25 Aug 2015

Watch This : HIV+ Man Asks Strangers To Touch Him

Catégorie: Gay Stuff : Health : Watch this !


Finnish guy Janne Antin wanted to show what it is like to live with HIV, the stigma related to it and at the same time raise awareness on the condition. It is an extremely moving video. I actually saw it when it first came out few month ago and it made me cry. This morning when I woke up, I had a flash about it and went online to find it to share it with you.

I am telling you this is extremely disturbing how some people react. I won’t tell you what their reactions are, I will simply let you watch the video. Make sure you have a box of tissue not too far….


10 Aug 2015

Health : Prostate Massage

Catégorie: Health : Sex Toys


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The G-Spot or Sacred Spot of a man is his prostate gland. Tantric philosophy considers the G-Spot a man’s emotional sex center. Massaging the man’s prostate releases tremendous amounts of emotional and physical stress. Coupled with stimulation of his penis or “lingam”, massaging his prostate can be extremely pleasurable and healing to the man. Since the most direct way to massage the man’s Sacred Spot is through his anus, it takes time to adjust to being penetrated in this way. It is not for every man. The benefits are many and the pleasure can be very intense. For tantric partners, lovers or those otherwise genuinely comfortable with one another, massaging the sacred spot can be a powerful experience. Not only in terms of ecstatic pleasure for the “receiver”, but in the sexual empowerment it bestows on the “giver”.

The walnut sized prostate gland is located directly underneath the bladder, not far from the internal root of the penis (see diagram). As can be seen, the gland is in close proximity to the rectal wall,  allowing for easy access through the anus.

5 Aug 2015

Health : Guide To Clean And Prepare Your Ass

Catégorie: Health


So yesterday’s post got lots of guys questioning on how to properly prepare their ass before anal sex. Anal sex is not just for gay men and not all gay men do it in the butt, but most gay men will have butt sex sometime in their life.

First, anal sex is not just about pleasing the top, your anus and rectum have tons of nerve endings and pleasure from anal sex can come from simple penetration and/or the stimulation of the prostate gland.

Taking care of your butt is an important part of taking control of your overall health but it is not always easy to talk about with your doctor about your ass. As gay men we need a doctor we can talk to about anything especially your sex life and your ass. Your doctor need to understand the health concerns that are unique to gay men. If you do not have a doctor that you can be honest with the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association can help. Now back to your butt…

Anal hygiene is important but you should be careful when you use enemas as flooding your rectum with water on a regular basis can dehydrate your colon, making you more likely to get an infection. To be as safe and clean as possible, you should first, wipe your ass with a moist cloth to clean the outside, avoid eating a few hours before anal sex to help ensure your bowels are empty, and then before bottoming, fill an ear syringe with warm water and gently squeeze the water into your rectum, learning out any feces that may be lingering.

21 Jul 2015

Health : Serodiscordant Lovers

Catégorie: Health


Are you poz? Neg? Is your BF poz? Is he neg?

If you are positive, does it makes you sad that some people think that being poz is being dirty, slutty, unhealthy or unclean?

Negative guys, do you know that poz guys are sometimes more healthy than other guys? Why? Because they get tested every 2-3 months by their doctor for everything. From anemia to hepatitis and other blood infection or STDs. Of course knowing your status is very important, because when you don’t know it, it can be very dangerous. When you know it, with medications, you become undetectable very quickly and therefore the virus transmission is almost impossible.

The short movie “Knowing” wants to spread the message of the importance of knowing your HIV status, telling and asking, and choosing love.

It is a beautifully shot short film about the early stages of a serodiscordant relationship (on poz, one neg) who manage the task of being tender, sexy and educational without being preachy or heavy-handed.

Impulse Group has followed that effort up with a second short film “Open”  which further explores the nuance of a sexually active, serodiscordant couple during moments of decision, revelation, frustration and, most of all, love.

By sharing these videos with you guys, I want you to educate yourself on the subject if you are not familiar with it. Watch these short 4-5 minutes movies, they are very well done and it demystifies the situation.

Let me know your thoughts and negative guys….don’t be scared of undetectable guys, they can love you too :)

If you’d like to learn more about what it means to be “undetectable”, click here!


20 Jul 2015

Health : Bug Chasing (HIV)

Catégorie: Health



So yesterday’s post on HIV got a lot of reactions and it gave me the idea to blog about bug chasing today. I’ve been thinking about blogging about it for quite a while, but I was scared that it would give the idea to some less informed guys to become bug chasers. I did a bit of research, watched documentaries and read blog posts about it and I have to see that I feel a bit dizzy right now and disturbed. Here is what I have to say about it.

Bug chasing is the practice of pursuing sexual activity with HIV-positive individuals in order to contract HIV. Individuals engaged in this activity are referred to as bugchasers. It is a form of self-harm. Bugchasers seek sexual partners who are HIV-positive for the purpose of having unprotected sex and becoming HIV-positive; giftgivers are HIV-positive individuals who comply with the bugchaser’s efforts to become infected with HIV. In some cases, people seek out AIDS in order to fit in, please a sexual partner, or simply for thrills.

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