Adam4Adam Blog http://blog.adam4adam.com Blog page of the website adam4adam.com Mon, 27 Jul 2015 13:50:55 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.2.3 Speak Out : Where Are You Going? http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/07/speak-out-change-yourself-for-others/ http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/07/speak-out-change-yourself-for-others/#comments Mon, 27 Jul 2015 13:42:48 +0000 http://blog.adam4adam.com/?p=10293 stoll

Today is a junk out day.  I guess I don’t remember when I started using language like this.  I joined a gym, I work out, I changed my diet a little bit and started getting results.  It was exciting.  At first my motivation for working out was to achieve a really hot, muscular body to gain the attention of other men with hot, muscular bodies.  This is because those same men won’t give me the time of day unless I have six pack abs or a big, worked out chest.  I thought, “I’m going to get those things and then when …

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Today is a junk out day.  I guess I don’t remember when I started using language like this.  I joined a gym, I work out, I changed my diet a little bit and started getting results.  It was exciting.  At first my motivation for working out was to achieve a really hot, muscular body to gain the attention of other men with hot, muscular bodies.  This is because those same men won’t give me the time of day unless I have six pack abs or a big, worked out chest.  I thought, “I’m going to get those things and then when those guys talk to me I’m going to tell them to go spend some time playing in traffic”.  How delighted I would be to have my sweet revenge.

Of course, it didn’t really play out that way.  After I lost 50lbs and my muscles started to develop (a little, please don’t mistake me for a gym rat or some well defined athlete…yet) my motivation shifted.  I did start to gain the attention of these muscle boys as I had suspected; many of them starting up conversations with no realization that I was the same person who months earlier had tried to say hello to them only to get “I don’t talk to fatties” or “you’re not my type” and so on.  The fact that they didn’t even recognize me was infuriating.  It shouldn’t have surprised me, because we sort of accept that being shallow and vapid is part of the gay culture.  And yet, I was still filled with rage that this shallow, vapid stereotype was being directed at me.

How could they not remember me?!  I’m memorable!

At some point we just have to realize a few things about ourselves in general.  The type of gay person you see on tv shows and the type of people who get up there and speak in front of the Human Rights Campaign are not the same kind of gay person you find in your own friend circle.  Yet, these are the types of gay guys that get the most attention.  We make remarks like “I can’t believe they act like that!” but in truth, we believe it.  It’s just infuriating to us because it seems like no one cares enough to try to change it.  We let the beautiful gays be beautiful because they’re fun to look at; well, they ARE!  Our internal conflict of “I hate the way they dismiss me because I don’t have muscles” and “Oh my God look at those pecs!!!” are always at war.  There’s a bit of shallow in all of us and I don’t necessarily think that’s a bad thing.  All things in moderation, I think the saying goes.

In my community we had come to this kind of rut where everyone seemed to be having the same problems all the time.  The characters changed; boyfriends broke up and found new boyfriends, guys got new fuck buddies, the merry go round of the hook up culture spun and spun…but the problems remained the same.  I felt like there was no forward movement, but mainly I realized that it was because I wasn’t facing forward at all.  I was looking behind me, trying to find a way to get back at this guy for not going out on a date with me, or that guy for never calling me after we fucked, or that guy for never calling me after we fucked, or that guy for never calling me…well, you get the idea.  At some point I thought “I can’t make everyone stop what they’re doing and I’m not even sure it’s my place to do that”. I had to turn myself in the right direction and start moving forward on my own.  So…I did.

And wonder of wonders, I slowly began to run into people who were going in the same direction as I was.  I felt like “where did THESE gay guys come from?!” and they’d been there the whole time.  I was just facing the wrong direction and grumbling about everything I was seeing.  We can’t change our past.  We can’t always predict what is to come in the future.  But we can exist in the now and affect what is happening.  If we’re always worried about that last relationship, or that last hook up, or why James stole my boyfriend, or why Paul didn’t invite me to his party, or why Joseph has better abs than I do and why won’t his hot friends talk to me!?!?! then we’re never really going to move forward.  Usually it takes a few people to make the first few steps in order for everyone to follow suit.

