2 May 2016

Gay Stuff : Pushing Your Buttons

Catégorie: Dating : Gay Stuff
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Sexually, guys are sometimes displeased with their playmate choices after surfing online, arranging to meet one another, and then discovering that they were misunderstood somewhere in the communication process. WOW! After going to the effort to meet, realizing you and your potential playmate are not in sync is very irritating. How could your potential playmate have misunderstood what you wanted, and the compromises you were willing to make?

So, do you feel that someone seems to be pushing your buttons?

Yes, you are probably right! Someone somewhere is always pushing our buttons….in all the wrong places.

28 Apr 2016

Gay Stuff : Would You have Sex With Yourself?

Catégorie: Fantasy : Gay Stuff
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A user of A4A asked me this question last week right here, on the blog and I thought about asking you the question too. If you met someone exactly like you, exact same stats, same personality and looks exactly like you; would you have sex with him?

I would be interested to know why you would or why you wouldn’t.

I personally told him I would probably not have sex with me because I’m bottom, BUT I would totally suck my own dick because it looks yummy! What about you? Don’t be shy, be honest!


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24 Apr 2016

Speak Out : Gay in the Workplace

Catégorie: Gay Stuff : Speak Out
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Since my first post on here, I have come to find you all to be a very opinionated and insightful bunch. I would like to share my experiences with you, and hear all about your experiences with “being” Gay in the Workplace—whatever that means.

For every job I have ever had; my first being a lifeguard, to my current–working in payroll in a very large office; I always bump into this awkward tension about my sexuality. I’m not D.L. I consider myself to be out. My friends, family and all those invested in my happiness all know. If anything I consider myself to be somewhat private. I do not need Nosey Betty all in my business, SPREADING my business to the entire office. Regardless, people will talk.

When I first started my current job, I was hired with a group of people. Several weeks into our training the CEO and two managers hosted a lunch with the four of us. In an effort to get to know us, the CEO went around the table asking us where we were from, if we are married/single, parents, in school. In just typing this story to you it all seems like harmless questions right? Let’s continue…the talkative girl in our group talked about how she is in a committed relationship and she really thinks he is going to pop the question (and he did 2 years later), one guy was engaged (then married and divorced because his wife didn’t want to have sex as often as he’d like then got with this next chick after the comma), the other was in a long distance relationship (dumped him and got with the previous guy-ask yourself how I know all this information-do you see how messy and dramatic offices can be!?).

22 Apr 2016

Fantasy : Describe Your Ideal Man

Catégorie: Fantasy : Gay Stuff
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Today I’d like to know what is your type of man? Over the years managing the blog, I’ve read from many of you that you are “tired of the gay stereotypes”, that there are “not enough average guys in porn”, that “the gays are too plastic and all about the looks and muscles”, that “there isn’t enough diversity in the community” etc.

I want to know what gets YOU off? What kind of man do you like the most? I am not ONLY talking about looks here, both appearance and personality! His shape, his ethnicity, his size, his height, his sex role and age, but also his education, his values, his humour, how extroverted/introverted he is etc.

Is he short, Asian, bottom, shy and submissive? Is he a tall bear, versatile and goofy? Is he Black, with a nice bubblebutt and a big heart? What is your ideal, the man of your dream? Make sure to leave your username at the end of your comment, maybe your ideal man will read it and will want to chat with you or even meet you, who knows?!

Have a good day boys!


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16 Apr 2016

Gay Stuff : Tips For Online Dating/Hookup

Catégorie: Gay Stuff
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After spending many years on online gay hook-up sites, I believe I have finally learned some rules for successfully meeting up with other men. Gay men are a fickle bunch as a whole and in a perfect world probably none of these tips would apply. Although there can be many more added, following are some of the basic rules for making yourself more marketable online and getting those men to want to meet up with you:

1- Be witty and clever when describing yourself and why you are online in the first place. Don’t say you are online because you are “bored”.  No one really likes the idea that they are simply saving you from spending another tedious evening at home and you don’t want him to know the true reasons you’re alone anyway.  Be sure not to describe yourself as “down to earth”.  Instead of how everyone else might understand its definition, the actual meaning in gayspeak apparently is “high-maintenance”.