bttm are comfortable. Condoms? Magnums may be your best bet over the counter protection. It’s better than no condom, if going BB isn’t your thing. Your sexual partner should be ready to handle you, an experienced power bottom. Toys and lube would help! Dude, your blessed make the BEST of what you have. Happy PIPE; Happy LIFE! :D

  • My best experience ever with with a huge guy. 12″ and thick. Best ever! When he pushed it way in was so intense…had to go slow and he loved it. Ever in nj, check me out.

  • Come on Guys, Rather than jest – It is a serious concern and issue here for him along with many other men;

    I can understand your concerns. My lover and I had to find our way through same exact situation. He too is an extremely over well endowed man of 8.5 x 6.5 and was painfully concerned over not being able to thoroughly enjoy himself and in the process be unsatisfied or potentially harm me (He is an aggressive/dominant power top).

    In the beginning it took us going slowly, different gels, deep breathing, patience on both sides, adjusting positions and so forth until eventually I was able to accommodate and fully take all of him, as well it now being thoroughly/enthusiastically appreciated by me to take him at his most completely heightened sexual arousal.

    Yes, there are your power bottoms, size whores and size queens…. And I think you are looking towards maybe something more? Someone who wants to be with you and not just for your dick size. As mentioned above there are companies that deal with well endowed men such as yourself.

    If that is not your intent and it is your intent to just get off without having to pull off a condom or worry about it being ill fitted or a loose fitting one. Then go order some custom made ones and go shred the asses on the over-used bottom sluts that just offered themselves up to you. However, you just must have to strap a board to your ass to keep from falling into their man-sized Man-hole Covers of an asshole.

    If you are looking for something with more of connection… be patient you will find the right man who will thoroughly enjoy you for who you are and how you make them feel in and out of the bedroom.

    Much Love and Understanding….

  • Holla at cha boy! Big boy bottom that can hold it all!!!

  • I wish I had that problem. Me being more of a bottom I love a big cock. When I get fucked by someone with a huge cock all I need is some good lube and some really good poppers and have about 4 good stiff drinks in me, then I am ready to fuck! The bigger around and the longer the better!

  • I don’t have your problem but I thought your post was interesting so I have been pondering possible solutions for you. This may sound dumb, but have you tried placing an ad or maybe finding a chat group for people that are into fisting? If someone finds pleasure in having a whole hand inserted I am sure that they would have no problem taking you. Just seems to me that that would be a good possibility.

  • I’m versatile, but prefer bottom. I’ve been with a few really thick guys. One guy was so thick, I could not fit my hand around his cock. First time I grabbed onto it, I thought to myself that I would never be able to take him into my ass. He knew he was hung and thick, so he took it nice and slow with me. Lots of lube, stopped when I asked him to stop, let me relax, etc. Next thing I knew, he was all the way inside of me. He would fuck me slow and easy until it was comfortable, and then finish up while cumming inside. Follow the advice from me and the others – slow and easy, lots of lube, and take the lead from the guy on the bottom. You’ll know when he’s ready to get fucked hard. :)

  • The problem I have, and have had for years is the cocks I get are always way to small. I wish just one time before I die, to have a giant cock to take care of. Both in my mouth and butt, and not just the normal 6 to 7 inches of cock I get. I know there are some really big cocks out there, but I sure do not get them………

  • They do make a magnum XL and XXL condom which is larger than a regular magnum

  • Oh, poor you. 95% of the guys out there only want hung and thick and non-asian. Cry me a river. Am I bitter that I wasn’t “blessed” with a bigger cock? Sure. But we do what can.

  • Many a times have guys told me no sex cus my pipe was too big. Tho they like to suck it however they are afraid of the monster……wtf?

  • Guy with huge cock lies down, big cock facing up. Bottom guy with eager hole lubes up, eases on down on the cock, takes huge cock as slowly or quickly as his asshole allows, inch by inch by inch. Works every time!