I never did get to put my thumb on my nose toward all the muscle boys who didn’t recognize me.  It turns out that looking forward, none of that really matters as much as I thought it did.  So if you’re wondering why gay people are so stupid…maybe you’re facing the wrong direction.  In the wrong direction, “forward” is behind you.  Spin around; maybe what you thought was behind you was the right direction the whole time.

-MakeMeABird-

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Hot Or Not : Bears http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/07/hot-or-not-bears-2/ http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/07/hot-or-not-bears-2/#comments Sun, 26 Jul 2015 17:58:19 +0000 http://blog.adam4adam.com/?p=10290 bear

Hey guys, I hope you’re all having a great weekend, it is very humid and warm here in Montreal!

Today, I want to know who likes bears here? We have many bears member on Adam4Adam and I want to give them a shout out! Hi guys!!!

I personally love furry men, especially beefy muscle bears. There’s one at my gym that I would like to have in my bed, maybe one day I’ll invite him over… I would definitely like to cuddle all night with him and I’d gladly be his little spoon!

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Hey guys, I hope you’re all having a great weekend, it is very humid and warm here in Montreal!

Today, I want to know who likes bears here? We have many bears member on Adam4Adam and I want to give them a shout out! Hi guys!!!

I personally love furry men, especially beefy muscle bears. There’s one at my gym that I would like to have in my bed, maybe one day I’ll invite him over… I would definitely like to cuddle all night with him and I’d gladly be his little spoon!

What about you? Like’em furry or smooth? Find them Hot or Not?

If you like bear porn, my favorite website is BearBFs! You can watch manly amateur cumstuds in solo or hardcore action. They’re hot, hairy, and totally hung! Love it!

Dave

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A4A : What’s Your Opinion On This And This? http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/07/a4a-whats-your-opinion-on-this-and-this/ http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/07/a4a-whats-your-opinion-on-this-and-this/#comments Fri, 24 Jul 2015 20:06:02 +0000 http://blog.adam4adam.com/?p=10273 IMG_2852bw

(Photos : Copyright Lucas F Photo)

Hey guys, it’s the weekend, yay! I hope you all had a great week?!

Many of you know that I was in NYC few weeks ago to shoot with the amazing Lucas F, one of my favorite photographers and I finally received the photos yesterday. I have to tell you that I am very happy with the result. I think Lucas is very talented and I also worked hard too to be top shape for the shoot, so I wanted to share the photos with you guys!

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(Photos : Copyright Lucas F Photo)

Hey guys, it’s the weekend, yay! I hope you all had a great week?!

Many of you know that I was in NYC few weeks ago to shoot with the amazing Lucas F, one of my favorite photographers and I finally received the photos yesterday. I have to tell you that I am very happy with the result. I think Lucas is very talented and I also worked hard too to be top shape for the shoot, so I wanted to share the photos with you guys!

To see the photos, you simply have to go on my personal Instagram Account or on A4A Instagram Account, I will post one or two photos on both pages, every day. Follow me and A4A on Instagram and I will follow you back for sure! So check the photos that are posted right now and let me know if you like them – or not. Some friends mentioned to me that I am not smiling enough on the photos… I agree, I think I should “smeyes” a bit more like Tara Banks says! FYI, In August, I will also shoot with Superstar photographer Pat Lee (OMG I know!!!!) and I will definitely show you those photos as well.

I also want to know if you would like me to post Fitness and Nutrition Tips once a week on A4A blog? With all my hard work, I learned a lot of things and would definitely like to share my nutrition and fitness tips with you and answer your questions here on the blog. But if you guys are not interested, I will not. Videos on how to do some moves, healthy recipes, how to track your calories, myths about some foods and many more, are all ideas I have in mind, what do you guys think? Would you like that?

So check me out on Instagram and have a great weekend!

Dave

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Fantasy : Gloryholes http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/07/fantasy-gloryholes/ http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/07/fantasy-gloryholes/#comments Thu, 23 Jul 2015 16:49:51 +0000 http://blog.adam4adam.com/?p=10259 60321_06

(Photo : Next Door Buddies)

I was always fascinated by gloryholes. I dont know if I’ll ever use one though?! It would scare me out a bit not to see the face of the guy I’m sucking… Personally, I rather have sex with a guy that has a cute face but average cock than having sex with a guy with an ugly face and big nice cock.

