Adam4Adam Blog http://blog.adam4adam.com Blog page of the website adam4adam.com Sat, 29 Aug 2015 19:17:08 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.2.4 Speak Out : I’m Black And Bottom And It Sucks! http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/08/speak-out-im-black-and-bottom-and-it-sucks/ http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/08/speak-out-im-black-and-bottom-and-it-sucks/#comments Fri, 28 Aug 2015 17:15:30 +0000 http://blog.adam4adam.com/?p=10469 14

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I received a message recently from a guy who said that “being black and bottom sucks”! I was moved by the message I received and wanted to get your opinion on the subject. I presume that being black and bottom WHEN you are surrounded by racist white people sucks, but if you live in a big multicultural city like NYC or L.A. or Miami, is it better? And what if you live in a city where the dark colour of your skin is not the minority? Is it still that bad?

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I received a message recently from a guy who said that “being black and bottom sucks”! I was moved by the message I received and wanted to get your opinion on the subject. I presume that being black and bottom WHEN you are surrounded by racist white people sucks, but if you live in a big multicultural city like NYC or L.A. or Miami, is it better? And what if you live in a city where the dark colour of your skin is not the minority? Is it still that bad?

I heard a lot from black people that the gay community fantasize about the “black top” or the “Big Black Cock”, leaving no space for the black bottom to exist. So guys I’d like to know your opinion. Tell me if you are white, black, yellow, green or what ever colour and tell me if you are bottom, top, vers or asexual and tell me how you feel after reading this blog post! Please be honest!

To all the tops out there who love black bottoms, raise your hand and leave your username at the end of your comment below! And to my hot black bottoms out there on A4A, I want to promote you guys on A4A social media! So send me your BEST photo (good quality, because bad quality won’t be published) along with your username and I will showcase your profile on our Twitter account! You can reach me at blog at adam4adam dot com.

Thanks

Dave

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Gay Stuff : Scared To Stay Single? http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/08/gay-stuff-scared-to-stay-single/ http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/08/gay-stuff-scared-to-stay-single/#comments Thu, 27 Aug 2015 15:43:09 +0000 http://blog.adam4adam.com/?p=10465 calm

Are you emotionally dependant? Many gay men around me are! I feel like many gay men can’t stay alone more than few months. Why? Is it because they don’t want to be seen as single? Is being single perceived negatively by society?

Recently I was asked by a Facebook friend “why are you single, is it by choice?”. He said that I was very beautiful and I shouldn’t be single…. That’s an odd observation. Like if being beautiful means it is easy to find a lover. It goes to say that this observation is also very superficial. Isn’t love about …

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Are you emotionally dependant? Many gay men around me are! I feel like many gay men can’t stay alone more than few months. Why? Is it because they don’t want to be seen as single? Is being single perceived negatively by society?

Recently I was asked by a Facebook friend “why are you single, is it by choice?”. He said that I was very beautiful and I shouldn’t be single…. That’s an odd observation. Like if being beautiful means it is easy to find a lover. It goes to say that this observation is also very superficial. Isn’t love about connection, sharing moments, similar interests and more? Nothing to do with beauty….

The fun part is that this dude has a boyfriend and his boyfriend also sent me “love quotes” on Facebook as well. They both like me and both don’t know the other sends me flirty messages on Facebook. I bet they love each other a lot :\

I’ve been single for 6 years now (wow already!!) I like it though…. I don’t care what society or gay community thinks! I can do whatever I want, whenever I want. I was always a bit lonely even when I was younger. I don’t like groups, I don’t have many friends, I enjoy being alone so for me being single is good!

So let me know your opinion on this subject. Are you scared to stay single? Why? Do you think the gay community’s perception on single guys is wrong? And the perception of society in general towards single people?

