16 Apr 2014

Speak Out : Why Does Skin Color Means So Much?

Catégorie: Speak Out

(Hi guys, below is another reaction to a recent post about racism online. If you too would like to write on this blog about something you want to share or an opinion or a sex story etc, feel free to send us your text at blog @ adam4adam . com with your username)

I am a young mixed male living in Colorado Springs, Colorado and I cannot tell you how many times I have been turned down by men online simply because of my skin color. I try my best to make connections and to reach out to guys, I mean you can’t win a game if you don’t play right? So as hard as I try to play the game I always come up short for some reason.  One day I sent a HELLO to a very cute guy that I thought would be cool to get to know but he replied to me saying,  “omg please kill yourself you ugly monkey”. I was very confused because I have never heard someone call me a ugly monkey before and was wondering what I did to offend him.  So I asked him, “what did I do to offend you?” I didn’t think saying hello was such a bad thing, but he replied one last time saying, “you are too dark and I do not like dark men only Whites and Latinos get to touch this”. When I went to “explain myself” he had blocked me. I was still very confused as to why my skin color meant so much to him. You would think he would want to at least be friends or at least associates, but he wouldn’t open his mind to that. That then makes me wonder how many more men are like him.

10 Apr 2014

Speak Out : Blurred (Color) Lines

Catégorie: Speak Out


 I recently moved to Denver from another Colorado small town after graduating college, and I have to say the nightlife is amazing; at least to what I was used to. There are so many places for gay men to go, whether it’s inside or outside, and the eye candy is definitely oh so sweet. Denver has a lot of cute, athletic guys to choose from, however, one reoccurring problem I’ve had with a certain type of guys in and out of cyberspace is my skin color.

9 Apr 2014

Speak Out : Are You Out?

Catégorie: Speak Out


I’ve been out since I’m 18! Not by choice though…I’m sure some of you guys struggled too or are still worried about what others will say or think about their sexual orientation.

I was raised in a very religious baptist family, my dad was a preacher…It was clear for us that we had to be the perfect kids. No sex before wedding, no drugs, no alcool so don’t even think about being gay. My aunt, my mother’s sister, is lesbian. I was always “her favorite”. She was covering me with gifts for my birthdays, Valentine’s day, Easter and Christmas. My brother and sister were always a bit pissed they were not getting anything… It was her way to tell me “you are not alone and you are loved”! 

24 Mar 2014

Speak Out : Rejection On Dating Sites

Catégorie: Gay Stuff : Speak Out

Rejection is something we deal with every day.  What we need to do is learn to deal with it and not take it so personally. 

Let’s say you are cruising on line and you come across Mr. Right Now.  You read his profile and it’s like he was looking for you all this time.  You read more and are sure he is talking about you.  You send him an email and wait, very sure he will read your profile and get back to you.  You wait and wait and wait. 

Finally you see he has looked at your profile, read your email and still hasn’t responded.  You wait a little while longer until you see he has deleted your email.

9 Mar 2014

Speak Out : I Don’t Like Anal Sex

Catégorie: Speak Out


Hi Guys, I hope you are enjoying your weekend so far! I received an email from one of our members and he wanted me to publish it on the blog. If you would like to submit a text, a blog post, a sex story, ask a question to other members etc, feel free to send me a note at blog at adam4adam dot com. See Shaun’s question below!

“It kind of feels like I’m the only one who is gay and not into anything anal.  Like all the other stuff, sucking, kissing, touching, masturbating but anal doesn’t turn me on at all.  Is there anyone else out there that feels the same way?

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