But I kinda like the anonymity of it and it turns me on to watch videos of guys having their cock blown through this dick-hole! What about you? Have you ever tried? Are you curious to …

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(Photo : Next Door Buddies)

I was always fascinated by gloryholes. I dont know if I’ll ever use one though?! It would scare me out a bit not to see the face of the guy I’m sucking… Personally, I rather have sex with a guy that has a cute face but average cock than having sex with a guy with an ugly face and big nice cock.

But I kinda like the anonymity of it and it turns me on to watch videos of guys having their cock blown through this dick-hole! What about you? Have you ever tried? Are you curious to try? Would you suck or get sucked? Would you do anal too?

Check out more pics of amateur glory holes after the jump!

Dave




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Stories : Still Hot In Toronto http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/07/stories-still-hot-in-toronto/ http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/07/stories-still-hot-in-toronto/#comments Wed, 22 Jul 2015 14:29:29 +0000 http://blog.adam4adam.com/?p=10252 57452_13

(photo : High Performance Men)

 

After my first experience with an escort, I was so sexually aroused and satisfied, I decided to pursue this newfound delight just a little further. In fact, I was infatuated with the fact that I could be with such hot muscled men (who typically were way out of my league). Don’t get me wrong, I get plenty of hookups. But, they are very average guys (like me) and I discovered that I didn’t have to settle.

 

For those who may not have read the first installment, I am your very average …

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(photo : High Performance Men)

 

After my first experience with an escort, I was so sexually aroused and satisfied, I decided to pursue this newfound delight just a little further. In fact, I was infatuated with the fact that I could be with such hot muscled men (who typically were way out of my league). Don’t get me wrong, I get plenty of hookups. But, they are very average guys (like me) and I discovered that I didn’t have to settle.

 

For those who may not have read the first installment, I am your very average 45 year old gay male. I’m 5’9, 200 lbs. (got a small gut – not obese), brown hair, green eyes, and a nice 7” cut cock. In fact, I’ve always thought that my cock is really my best feature. Most guys I hook up with are hooking up with me because of my cock pic. My best feature is hidden, so I usually haven’t much luck picking up guys in the bars or even in the baths. On my last visit to Toronto, I hooked up with a very hot escort who gave me the ultimate sexual arousal and satisfaction. I actually shot my load without any touch to my cock. I’ve NEVER had that happen before this experience. So needless to say, I was VERY aroused with this hot fucking man and after having him, I decided I wanted more.

 

I arrived in Toronto on an early Saturday afternoon and got checked into my hotel room. I had an agenda, so I head out to go find those gay magazines with all of those hot steamy ads of muscled escorts just waiting on my call. I gathered up the ones I had from my previous trip and got back to my hotel room to decide who was going to be my next tasty morsel.

 

Comfy back in my room, sprawled out on the bed, I began to look through the mags and seeing so many hot pics of these available men. I came across one that really seemed to be my kind of man. His name is Steve and he is in his early 20s, dark hair, and a hot 8 inches of cock. He claimed to be versatile and loved to top. Well, my kind of man! I called him and set up and appointment. He had a very sexy voice on the phone, was extremely nice, and seemed excited to meet with me. He just had to shower and he was on his way. I also took a shower and got my hole douched nice and clean so if he wanted to eat it, he could. I like to always have the back door clean, clean, clean! It wasn’t long until Steve arrived and I opened the door to see this tall, dark, and handsome young man at my door. I invited him in and he proceeded inside my room. He sat his backpack down beside the bed and asked if I was ready. I told him of course and he immediately started removing his clothes right before me. I enjoyed watching him strip down his muscled body and lastly, he revealed his long hanging soft cock. His balls were hanging nicely and were shaved, which I absolutely love. I undressed as well and we both got on the bed.

