2 Mar 2015

Speak Out : I No Longer Want To Be Gay

Catégorie: Speak Out

I no longer want to be gay. I know that on the surface this statement reeks of the denial, self-loathing and internalized homophobia commonly associated with accepting and integrating ones gayness but truth is, I just don’t want to be gay anymore. It has outlived its usefulness. I have experienced all aspects of the life and can safely say that it no longer speaks to the person that I am or want to become. I didn’t always feel this way.

Initially I came to this community searching for love, intimacy and brotherhood. In return, I got shade, infidelity, loneliness and disunity. The self-loathing in this community forces you to encounter a series of broken men who are self-destructive, hurtful, cruel and vindictive towards one another. I have struggled to adapt my moral code to fit the behaviors concomitant with the lifestyle but it seems that the lifestyle is forcing me too far away from everything I love and value. No matter how many times I try to purge my perception of its firmly held beliefs and skewed biases, the same classic stereotypes of gay men keep rearing their ugly heads. The indiscriminate sex, superficiality, unstable relationships, self-hatred, peter pan syndrome, closeted connections, ageism, shade, loneliness, preoccupation with sex, prejudice, aversion to intimacy all seem to come out of the ground I thought they were buried under. Gay men just seem to find it difficult to transcend the stereotypes and clichés attached to the life and it is becoming disheartening.

17 Feb 2015

Speak Out : Small Cock VS Big Cock

Catégorie: Speak Out



Some like big ones, some like medium size, some like tiny ones….but I’ve noticed that a majority of gays like big cocks. Why is that? Is it because the penis is the symbol of masculinity and that the bigger the penis, the more you’re a man? What is behind this love of big cocks?

Because you have to admit when you get fucked by 11 inches of meat, it hurts a bit more than a 6 inchers… And don’t say no, because I tried both, so I know what I’m talking about! So it can’t be the physical sensation….is it psychological? Liking the idea of being stuffed by something “abnormally” big?

So what is it about the size? Why a size more than another?

If you like big ones, check out this website dedicated to monster cocks, it’s very cool!



9 Jan 2015

Speak Out : And My Power Is…

Catégorie: Speak Out

Most of the time my brain is working on overdrive.  I’m currently in school working on my second degree.  My first degree was Music Performance, focusing on piano and flute (all jokes are welcome) and composition.  As it turns out, if you want to play in a symphony all you have to do is audition and if you want to be a super star or the next Beyonce…it’s a lot more about who you know in the industry and having enough money to hire an agent.  So now I’m going to school for languages, French and Mandarin Chinese specifically, in order to work in an Embassy, military contracting or business translations.  I speak four languages at the moment and spend my free time writing music and making CDs (mostly as a hobby and when I’m too cheap to buy actual gifts) so my brain is always working.

On occasion I focus my mental prowess into a deeply insightful, poignant and altogether important question:  If I woke up tomorrow and had suddenly acquired a super power, which one would it be!!?!?

29 Dec 2014

Soeak Out : Gays And Religion

Catégorie: Speak Out

For gay people, the subject of faith can cause an uproar of emotions.  A lot of us laugh at the Christians with the picket signs at the Pride Parades, or just shake our heads at any gathering of the Westboro Baptist Church.  The idea of religion (whether Christian or other) can be a point of contention with many gay people who have been bullied, attacked or had relationships suffer because of religious people.  As I said to God once a long time ago, “It’s not you I have a problem with, really…it’s your people!”

The problem a lot of gay people have is that we do find ourselves, generally, searching for what lies beyond this physical world that we live in, but also find ourselves cast away from those who might give us answers.  The idea of a loving God isn’t absurd, it’s just the expression of that God by His people that seems to mess up the message.  In order to just get to “God loves me” we have to go through a spiritual Tough Mudder course of bigotry, hypocrisy, anger and holy curses just to get to the misinterpretation of scripture, then the misapplication of the misinterpretation…and by the time we get the end it’s almost like “THIS is religion!? You can keep it!”

20 Dec 2014

Gay Stuff : Anal Orgasm?

Catégorie: Gay Stuff : Health : Speak Out


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(This question has been sent to my mailbox from a member. I am not a specialist, but I’m sure we have health specialist or power bottoms that will know the answer to this. See below.) 

I have been wondering a lot about anal orgasms.  I have had guys state that ass don’t orgasm, but I have heard a small percentage of guys say different. I know when I watch amateur porn, I see that some guys “cream” a lot.  I don’t think that they’re cumming out of their asses, but I think that a combination of mucous and lube might be the culprit.
I really do wonder if guys really have anal orgasms.  I have never heard a guy while watching porn actually state that their ass was having an orgasm.  So, what you think?


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