2 Jul 2015

Speak Out : Labeling Gays?

Catégorie: Gay Stuff : Speak Out



(Photo; Facebook’s Mark Zuckerberg)

After reading that article, all I came to really realize is that I’m glad I don’t constantly read HuffPost. The fact that, that rather whiny blogger gets such coverage while others with more defined voices struggle and fight (And I don’t mean me) for hits every day is sad. To me this is a Twink crying that someone stole HIS special day. And that’s the main issue with THE WHOLE argument about this article. It’s based on a faulty foundation. The one we’re all living on, built on fear and categorization, the one that’s kinda falling apart now, from under us causing article like this to be written.

Labeling is for organizing THINGS, not people and when we label people is when we run into issues. Sexuality is such a SMALL part of who we are as people, and too many people get caught up in that. He’s upset that straight people are eating the gay cake, when the whole issue is there is just “cake” not Straight, Gay, Black, White…. Ect cake,  there’s just cake.

While YES, I do agree with people ego stroking and just doing stuff to blend in, that’s not new or news. Apathy is sweeping the nation in thick sheets like The Blob. People are just not up to caring as much as they used to. They’re not used to having to commit anything more than a couple of clicks and taps on a screen or keyboard. Organization meetings and fundraisers are dead and empty, yet their RSVP on Facebook is almost 300….. why is that? 

28 Jun 2015

Hot Or Not : Topher DiMaggio

Catégorie: Hot or Not


You may already know that Topher Dimaggio is an award-winning pornstar. You probably don’t know that he was actually born in Hawaii and that he is now based in Los Angeles. Topher was born December 27 1985, he is 29 years old and is a mix of Italian and Irish. At the age of 17, Topher became an Abercrombie & Fitch model. If you think his abs look familiar, it might be because a photo of his stomach was featured on the store’s bag for three seasons.

Like many other models, Topher found himself being offered the chance to go nude and do a solo video. He accepted and his first scenes as an adult model appeared in 2007. It took him a few years to become widely known, but eventually Topher became one of the most popular young performers in gay porn.

He is still modelling for Andrew Christian, one of the hottest underwear brand in the world. He does many promotional campaigns and videos for the company.

Now let me know if you find Topher Hot or Not? I think he looks hot! A bit short for me though, I like my man tall!


27 Jun 2015

Speak Out : Marriage Equality! Now What?

Catégorie: Speak Out



(This post was written by a member of A4A, if you too would like to submit a text, send to : blog at adam4adam dot com)

Yesterday was a happy day for America as the Supreme Court of the United States ruled 5 to 4 that Marriage Equality is now legal across the nation, superseding all State constitutions and striking down all bans. Millions of people all over this nation are now celebrating and I’m sure parties and clubs will be going on well all over weekend and soon Clerks offices all over the country will be flooded with couples ready to commit to one another.


But after all this struggle and success, is this the final push to change the stigma of the gay community and its ideas of relationships and courting rituals? Specifically gay men.

From a young age, girls are indoctrinated to start planning their “special day”. Flowers, dresses, food, why most girls have it planned before graduation, even if they don’t have the man. But with men it’s not expected much besides what kinda stripper they want for the Bachelor party.

23 Jun 2015

Survey : Hookups VS Dating

Catégorie: Contest

After few days, the survey told us the truth: You are all sluts! No I’m joking guys… But nearly 59% of you are using A4A for sex. Around 27% are using A4A for love and dating and 14% had other answers but mainly for friendship. The “uncertain” category also includes those who responded with comments that did not clearly define their own desires.

At the end of the day, A4A is what you make of it. Whether you are looking for love, sex or friends, just know that there are thousands of other guys like you looking for the same exact thing.

Enjoy A4A and most of all, have fun:)

Hookups:  58.9%
LTRs:  26.7%
Other:  14.4%
19 Jun 2015

Survey : Hook Ups or Relationships

Catégorie: survey


(Photo: MEN)


Some A4A members are online to connect with their next “hook ups”while others are online to find special guys to begin the next chapters of their lives. Thus, A4A serves distinct sexual interest categories for gays and bisexuals.

DEFINITIONS: “Hook ups” are online searches for immediate contact and sexual activity. “LTRs” are defined as searches for playmates/partners whose personal desires and philosophies are in sync for a long-term relationship.

Some members become self-defensive and critical of other subscribers whose ideas on sexual encounters are not similar to theirs. (Sometimes “put a sock in it” should be stated when unthinking, insensitive bloggers deride views not in sync with their own.)

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