17 May 2016

A4A : Homophobia

Catégorie: A4A : Health
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Homophobia is an insidious phenomenon that often succeeds in taking hold in a subtle, discreet and often invisible ways. Nobody is immune from hostility and hurtful acts  directed towards homosexuals and homosexuality itself. Even we as homosexuals may adopt homophobic behaviors to shield ourselves from the hate and aggression that comes from homophobia.

The International Day Against Homophobia (IDAHO) strives to fight all forms of Homophobia. Large scale, world-wide efforts like this are needed, as 1.5 billion people globally still live under regimes which criminalize gay relationships.

14 May 2016

A4A : Stats Matters…

Catégorie: A4A : Gay Stuff
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Profiles are sometimes prepared on the basis that stats are telepathically known to surfers.  In reality, members may begin their mornings with a cup of coffee while looking to see who opened their profiles during the overnight hours. They may also wonder why surfers did not send messages. So, let’s consider why your stats are important.

1) For every physical type, size and age there are surfers who could be interested in YOU among the thousands on-line members. (Surfers may be from 18 to seniors in their eighties—yes 80s!) Your on-line stats can encourage them to contact you.

2) If their profile is appealing, YOU should initiate action even when a surfer has not sent a message.  A message not sent will not get a response.

3) Profiles of few words will often be ignored because they look spammy.

18 Apr 2016

A4A : Your Suggestions?

Catégorie: A4A
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Hi guys, I hope you are all having an amazing beginning of week!

I’m writting a little post today to ask you for suggestions. Is there any subjects, categories, themes that you would like me to cover in 2016?

In 6 years, I covered a lot, but I’m sure there are things you would like me to blog about or questions you would like to ask to other gay guys.

Whether you are questioning about relationships, gay life, want to read reviews on sex toys available on our store, want to read more erotic stories, want to have others opinion on open relationships, sex life, or even talk about job, family, music, etc etc….

Let me know what you want. If you want to see more photos, videos, let me know what kind. If you want to read stories, let me know what kind. If you want me to interview pornstars, let me know which ones. If you want more celebrity stuff, more fitness, more fashion, let me know!

Keep in mind that you can always submit your own blog posts to blog @adam4adam.com. Whether you wanna share something special to be published in the “Speak Out” section, a sex story that you wrote, you wanna ask other users their opinion on something, you need a suggestion for a specific situation or have questions about your sexuality, just send me your request and I’ll post it here. Thanks guys!


17 Apr 2016

A4A : Blog Code Of Conduct

Catégorie: A4A
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Somewhere along the way to finding hot sexy playmates, some A4A members have veered off the road into mud-filled ditches! Why? Apparently they have decided to throw mud and be critical of their playmates and everyone who writes on the blog, users and the blog moderator Dave, rather than to be friendly and cordialIsn’t it possible to criticize one another and at the same time express cordiality? Let’s have a code of conduct that is becoming to human males—not animals or robots.


We recommend the adoption of a Code of Conduct for submitting comments. All A4A members must make a special effort to be cordial and understanding—sometimes actually complimenting each other! Therefore, the following actions/reactions are needed:

-Avoid negative, caustic responses and comments.

-You are not the presiding judge—so avoid being judgmental.

-When offering an opinion that is not in sync with the originating blogger, offer a friendly alternative viewpoint to the original statement—don’t call the originator an “idiot.

-Couch your words in a way that is friendly—not demeaning or insulting.

-If you feel too angry or irritated to respond—cool off before submitting your response.

You may find the word “some” is more friendly than “always.” You may also discover “often” can be substituted for “without exception.” Our emotions are not set in concrete! Consider alternative language when responding.

We do not believe the majority of A4A members are caustic, negative persons. Apparently, negatively-induced blogs often result from failure to consider more than one viewpoint. The very essence of our sexuality is in the emotional involvement with each other. None of us wants to have a relationship with a playmate who demeans us or calls us an idiot!

We would also like to inform that the guys who ALWAYS bitch other users will be blocked and won’t be able to post comments in the future. Some users are already blocked, you probably know who you are. If you don’t see your comments posted, know that you are blocked.

Let’s keep the blog a great place to discuss, share and express different opinions while being friendly with each other. Agree?


A4A Team


13 Apr 2016

A4A : Messaging System Upgrade

Catégorie: A4A
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Hey guys, you probably noticed that we did an upgrade on the messaging system, we had to do it at night so it was down for few hours, it will still be partially down tomorrow and Friday during night time. We are upgrading our system because we have millions and millions of messages sent weekly so we needed to change something….

I’m not a pro but that’s what the developers told me. Don’t worry we won’t do these upgrades during rush hours! Just wanted to let you guys know. Everything will be smoother after and we do these changes to offer a better communication system between users. So please don’t contact our support team for that, they are aware of everything.



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