16 Nov 2015

Love : They Found Love On A4A

Catégorie: A4A : Gay Stuff : Love
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I was amazed to see our A4A Twitter account tagged this morning by none other than New York Times! The famous newspaper has a wedding section in which they mentioned that Neil and Daniel met through Adam4Adam in 2007 and finally got married. When we say that Adam4Adam is what you make of it, that’s the proof!

In a recent post on our blog, we discussed about wether or not love exists. It does! You just need to be patient. And for those who said that A4A was a hookup site, yes it is, but it is also a dating site, a social site. Many of you have been there since the beginning, 2003, some of you developed friendship through A4A, some found love, some found sex parties, some found hookups. There’s something for everyone.

We rarely get to hear about the couples who formed on A4A because most of the times, they delete their accounts or at least don’t use it the same way. But if you’d like to get featured as a A4A couple, let me know (blog@adam4adam.com) and I’ll be glad to share your story on the blog, Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. It is always great for other members to hear about stories like these!

Congratulations to Neil and Daniel!


27 Oct 2015

Speak Out : Hooking Up With Pure Strangers…

Catégorie: Gay Stuff : Speak Out
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I have a hard time to meet a stranger and fuck with him as soon as we meet. I used to be able to do that when I was a horny young chicken, but at 33 years old, I need more than sex in my hookups. I was in NYC last week and I have to admit that meeting hot guys is easy. So many gays in this city! My RADAR app was gonna explode….

I talked with an handsome man who invited me over. I told him I would rather know him a little bit and spend time with him before we fuck and he totally understood. We went for coffee and walked on the high line for few hours then got to his place and had awesome sex. I feel like when you “know” the person a bit, you can share more intimacy. I also feel like when you kiss and look at each other, it is more real… I don’t know if you get what I mean? Maybe I’m crazy and in need of affection and love lol!

Let me know if you too like to spend time with your hookup/date before having actual sex.



15 Oct 2015

Gay Stuff : Lovers and Roommates

Catégorie: Gay Stuff
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How many times have you experienced difficulties with lovers who eventually became roommates OR roommates who became lovers?

Many A4A members have experienced issues with lovers and roommates that required finding solutions. Older guys who have made “wrong turns” on roommate road are usually more familiar with related problems than younger guys who have just begun traveling down the road.

When two guys enjoy each other’s company and their physical relationship is torrid, moving in together often enters the picture! This may happen without one party having to change his lifestyle or address, but will require his lover to make changes—sometimes substantial. Because of changes involved, a roommate rental agreement should be considered to clarify 1) what is about to happen; 2) what will be the result; and 3) what if the pair decides later to separate. (Just because you are not getting married does not remove the need for documentation.)

11 Oct 2015

Speak Out : National Coming Out Day

Catégorie: A4A : Gay Stuff : Speak Out
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National Coming Out Day (NCOD) is an annual civil awareness day internationally observed on October 11 to recognize members of the LGBTQ+ community. As you know the process of coming out involves self-disclosure of one’s sexual orientation and/or gender identity.

NCOD was founded in 1988 by Robert Eichberg, a psychologist from New Mexico and founder of the personal growth workshop, The Experience, and Jean O’Leary, an openly gay political leader from Los Angeles and then head of the National Gay Rights Advocates. The date of October 11 was chosen because it was the anniversary of the 1987 National March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights.

Initially administered from the West Hollywood offices of the National Gay Rights Advocates, the first NCOD received participation from eighteen states, garnering national media coverage. In its second year NCOD headquarters moved to Santa Fe, New Mexico and participation grew to 21 states. After a media push in 1990 NCOD was observed in all 50 states and seven other countries. Participation continued to grow and in 1990 NCOD merged their efforts with the Human Rights Campaign.

Happy NCOD everyone!


7 Oct 2015

Gay Stuff : How Many Times Per Week?

Catégorie: Gay Stuff
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Hi guys, I am curious to know something. Gays are known to like sex a lot, but do we have sex as often as we would want? What about some of us who like sex but very rarely meet, face to face, or never meet anyone. I’d like to know how often do YOU have sex. Is it every day? Once a week? Once a month? Never?

I personally very rarely meet guys for REAL sex. I usually have sex with myself, I jerkoff at least once a day. But like we say in french and I translate ” better be alone than be in bad company”. I’m a picky guy. I’m not looking for a top model but I like my guys tall, fit and want ’em 100% top.