26 May 2016

Gay Stuff : In Sync with Others

Catégorie: Gay Stuff
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Comments on A4A suggest our body chemistry is in sync with other guys if positive contacts get off the ground! If not introduced by a friend or colleague from work, some guys start the process by glancing at other males while sitting at their favorite hangout. Hopefully their eyes will “lock onto” those of another male. If eye contact is made, they glance away quickly but then return for a longer look while they size up each other. Body chemistry can set up a strong emotional draw through eye contact. That can lead to an initial impromptu “hello.” Some responses can escalate rapidly into more than “hello” and you exchange greetings with “my name is…..”

When looking for a potential playmate, you may find yourself evaluating his physical assets. After making eye contact, his physique will usually get your attention first and his personality will come in second. You may discover his personality is friendly and warm and revealed in the way he expresses himself. Although you may suppress your initial feelings, desire for physical encounters cannot be ignored. Some guys don’t want to come across as taking inventory of the meat market and thus will meet the first time without any significant physical contact.

25 May 2016

Gay Stuff : Formula for Disaster

Catégorie: Gay Stuff
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NOTE: As a counselor, I sometimes find myself in the midst of the developmental stages of a major disaster on the horizon. The following scenario is real and only the names and places are deleted to protect the innocent from the fallout.   Now for the facts:

A young teacher, age 28 in a European capital city, asked for my assistance with his frustrations concerning his sexuality—whether bisexual or gay. I learned that he is fluent in English and has responsibilities with Olympic activities. He is the eldest of two sons in an Eastern Orthodox family that lives in another city in his country where his father is a medical professional. They are unaware of his frustrations with his sexuality and certainly would not condone any idea of his possibly being gay. He states having had sexual relations with females in the past but only a single encounter with a much older man who sucked him off. At this juncture in his life, he wants to explore his gay side and discover whether he is bisexual or gay.

20 May 2016

Fantasy : 7 Tips For Deep-Throating

Catégorie: Fantasy : Gay Stuff
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If you didn’t know, deep-throating is a sexual act in which one guy takes his partner’s entire erect penis deep into their own mouth, past the epiglottis, and into the throat. For deep-throating, the penis has to be long enough so that it can reach the back of the recipient’s throat. The technique and term were popularized by the 1972 pornographic film Deep Throat.

It is difficult for most people (except true bottom cocksuckers) to perform deep-throating, due to the natural gag reflex evoked when the soft palate is touched.Different people have different sensitivities to the reflex; with practice some people learn to suppress it. Deep-throating leads to an entirely different kind of oral stimulation in comparison to regular fellatio, while the giving partner’s tongue is immobilized during deep-throating and they are unable to suck the receiver’s glans penis is intensely stimulated by the tightness of the giving partner’s throat.

Here are some tips for the perfect deep-throating:  

19 May 2016

Gay Stuff : Too Old, Too Young or Just Right?

Catégorie: Gay Stuff
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With the expanding “Daddy culture” currently in play, age differences of more than twenty years suggest a profiled guy may be interested in playmates around their own age or interested in males many years older or younger! Some A4A members feel their targeted playmates will be around their own ages, but fail to realize that there are many members who are looking further. Some members feel that surfing for suitable playmates more than twenty years older or younger is not acceptable. They may even be referred to as cradle snatchers, or perverts.

Many 20-something year’s old males are interested in guys in their forties and vice versa. When asked about playmate preferences, these younger guys indicated they wanted something more intellectual, more secure, and a playmate that has already experienced some of the twenty-something culture and lifestyle. The older males seem to be looking for vitality, stamina and intellect.

After the sexual heat and cum explosions have subsided briefly, there are opportunities for playmates of any age to have pillow talk time on subjects ranging far and wide—not just about sexual pleasure. Diversity in culture and experience is a powerful component to a relationship. If just a hookup, this may not be relevant. However, some relationships began as hookups!

So, if you are targeting a specific age group, speed up the surfing process by providing info in your profile on your desired age group. And make sure to include your age as well for others to find you when they use the search feature.

SexCounselor4U

16 May 2016

Gay Stuff : Swallow or Spit?

Catégorie: Gay Stuff
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When it comes to cum swallowing, I’m very picky ! (lol) I mean for me, sex is not only physical, but also mental. I need to be fully aroused to swallow the guy’s cum and this means that I need to be not only physically attracted to the guy but the sex has to be like I like it to be. If the guy has a gorgeous body and face but acts in a way that I don’t like, I will not want to even touch his cum, funny eh? The same guy with very manly manners and with whom the sexual connection is perfect, could splash his load on my face, mouth or anywhere he wants and have me swallow it to the last drop.

But there is always a danger in cum swallowing though. One of my friends got infected with HIV doing oral sex. He doesn’t practice anal sex, so that’s why he knows he got infected by sucking cocks. I guess he went too hard or too deep and got small sores …. so you need to be careful dudes! Some do BJs with condom to be safe…but personally I’m not crazy about eating sucking on plastic.

So you had my opinion on cum swallowing, now I want yours. Tell me if for you cum swallowing is cool or if it’s not your cup of tea. Do you like to swallow or do you spit it? Also tell me if you are top, vers or bottom. That way we will know who likes what….

Dave