  • I’m a hung top too. It took me a long time to learn how to properly prep a bottom, and also to find the right condoms and lube. I’ve found that starting w side fucking helps open up the hole, and kissing, ear biting, and nipple play help initially. Side fucking also mostly just gets your head in and opens the sphincter. Then I have them ride until they’re opened up good.

    I cannot cum in a comdom, so can fuck for a long time

  • i’d take it and like it.

  • Pure fiction … My cock is that big and finding guys who want to and can take it has NEVER been a problem

  • Thinking that anonymous author is a young guy. Because when I was in my 20′s it was difficult (but possible) to find a partner my age who wanted to fuck, I’m 6″ girth by 8″. Then when I was in my 30′s I found that guys in their 30′s were much more experienced, much more receptive. Have been having a blast ever since.

  • I would take that cock of yours anyday. I have taken all sizes of cocks and they’ve gone to completion fucking me.

  • I was all “big” talk like some of the guys here on this blog saying they could take any size cock up their ass. One time, in Atlanta, I was in a hotel room and wanted to take as much black cock up my white ass as much as possible one night. Black cock of 8 inches and then 9 inches fucked me, no problem. A white guy with

  • I know the problem. And easiest to solve.

    Bottom should clean out well with water and then put some coconut oil ( like 3 tsp worth. Then the entry is smooth and the top will feel like he can calmly fuck you. He will go animal later as he realizes how easy it was to enter and for you to feel smooth and lubricated. Ofcourse, the top can be raw or with condoms comparable to oil.

    Trust me, I love fucking and being fucked this way.

  • Aw stop your whining, lol!!

  • I’m calling shenanigans on this post.

  • unbelievable 69 comments in hours hehehhehehehe

  • Thank you for sharing your experience and the frustration you have been experiencing. I think that tops and bottoms should share their experiences to help each other to bettering mutual satisfaction. Once upon a time, I used to prefer being pounded by a well endowed guy, but over time I have come to appreciate the slow and steady with a good pounding at the end. The slow and steady portion allows me to really enjoy a great piece of meat and gives me time to accommodate the top. When we have both thoroughly enjoyed each other then it is time to turn it up, make me moan, and pound the hell out of me. From my experience, the top will have the opportunity to bust a fucking good nut and I will be overly satisfied; which leads to me shooting my load without having to touch myself due to the top taking their time to ensure I am enjoying each and every slow and/or fast thrust into my hole. I hope my experience will help the well endowed top avoid being sexually frustrated on many occassions.

  • Just read your post, Aaron. Thanks for looking out for the power bottoms.

  • You needto used lots of lube and put it in slow and give the bottom 15-20 minutes to loosen up and adjust to your girth

  • Vers/bttm here and I don’t like big dicks at all. They are just too painful and not much fun. I even find them not so pleasant to look at. Give me an average or small cock anytime!

  • I feel your pain. I fortunately have found some regulars that take it. But I do have time when I meet up with a guy and they just can’t take it a end up trying to get me off with their hands or mouth and frankly I don’t enjoy it. I would recommend using anal-ez. You still feel a good stretching but much lease pain or discomfort. Just make sure your careful not to get any on your dick or you won’t be able to cum. It numbs your dick if you don’t use a condom but that should be a problem if your always safe. If you do get a steady bf by the time your committed and go BB he should be stretched by that time.

  • I can relate. I have the same problem. I am gortynate to be with my husband who loves to power bottom. It has been a learning session for us though. We discovered that many things help:
    1) lube shooters (prime the hole)
    2) take your time ( tease the fu** out of it)
    3) slow at first ( in fact, just let it set and get accustomed for a second)
    4) VCR head cleaner (Jungle Juice)
    5) 420 (that is all)
    6) try to take one your size ( see what works for you and how it makes you feel, most likely, your partner will appreciate the same techniques)

    Good luck!

  • Magmun arent actually large condoms. They’re your basic ‘one size fits most’. Its a marketing scheme to make guys feel more confident.

  • For the condoms, If Magnum condoms are too small or tight, try using the Trojan Magnum Ecstasy condoms. They provide more room for your head, which is important if you have a thicker head. I switched over to the Ecstasy and they are incredible: perfect fit.

