10 Jun 2015

A4A : Blog Code Of Conduct

Catégorie: A4A

Somewhere along the way to finding hot sexy playmates, some A4A members have veered off the road into mud-filled ditches! Why? Apparently they have decided to throw mud and be critical of their playmates and everyone else they text and blog on A4A—rather than to be friendly and cordial. Isn’t it possible to criticize one another and at the same time express cordiality? Let’s have a code of conduct that is becoming to human males—not animals or robots.


We recommend the adoption of a Code of Conduct for submitting blogs and comments. All A4A members must make a special effort to be cordial and understanding—sometimes actually complimenting each other! Therefore, the following actions/reactions are needed:

-Avoid negative, caustic responses and comments.

-You are not the presiding judge—so avoid being judgmental.

-When offering an opinion that is not in sync with the originating blogger, offer a friendly alternative viewpoint to the original statement—don’t call the originator an “idiot.

-Couch your words in a way that is friendly—not demeaning or insulting.

-If you feel too angry or irritated to respond—cool off before submitting your response.


You may find the word “some” is more friendly than “always.” You may also discover “often” can be substituted for “without exception.” Our emotions are not set in concrete! Consider alternative language when responding.

I do not believe the majority of A4A members are caustic, negative persons. Apparently, negatively-induced blogs often result from failure to consider more than one viewpoint. The very essence of our sexuality is in the emotional involvement with each other. None of us wants to have a relationship with a playmate who demeans us or calls us an idiot!

Let’s keep the blog a great place to discuss! Agree?


A4A Team

27 May 2015

A4A : Here’s My New Tuxedo!

Catégorie: A4A : Fashion : Fitness : Gay Stuff : Photography : Promotion


Hey guys, last week was Freshpair‘s huge Memorial Day Sale and I got myself many new hot sexy undies. How do you like that one? It’s PPU’s Tuxedo Bodysuit and got this one full price because it the new collection, but even full price it was super cheap, only $14! I will wear this one on special occasions only!

Do you wear crazy undies like this for fun sometimes too? I wear fun ones only when I fuck with regular buddies not on a date or with a new guy. I think it requires a great sense of humor from your partner…. and I think I’m a funny man so it’s all good!

Would you get something like that?

Also did you notice I lost a bit of weight compared to the last time I showed you a photo of myself? I lost 10 lbs in 4 weeks by doing a summer diet for photo shoots I have in NYC in June! Need to be very lean and top shape! I’ll show you photos when my shoots are done, I promise!

See below for frontal photo!


21 May 2015

Promotion : Show Your Junk!!!!

Catégorie: A4A : Fashion : Promotion



Hey guys, starting today, Freshpair is doing a HUGE sale for Memorial Day, up to 60% off! I browsed through their clearance section and found some of the sexiest styles for you to show your junk! Keep in mind that some designs are sexier and more like “sex underwear” while others are more your everyday underwear. Let me know which one you prefer below!

First, my favorite style is from CLEVER. The Melanite Classic Brief is sexy and exotic in style, providing a sheer, see-through look on the back and sides, but an opaque pouch to keep things PG rated in front. Wear when the occasion calls for sexy! (see below)

17 May 2015

A4A : Homophobia

Catégorie: A4A

Stop Homophobia

Homophobia is an insidious phenomenon that often succeeds in taking hold in a subtle, discreet and often invisible ways. Nobody is immune from hostility and hurtful acts  directed towards homosexuals and homosexuality itself. Even we as homosexuals may adopt homophobic behaviors to shield ourselves from the hate and aggression that comes from homophobia.

The International Day Against Homophobia (IDAHO) strives to fight all forms of Homophobia. Large scale, world-wide efforts like this are needed, as 1.5 billion people globally still live under regimes which criminalize gay relationships.

30 Apr 2015

A4A : Apps – We Want Your Suggestions!!

Catégorie: A4A



Hey guys, we are in the process of redesigning our iOS and Android apps and we want YOU to tell us what YOU want! In the comment section below, leave your suggestions, your comments, what you would like us to add and remove in terms of functions and design. We would also like to know if you would like us to create a new functionality to help you find faster and easier what YOU need. Remember when geo localisation was brand new? Well now, what’s next? Let’s innovate and find ideas to create the best app so that you can meet the guys you want to meet. It is your turn to create something, a new function, the floor is yours. Shoot your ideas! Ready, set, go!



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