20 Dec 2014

Gay Stuff : Anal Orgasm?

Catégorie: Gay Stuff : Health : Speak Out


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(This question has been sent to my mailbox from a member. I am not a specialist, but I’m sure we have health specialist or power bottoms that will know the answer to this. See below.) 

I have been wondering a lot about anal orgasms.  I have had guys state that ass don’t orgasm, but I have heard a small percentage of guys say different. I know when I watch amateur porn, I see that some guys “cream” a lot.  I don’t think that they’re cumming out of their asses, but I think that a combination of mucous and lube might be the culprit.
I really do wonder if guys really have anal orgasms.  I have never heard a guy while watching porn actually state that their ass was having an orgasm.  So, what you think?


14 Dec 2014

Speak Out : Preferences

Catégorie: Speak Out

I don’t know when we started saying this…or writing it, really since it appeared on profiles all over the apps and internet websites that we use for “dating”.  It must have originated somewhere, and like all things PC it seemed a way to make something a little uncomfortable feel a little more easy to stomach.

“If you are fat, ugly, Asian or black don’t message me.  Sorry, just my preference”.

“Only into white guys who are masculine and fit.  Not, repeat NOT, into blacks, Asians, fatties, oldies or fems.  Don’t get pissed; it’s just my preference.”

Statements like these confuse me.  How could someone NOT get angry over a statement like that?  It’s like me showing up to a family dinner at your house and saying, “I’m not sure I want to eat this because your fat, ugly mother cooked it.  Hey, don’t get mad it’s just my preference”.  The statement itself is not some magical band-aid that suddenly makes everything better.  The words are hateful and cruel.  Hateful and cruel things are specifically geared to hurt people and cause damage.

5 Dec 2014

Speak Out : I Am Pissed!

Catégorie: Speak Out

Hey guys, I was on A4A yesterday and this guy came to talk to me. Beautiful, sexy, muscular, hairy chest, intelligent, handsome…I mean the kind of guy you can’t find in Montreal! He wanted to meet. I didn’t want to meet yesterday so suggested we could meet today (Friday). He said “ok”.

Today, I messaged him, he doesn’t reply. Then I asked him why he was not replying. He answered ” I was turned off by your profession”! I was shocked. Last night I had told him I was a stylist/personal shopper and also social media/blog director at A4A. I remembered I looked in his profile the day before and could read “profession/age/race irrelevant”. So I went back to him and pointed that out. To be honest I was pissed by his comment. I don’t personally define myself with my work. I am a 32 years old gay dude, I work, I travel, I love animals, I love sex, I love fashion and many other things and my work is only something I do, but it’s not me. It’s not my “life goal” !

My point is, am I the only one who is tired of that bullshit? We spend time trying to find a man for sex or for a relation, but then when everything works and there is a fit and then I hear crazy shit like this, I’m very disappointed by gay men. So what I’m saying is “Man Up” and be real! If you write something in your profile, act accordingly. And don’t make people lose their time with such stupidity!

Pissed Dave

20 Nov 2014

Speak Out : Ginger, Black, Grey….Whatever!

Catégorie: Speak Out

The Story “Gotta Love Those Young Black Men” got my thinking about another group stereotyped with pro or con prejudices: Ginger

I have to ask, whats up with all these guys cruising and stalking us Gingers?  I don’t get it.

Ok, lets look at the facts: Sure the red hair is sort of hot on a YOUNG guy.  Mine has changed colors over the years.  I was a brilliant fire red in my teens, auburn as an adult, and now at 50 dulling to a weird rust red with gray.  (Thank you Clairol for saving me.  A touch of ash blond – and it grabs the red pigment and I’m red again.)

8 Nov 2014

Speak Out : “Fitness Is A Must”

Catégorie: Speak Out

(If you want to submit a blog post too, please send it to blog@adam4adam.com)

I know staying healthy is something everyone wants and there’s nothing wrong with it, but for a while I’ve been seeing people putting in their profiles that others must either be perfectly fit and hit the gym at least 4 to 5 times a week, have a noticeably built body or be as masculine as possible to even bother speaking to them…..

Now I know people have their preferences, but are we, as a community, so judgmental to the point we won’t even speak to someone of a different “group” unless they pass the requirements? is it taboo to be a chubby chaser? or to NOT have a six pack? what’s wrong with just being an average Joe? is sex and lust what the gay life is all about?

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