  • My ex was too thick for me to suck but felt amazing stretching my whole. I like thick ones. He’d even use a pump and get even thicker and that would absolutely incredible to feel.

  • As an experienced bottom, I really enjoy sex regardless of size if the top knows how to work with what he’s got! I’m happy and you’ll be happy!

  • I don’t really like big cocks. I don’t like having the back of my throat ripped apart, or my ass for that matter. I don’t even find them all that aesthetically pleasing. I LOVE small cocks. They are a lot more fun to play with and I find that they stay harder longer and recover faster. I’m 6″, medium girth and am quite happy with my size.

  • Mine is also 6 inches around. I agree that it can be a challenge at times, but there are bottoms out there that can handle it. Mine is also 8.5 inches long, but that is not nearly the challenge for the bottom as the girth. I have found some bottoms who not only can take it, but crave it. Keep looking, they are out there.

  • The thirst on this thread is too real. Lmao! *sips tea*

  • ARRg, I wish that was type a little clearer. You can always find some thirsty bottom that can lube it up and F**k til the sun comes up. For the normal people who’s doesn’t want to go to the hospital, i do believed that sometime, big is just too big…lol

  • On behalf of people who DO GET IT – that this is a REAL PROBLEM for you – I apologize for the people with small dicks (and small minds) who so ungraciously made fun of you and your problem. An inability to have satisfying sex is extremely frustrating – regardless of the underlying cause.

    On the other hand, it does help to show a “grass is always greener” perspective from the OTHER side! (So many complain of having a penis that is “too small”.)

    FWIW: I had a b/f when I was in my early 20′s who was VERY large… we were both vers, so in the beginning I topped more than he did, and it ALWAYS seemed to take me more than just one try to get him inside of me. But I DID learn to take him, and I didn’t ruin my ass in the effort! In the end, we flipped multiple times in any given session, and we both often got off more than once with each other. The sex was awesome — unfortunately, his love of drink was less so.

    However, I think your problem is no different from many other dudes – and I don’t think your dick is the real problem… I think the way you and your partners are attempting to have sex is the issue.

    I see this with many of the younger set — and to be honest, I blame porn. Dudes today seem to think sex is about getting yourself off, and “as fast as possible”… For me, that is just a recipe for BAD sex.

    For me, sex is about getting the OTHER dude off… whether you’re a top or a bottom, to have sex RIGHT, you should be focussing on the other dude’s enjoyment. If you’re both focussing on the other, you’re both pretty much guaranteed to have a really good time!

    This is ESPECIALLY TRUE if you cum first — that’s not the time to get dressed or hit the showers. That’s the time to devote 100% of your attention to getting the other dude off! (And NO, it should not be “as fast as possible”… it should be “as GOOD as possible”!)

    Not only does this usually make for MUCH better sex, but it usually also makes it last longer and makes your orgasm much more intense (in part, because you’re not rushing it).

    In your case, taking longer before you insert your cock into the other dude should help him prepare (and relax) more. You might also consider FLIP/FLOPPING (that is, if the bottom needs you to pull out, swap places and be bottom for a few minutes before swapping back!

    It would also help, if you don’t mind my saying so, if you have the same partner multiple times (vs. a new partner each time).

    I’m 50, and I still have great sex. Not because I’m some sexual STUD (though I do NOT mind being called that)… but because I focus on my partner, and so long as my partner is focusing on me, we both have an awesome time! (It does help that I’m totally versatile and LOVE to flip!)

    Hopefully, you can find the right partner who has the patience to learn how to please you — and your larger than average cock!

    Good luck, dude!

  • “You can never be too rich or too big”…with apologies to Wallace Simpson

  • The dildo I fuck myself regularly is 6 inches around. The bottoms are out there my friend. When you find him hold on to him :)

  • I wanna see your cock :)

  • How original for so many bottoms to write that they can take the OP’s big dick! It confirms the worst stereotypes about gay men.