 

He laid back and I was beside him, massaging his body as I went right for his huge cock and began to suck it slowly. He moaned with delight a few times and then I shifted down to those once low-hangers, that was now tight. I sucked on them and warmed them right up and they were dangling again as I massaged his full balls in my mouth. This experience was different; I was basically guiding the experience, whereas last time, my escort guided me. So I asked then to eat his ass. He accommodated and flipped over in doggie style position. He threw his hot ass in the air and there was black hair surrounding his cute little rosebud and also all along his sweet crack. I just loved the look of him in that position and that asshole so wanting. I buried my face in his ass and fucked his hole with my tongue for all I could. I loved his hole; it seemed to allow more tongue than any other guys I had rimmed. As I was enjoying this so, I happened to look down at my own cock and noticed it was hard as a rock, the veins protruding, and dripping loads of precum. (I have always oozed lots of precum, but this was like astonishing even to me!) When I saw my cock’s reaction to rimming his hot fucking ass, I realized how much I loved eating ass and how much it turned me on. I had never really known this prior to Steve’s hungry hole. Naturally, my next thought was to fuck this sweet ass. If it’s that good to eat, it has to be a great fuck hole. I asked him if I could fuck him and he said, “of course…” in a low sexy voice. He put his ass even higher in the air for my cock to enter. I put on the condom and lubed my cock and his ass. His ass opened up so nicely to my fingers entering him and lubing it up for my entry. Then I moved my body up close to his ass and slowly slid my cock inside his wanting ass. He took me fairly easily and I began to pump that hole. OMG my cock was feeling so amazing up inside his hole. It was tight and just perfect. I had never fucked a guy that felt as good as he did. I came shortly because it was just too good inside of his tight ass. I felt spent. It was such a good rimming that lead to that amazing fuck. I was, again, totally satisfied. So our time was only about ½ an hour and I booked him for an hour. So I asked, “What now?” He answered, “Well, why don’t you lie on your tummy and I will give you that erotic massage you booked me for.” I said, “oh, yeah.”

 

I laid down face down on the bed and he did similar to Mark and straddled my ass with his naked body. He began to massage my back and as he did, he was sitting directly on my ass, so his cock was placed within my ass crack. His massage was feeling very good and I had just came, so all was good. His cock was hard and he began to tease my ass with it by slowly fucking my crack. He wasn’t inside of me, just teasing me between my ass cheeks. I just laid there and enjoyed the experience. As he pumped between my ass cheeks, he began to position his cock so it would poke at my hole. With his massaging and poking at my fuck hole, I began to want him to fuck me, even though I had just came a little earlier. His expertise was so fantastic that I had to have him inside me. I said, “Fuck me…” He said, “I thought you’d never ask…” He got another condom out and slipped it on his hard throbbing 8 inches and lubed himself and my hole. He slowly stuck in his cock and I was hungry for it, so it wasn’t long before he was pounding me with his balls slapping against my taint. I was working my sphincter along with his pumping and I was in total ecstasy! This dude could FUCK! Dayum…he fucked me and I fucked him back. It was truly the best fuck I had ever experienced. We both enjoyed this fuck session for quite a while and then he said to me, “Oh fuck! I’m going to cum!” I continued to fuck him back and all the sudden he started shooting that load of cum deep inside me. He fell forward on top of me and said, “Omg that was fucking hot.” I said, “Fuck yeah it was! That was honestly the best fuck I’ve ever had.” He smiled big and played with his cock as it lay on his leg still long from being hard, but slowly going soft. I didn’t even cum after he fucked me, but, I was so content.

 

I gave him his money and told him, “You were well worth it. Thank you.” He replied, “So were you and you just call me anytime. I had a great time fucking your ass.” No kisses were exchanged, but, that didn’t matter. He left and I lay back on the bed and was recalling the experience. I began to get hard, of course, and jacked off to thoughts of Steve. After a few stokes, I shot my load across the room – I was sexually fulfilled.

 

A nap was in order and the sleep was fantastic. I woke up and thought, should I call Steve again? But decided I would give another one a try. It was like I had discovered a smorgasbord of hot men that were only a phone call away.

 

A4A member, Dickken

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