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I can honestly say that I’ve never had a crush on any of my straight guy friends… until about a year ago. The majority of my friends are straight guys; partly because I have a hard time meeting gay guys organically, and partly because we have a very similar sense of humor. I’m very adamant about not blurring the line between friendship and attraction, and I’ve never had any issues in the past.
About a year ago, I became pretty good friends with this guy who moved from out of state. Physically he was definitely my type, I noticed this right away, but I knew he was straight so I let any hint of attraction fall away. After hanging out and multiple moments of platonic male bonding, I realized that our personalities complimented each other very well. I tend to be more logical and rational than emotional. In fact sometimes I’m completely oblivious to how I feel about certain things. It was by best friend since kindergarten that pointed out, after one too many casual statements beginning with my new friend’s name and ending with the phrase “if only he were gay”, that my feelings toward him were more than platonic.
Many younger men like the company of older men and vice versa. But why? Some will say that these younger guys have “daddy issues” or that they didn’t had a great relation with their dads and this is what they are looking for in a relationship. When they see a younger guy with an older man they automatically think the boy is an escort.
Older men into younger are usually associated by society to perverts. Some think they are paying the boy to be with them. Some say that they simply miss their younger years and appreciate the company of a younger guy to keep them cool and hip!
Whatever the reasons, we don’t care, right? Who said an older man cannot be with a younger? I personally enjoy older men, probably because I didn’t have a great relation with my dad or a great connection with men in general as a kid, I don’t know and to be honest I don’t really care. I like the feeling of being “protected” by an older man, that’s all. And I find them more attractive than many younger guys.
What about you? Do you like to date or hookup with guys that are your age or you like to go older or younger?
FYI, I discovered a nice porn site recently that focuses on older/younger sex, check it out here and let me know if you like!
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So I have this little dilemma. I am in a relationship where my partner, which I love very much, has this very annoying thing. Every time that I do something wrong he loves to rub it in my face, I don’t have a problem if he just does it once, but he actually does it for the remaining of the day and he brings it up every time he has a chance; is getting to the point that I have to tell him that I don’t want to talk to him any more; the worst part is that he blames me for me getting upset, and to make matters even worst he begins his sarcastic routine of apologizing for everything; and when I say everything I mean it, the only thing he doesn’t apologize for is for the air I breathe; is very obnoxious.
An example of this happened the other day. He wants to record us having sex, which I strongly refuse to do it. Well he; and I don’t know how and for the same reasons I don’t want to be film having sex; found a video of me having sex with a guy before I meet him; PS a video recording I didn’t authorized, and a whole different thing that I will have to take care of; now he is insinuating that I have lied to him and that I like/don’t mind being recorded; which I do mind I don’t want something like that going around the internet, which I have explain that to him plenty.
This morning I watched this student-led interview at Stanford Graduate School of Business on youtube in which Oprah Winfrey shares seminal moments of her career journey and the importance of listening to your instincts. Winfrey also offers advice to students on how to find their calling: “Align your personality with your purpose, and no one can touch you” she said.
But all these suggestions are not only applicable to business, they are applicable to life too. In your love life, with your friends, family, your work, the way you live your entire life.
I thought this would be interesting for you to watch the video as well. Some of us sometimes struggle because we have problems with our parents not accepting us or our work colleagues, we fear rejection, we even reject ourselves. But we are strong on the inside, we are humans, whatever colour our skin is, whatever our sexuality is…. We are all able to do great things, like Oprah
Check it out below, it is an hour long, but definitely a must see! Let me know your thoughts and have a wonderful day!
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I have to say that I really enjoy seing army men! They look so rugged and manly with their camouflage attire…Few sad events happened in Canada this week, military guys got killed by some crazy dudes (Islamic State), cops are still investigating….But I don’t wanna talk about sad things now. I want to talk about how gorgeous our military men are. Since these events, we see military men everywhere in Canada, on TV and in the streets and it makes me smile:)
There’s something sexy about them that makes me horny. Manliness, army is a symbol of masculinity. I love their uniform, the boots, their gun and they are usually in top shape. Even average guys dressed up in camo, are turned into gorgeous beasts!
So YES, I find military men very hot. Especially muscular ones!
What about you? Do you like army guys?
(more pics after the jump)