  • So any of you guys that say you’re too big located in Indy?

  • I’m sure only the power bottoms would love to be fucked by your big cock senselessly. However, as they say they would go for next bigger cock and then bigger cocks until the next thing is the whole arm. LoL
    Five years ago I would challenge myself to take a bigger cock every time but not any more due to pain and tear potentially if continued to take bigger cocks. Sometimes a big cock is just a fat cock so watch out with exercise and lots of cardio.

  • Listen to what many have already said. You just have to learn to be patient. How would you feel if you somebody went rough on you? Do you think it would be a pleasurable experience? Go easy at first and help them get used to it. Make sure you have plenty of time, not a wham bam thank you Sam situation. If you don’t care that your partner will enjoy it, then maybe you’re just a brainless prick.

  • Maybe I’m rare but I don’t like big cocks. I’m vers bottom and don’t enjoy a larger cock inside me, it’s just annoying and painful. Also annoying and awkward to suck. I prefer to stay tight for my guy and not to used and loose.

  • Gee! Anonymous, from reading a good portion of the comments to your plight, it seems that you’ve just been “…lookin’ for love in all the wrong places!!!!” Lotsa guys here apparently would be thrilled with you!!! grin!

  • I can relate… Teeth and the bottom tapping out way before I’m even close. I’ve gone home a lot with blue balls. Kinda lame.

  • Got cut off. Anyway, white guy with 10 inches came over to fuck me though I asked for black cock (equal opportunity slut here). Hurt like hell when he pounded me but felt wonderful. An hour later, black guy with 12 inches and as wide as a beer can came over. We could not get it in my hole despite three fuckings just beforehand. “Big” talk on my part was just that.

  • I don’t think I’m that big but get told when i stick my 7.5 all the way in hurts, maybe i’m bigger then i think?

  • I did not read all of the comments. I got tired of everyone saying cum to me. Or I am that big or bigger. And the worst “find a worn out whore”. I love to bottom. I am very tight and enjoy the feel of a big dick. I have had some average size guys who could not get in. I have also enjoyed some “monster” cock. There are a couple of things, take your time and enjoy lots of foreplay. I had a FWB that was very large. I found something that made all of the difference. I like to be clean when fucking, so I like to clean out good before. I found that a very warm enema just before relaxes me and makes it much easier to take a nice thick cock.

  • Well, I wouldn’t consider what u get as a problem, instead as a blessing, it just takes the right kind of guy willing to take it all in and let you power fuck them and pleasure you in all your sexual needs. If interested, I can handle you amazing cock and take it as deep as you want it, and as fast as you want it! Hit me up on here dream guy!!!! ;-)

  • If I’m staring at it and thinking ‘he wants me to do what with that?’ odds are pretty good I’m not gonna be doing what he’s fantasizing about. I don’t like the feeling of my bladder being stabbed or that I can’t even finish because he’s internally blocking my plumbing system’s exit route. You call me a prude, like it’s a bad thing. If it keeps me drum-tight, I’m all for it. There’s comfortable and there’s unreasonable. I have no problem keeping a guy in the ‘friends’ zone once he tells me how gi-normous he is.

  • Some pointers from a fellow suffer:

    1) ALWAYS send a picture of it with prospective. Warn them ahead of time. I use a regular 12 oz Coke Can in my photo to show it’s the same size. Nothing sux more than showing up for some fun, dropping your pants and then being asked to leave. All boned up and no place to go.

    2)A few questions will help you sort out the people writing checks their body can’t cash. If they get into fisting,or enjoy Double Penetration, and aren’t “Partying” then chances are they are aware of their limits and are a good match to take you.

    3)Magnums and Magnum XL’s are useless and will basically break many times. There are several new rubber cock sheaths that have been released, such as the FAT BOY and others. The one problem is they all add some girth to an already fat piece. But they seem to hold up better than a condom when I fuck. Try it you might like it.

    4)If they guy is receptive to toy use at first or at the very least rimming then do that to open him up. And don’t spare the Poppers. Make sure they are on your person at all times.

    5) Don’t even let him get his mouth near your cock. Especially if your gonna try and top him. It won’t feel good and the teeth are more than likely going to traumatize your cock. Not something you want before topping.

    6) The first time is gonna hurt, both you and him. Both of you just have to grit your teeth and go for it. For me and my partner the second day of sex is always much much better if we had an extended break of no sex. Usually him sitting on it gives him the control he needs to overcome the fear and helps him go as far as he can at his own pace. Let him be the aggressor. But watch him, sometimes they get carried away and hurt themselves. The party ends when blood starts flowing. Make sure he is going slow enough to dilate adequately.

    7) Realize that you are not going to be able to get off in the time it will take him to orgasm. You are hitting all the right spots. No, it’s not cause your an awesome top, it cause your cock has no where else to go. Just lay there and enjoy the fact that you got in balls deep and if he came right then, pat yourself on the back, your cock will already have been forcibly removed by him just finish yourself off laying next to him.

    8) I’m a one shot wonder. It’s a major effort to have sex and I call it a great day if we both get off. I wonder if other girthy guys share the same affliction of usually only going once a day. I say just enjoy the release and congratulate him on a job well done. Tell him you really enjoyed it even if his eyes rolled back in his head and he was done about 1 minute after you got it in.

    9) Always try for round two the next day. I think that is the fair way to judge the bottom. The next day should be the real example of how sex with him could be on a regular basis. He will be more open and used to your size. Hopefully he will be the one!

  • HMU and lets discuss possibilities. I near Philly and interested in getting acquainted.
    Holla.

  • I’m in Alabama!!!

  • I prefer bigger dicks – 8×6″ is about perfect, but I’ve taken 9×6″ too. This prompted me to measure my dildos, and it’s true what some have said, you sometimes don’t realize how big you are. I’m 7×5.5″cut and if I see another dick the same size as me I think it’s huge. To bottom for a big dick, I find you have to be in the right mood and the top has to have a slight idea what he’s doing. Another thing I learned is that a smooth shaved Dick glides in a lot more easily than a bushe guy. I took an 8″ no problem who was shaved and it felt fantastic, then tried to take a bushy 7″ but couldn’t. It was too scratchy. It’s easy to think it’s the size or something else, but don’t discount the scratchiness factor.

  • Same problem here but worse. I’m 7 girth with 9 to 9.5 length, depending on how excited I get plus a left bend. I find that it’s hard and tedious to penetrate my kind of guys (straight but curious to bi) and if I do get it in, I can’t go deep either. 9/10 times I have to stop fucking and cum on my own. I also take quite long to come, which is another issue on its own. The only times I’ve cum while fucking ass has been with power bottoms or extremely loose holes. Most times, I feel the bottom just need to bare it and let me drill them for as long as needs be, but they tap out everytime.

  • If your circumference is six inches that equates to 1.9 inches diameter. There are hundreds if not thousands of sex toys of at least that diameter, and someone must be using them. Not just someone, but lots of people. I think the letter writer just chose the size without really considering how big six inches around actually is and most likely has a small penis and a need for attention.

  • This is the exact reason I became a bottom. It was a turn off to hear complaints that Im too big, to slow down, etc…

    Im happy being a bottom.

    So, let me show you that a hung guy can satisfy another hung guy. I can take it without complaining.

    On a serious note, the bottom should try anal ese. It will slightly numb the anus. Poppers too help.

  • This is mexass1 mmmm I wish I know u and show. U how pleasure can b to b with u

  • I have the same problem. I’m very average length at 5.5″ or so but I am a full 6″ around. Most simply can’t take more than the head before they cal cream like I’m killing them. Same with oral, they can’t get it all in without gagging. Don’t get me wrong, as a Dom top I like it when they gag but I need a bottom that can take a good pounding. I’m often told I have a beer can or horse cock. It’s cool to see their eyes light up when it grows so big but when they can’t take it, it sucks! Anyone in East TN that can take a thick cock?

  • I came hoping there would be pics. ;-/
    *exits post*

  • If your in Palm Springs, CA…..I’d really like to meet you.

  • I am vers but lean to the bottom. I find I have been able to take most cock, but patience by both is key. I like when the top goes in and pauses, sometimes even back out, and let me take a deep breath. Once in, the guy can have all he wants for as long as he wants. Just have to listen to each other.

  • Men in Charlotte with a big dick act as if they should be paid for sex. So, give me free sex with an average dick anytime….lol.

  • You sound like a top I could have fun with. Not sure what bottoms you’ve had that couldn’t take a cock that size, but there are definitely bottoms like myself who could fuck and enjoy that for hours

  • I am a bottom who would love to take that thick cock. I’ve been looking for someone like you. Where are you. Ga? Lol

  • Honestly, with all the seemingly gaping manholes out there, I believe the author of this problem wrote his ficticious drama here for all these hungry hoes shout out here! lol I wonder how much control they will have over there loose gaping manholes when they get up in age! lol Enjoy! :)

  • i dont think its hard to handle at all iv had a 10*6 an i keep going back wish it was my personal dick…its just the mind and relaxation and all will go well trust me …thats d perfect dick bro no doubt

  • online only there is what is called a female condom, it is inserted into the guys ass with 2 fingers and has a draw string that lays loosely out his back side. when you enter it expands like a parachute fills the entire ass you don’t actually wear it. you feel like your fucking him bare and his body heat transfers thru it so that it feels completely normal. it is made of a material aids cannot go thru. But like with all condoms be careful in its use anything can break if your in a hurry. when your done and pull out you take the string and pull slowly . As it comes out it collapses like a pull string on a garbage bag till its closed. I have been fucked several times using these with excellent results. as a bottom I thought I was fucked bare. They are not cheap 3 bucks or more a piece and only available on line. by the name of female condom.

  • I have this same problem. I am average length at 5.5″ but I am a full 6″ around when hard. It makes it hard to find anyone who can throat my cock or get it inside of them. Don’t get me wrong, I love it when guys or girls see it grow from tiny to huge (grower not a shower here) but get frustrated when they can’t take care of it once hard. Most try but gag on it, even more wont let me fuck them because they say its too thick. I call BS on that as the sphincter can stretch, it will just take plenty of lube and some time to get it in. If anyone is around my area I would love to be taken fully anywhere you want it :)

  • It’s called going slow. Life is not a porno, you can’t just shove it in and expect your bottom boy to take it well. He’s got to warm up to you. I hate guys that think just because they’re using lube that they can just go as hard as they want upon entry.

  • CUM 2 MPLS…i’ll srvice you!!!

  • Use Magnum XL. They are for monsters like yours. Like others have been saying just use lots of lube and start off slow. I’ve had this problem occasionally so I speak from experience. Getting sucked until I almost cum, and then strapping up and fucking is the way to go.

  • The best sex i had was with a guy that had a cock that sounds like yours. I thought he was going to kill me with it, but he got me so hot, when he finally slid it in i took it fine. Position is everything. Get him on his back, forget doggie. Good lube is important. It was the only time in my life i came without touching myself. I would do anything to experience that again. There is someone for you, believe me.

  • I have read some of the other comments and as a very experienced bottom maybe I can give you some pointers..
    Make sure your bottom has cleaned himself thoroughly.
    You should play with his hole …rimming etc…
    When you begin to enter him try and have your cock a little soft…..
    If you can find condoms that are Ok with Crisco…use them..cause Crisco is the best lube…
    I had a fuck buddy for 18 years who had a cock like your’s and we had great sex…because he played with my fuck hole while I sucked his cock…then when he felt I wsa relaxed enough and his cock not too hard…he entered me slowly…his cock got hard and I felt wonderful and he came every time….

  • i dont use or believe in condoms. if i fuck-its raw or we dont fuck. i am 8.5″ cut. my problem now? ED-viagra gives me a headache and cialis does nothing. any suggestions? i am missing out on some nice ass just because i cant stay hard. btw-nobody has ever complained my dick was too big.

  • i have the same thang happen to me am 8 long and 7.5 around lots of guys are scared to try me

  • A problem all us small dick guys wish we had. With my small dick I am always on my knees where I belong, and know I was born not to be a top.

  • I’ve found an experienced bottom with a loosened up ass can handle a thick dick. If the bottom is too tight, it can be painful for someone with a thick dick. So, loosen your bottoms up first with toys before plowing them silly. Not all bottoms are created equal nor are all tops so find someone where the parts fit well together. Match them up. LOL!

  • I have a HUGE cock….cocksuckers love it!!

  • You need to find a bottom who is willing to take a little time to properly serve you. And you must be willing to take a little time to properly train your sub. There are inflatable dildos and butt plugs on the market and they are not terribly expensive. Find a good submissive bottom like myself who will be willing to adapt to your size. The inflatable butt plug is wonderful. You can insert it into your sub and slowly inflate it. Do this little by little and make him sleep with it in place. In time his ass will be able to accommodate you.

  • I have that problem I have an 8×6.5 cock and most guys see it and get scared off

  • I am a power bottom and I have a regular top that I meet with once a month when he comes to Kentucky for work. He is like you he has a thick cock. It is thicker than a 20 oz soda bottle. When we first got together he told me his size and his concerns about our first time. It took a long time for me to take it all the way in but after a lot of patients on his part and relaxing on mine he was able to go balls deep as they say. Now when we meet I can ride him or lay on my back and he can fuck me however and as hard as he wants to. My advice is if you want to have great sex be patient with your bottom. Spend a few times trying to get a coke bottle size dildo in your ass and you will understand the other side.

  • Ya’ll bottoms got some big holes. I wouldn’t want that.

  • beware of men who say they have a big dick-but dont.

  • Are you naturally huge or did you take something to get that big. I would love that problem. I just haven’t found anything that “really” works.

  • I have the same problem, literally a dollar bill around for me. You just got to find better bottoms that can take it. Should be pleasurable for both parties. The worst is recieving oral though, I get teeth often.

  • Im vers but got length instead of width as a bttm i luv width its not a problrm

  • What a horrible ‘problem’ to have. This sounds like bullshit to me.

  • I personally have NEVER had any problem taking a Man’s Cock as HUGE as yours! Most of my Lover’s have been 6″ to 9″ around and, anywhere from 8″ to 11″ Long.

    So? It just depends on the Bottom. I have NEVER LIKED CONDOMS
    Bareback has always been my preference!

    Thankfully? Most of my relationships have lasted 7 to 9 years at a time, so? I am thankfully HIV-! I LOVE AGGRESSIVE TOPS!

    And having a HUGE COCK CUMMING INSIDE MY HOLE? LOVE IT!!!
    I am in Los Angeles, please look me up!

  • I’m 10 x 6.5. I have no problems with Magnums being “too tight” nor am I “unable” to cum in a condom. My lube expenses are high LOL, but I have no problem finding bottoms who will take a hard pounding. They actually say that I hurt less and give more pleasure than Mr. Stabby with a 6 inch.

  • Though my dick isnt as thick as yours im around ten inches in length and over and over again i encounter guys who just lie about the amount of dick they can handle. It makes me almost violently angry when they say “i cant take it, just let me suck you off.” HEAD DOES NOT MAKE ME CUM!!!!!

  • I would have to see a pic first.

  • Man, can I relate. I’m 11.5×8, and just can’t seem to find a bottom good enough to take it all the way!

  • LMAO I feel you. Those who say its to big are right. to big isnt good for your health either sadly. These thirsty folks on here who say they can take it easily, can be pounded for hours, wont be able to hold their shit in before they are 40. they will need diapers before most old guys lol! To big isnt a problem, theres ways around it. Jerking, sucking the head, reacharounds. Fun alternatives to getting off. I myself cant take a dick thats to big, nor will I because im not destroying myself at the age of 24! I also have a smaller mouth so sucking one to big doesnt work either. and like Long1 commented, so many of these size queens say they can take it, but in all actuality, THEY CANT!

  • Your so right im 10×7 and oral sex does nothing for me as its just too big and i order condoms by mail its embarrising buying them at walgreens. Everything is fine when i top feel bad for u there maybe its a mind over matter thing. Aiden from Tampa

  • we know a bttm who would leave you & “horse” exhausted. sounds like u guys are goin for the wrong ones is all.

  • I would suggest that you find someone who is skilled in taking thick dicks because it’s not for amateurs. Also you could find a bottom that uses poppers. That really helps their asshole to relax.

  • I would suggest that you find someone who is skilled in taking thick dicks because it’s not for amateurs. Also you could find a bottom that uses poppers. That really helps their asshole to relax

  • As a skinny guy, it is most satisfying to have a massive cock dominate you..I love when I can get my face slapped with it and then have my ass all lubed up for a deep hard fucking..it’s amazing to feel a thick cock in you

  • I am a patient bottom that like taking men with girth. It takes a lot of patience to fit in a “tight” space. Good luck with your serch!

  • I have taken 9×6 so you are more than welcome to try me ;)

  • my ass is really tight but i took a very thick cock once and i lived the feeling that i was being ripped. would be nice to meet you and solve your problem. when you coming to London ? or we can meet in Brazil as im from there.

  • Prove that is not photoshopped then we can talk.

  • Nice problem to have. I got fucked by a guy with an 11″ wide dick
    who used a female condom. He said he got more pleasure from it because it stayed put in my ass. Your other alternative is to just look me up, lol.

  • I had a boyfriend that was 9X7 and I had no problem taking him. He let me slide down his shaft and when I was comfortable, he banged the hell out of my man pussy.
    It just takes patience.
    He also wore a condom (maxms) and had no problem putting it on or taking it off.

  • Some men take fists up their ass so I think you just haven’t met the right bottom – or maybe you or the bottom is rushing the situation.

  • My bf has a 6.5.5 and I love it I am a bottom and would like to do a nice 9 or10 in cock and let my nd watch me take it love a nice long thick cock

  • i love big fat monster cock.
    so, who has it , i rent it , really
    c me for details

  • I have a 9 inch dick by 7.5 inch girth and its all the matter of relaxing and going slow at first to get the best pleasure you are seeking

  • i am 9″x6″ and 7″ around the base so i have the same issues.. like it has been said.. lots of lube.. GOOD lube.. silicone and patience, put it in just a little, pull it out, put it in, a little more, pull it out, repeat….i have had a couple of guys use anal eeze also, they say that helps and most of them use poppers.. once it is all the way in you just let it sit there for a minute or 2 until he relaxes enough then start slow movements until he gets comfortable with it then you should be able to go to town ! !

  • I feel like most on here it just takes patients. I love to see a man with a huge pretty dick. Cant say ima power anything but im the type that believes practice makes perfect. So im always up for a man thats packing( especially the ones that feel being bog is a curse) that dont mind me learning how to take his dick no matter how long or thick.

  • I get that so damn much.. Fucking annoying is what it is!! Don’t message me to bottom because you think my dick looks nice and want to take a big tool and not be able to handle it. You knew it was big before we met so stop complaining when that’s all you wanted anyway. I’ve never met a bottom that loosens up with a toy first. Do you honestly think that any of the bottoms in major porn could take those huge pieces scene after scene without a plug or toy!? Common sense is just something that fails to grace some of us.

  • 9×8 here btw

  • I like to get fucked by big dicks. For me you have to be atleast 8.5 or 9inches minimum. My ex-fuck buddy of several years was a 9inch top who loved to fuck my ass on the regular long and deep. My man sometimes would get aggressive and really pound me hard and the fucking would send me into ecstasy. The best position was doggystyle with my bubble butt sticking up in the air for his massive cock. He would thrust and pound inside of me feverishly and I would moan lightly but all the while taking it like a champ. He fucked my ass so often that I became a pro. He got me used to the big dick and now I need it so badly.

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