Dave

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Speak Out : Your Male Package http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/08/speak-out-your-male-package/ http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/08/speak-out-your-male-package/#comments Wed, 26 Aug 2015 17:55:28 +0000 http://blog.adam4adam.com/?p=10462 Photo on 2015-04-01 at 3.37 PM #4

(This post was written by a member of A4A and reflects an opinion, if you would like to submit a post, please send it to blog at adam4adam dot com)

When you are surfing websites while sitting at a Starbucks or drinking at a neighborhood bar, you are subject to being observed by other guys who have their antennae up! Therefore, present yourself as a hot guy receptive to making new friends. Look at yourself in a mirror and maybe ask a friend to suggest what you might change in your overall appearance that would enhance eye appeal when seeking …

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(This post was written by a member of A4A and reflects an opinion, if you would like to submit a post, please send it to blog at adam4adam dot com)

When you are surfing websites while sitting at a Starbucks or drinking at a neighborhood bar, you are subject to being observed by other guys who have their antennae up! Therefore, present yourself as a hot guy receptive to making new friends. Look at yourself in a mirror and maybe ask a friend to suggest what you might change in your overall appearance that would enhance eye appeal when seeking new friends.

We are becoming more aware of our male packages and the undergarments that cover those packages! Females have breasts that protrude outwardly and cause attention based on cup size! Males have similar situations with genitals that protrude outwardly from their bodies and noticed by other males who view the protruding bulges in their pants.

Underwear designers and manufacturers offer a wide variety of briefs, thongs and jock straps that enhance the outline of genital packages to the max—even when flaccid. Select undergarments that emphasize your package and decidedly move your genitals forward from your legs! Let observers see the bulge evident beneath your pants!

There is no debate on the importance of your package and its display potential! If your genitals are contained in a cup-designed undergarment, you will also find more comfort while driving a vehicle. Simultaneously, the design makes your cock and balls more readily accessible to your playmate who decides to get familiar while you are driving—thus not having to wait until you are out from under the steering wheel. (The driver may also take liberties with his front seat passenger while driving—though cautiously.)

Wearing no underwear is becoming more common among males today as they seek to liberate their cocks and balls! While the concept can be beneficial, there is a deficiency because your package is not brought to the foreground without the support of underwear. On occasion, you may also experience “pinched balls” as a painful result.

DAVID M in Texas

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Watch This : HIV+ Man Asks Strangers To Touch Him http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/08/watch-this-hiv-positive-men-asks-strangers-to-touch-him/ http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/08/watch-this-hiv-positive-men-asks-strangers-to-touch-him/#comments Tue, 25 Aug 2015 16:31:23 +0000 http://blog.adam4adam.com/?p=10459

 

Finnish guy Janne Antin wanted to show what it is like to live with HIV, the stigma related to it and at the same time raise awareness on the condition. It is an extremely moving video. I actually saw it when it first came out few month ago and it made me cry. This morning when I woke up, I had a flash about it and went online to find it to share it with you.

I am telling you this is extremely disturbing how some people react. I won’t tell you what their reactions are, I will simply …

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Finnish guy Janne Antin wanted to show what it is like to live with HIV, the stigma related to it and at the same time raise awareness on the condition. It is an extremely moving video. I actually saw it when it first came out few month ago and it made me cry. This morning when I woke up, I had a flash about it and went online to find it to share it with you.

I am telling you this is extremely disturbing how some people react. I won’t tell you what their reactions are, I will simply let you watch the video. Make sure you have a box of tissue not too far….

Dave

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Hot Or Not : Eating Your Own Cum? http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/08/hot-or-not-eating-your-own-cum/ http://blog.adam4adam.com/2015/08/hot-or-not-eating-your-own-cum/#comments Mon, 24 Aug 2015 14:51:54 +0000 http://blog.adam4adam.com/?p=10452 self

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Have you ever or would you ever eat your own cum? Some say it’s a healthy shot of protein and what-not…Some say it taste nasty…

When I was a teenager, I used to eat my own cum EVERY time I was jerking off. Now that I’m a grown up, I eat my fuckbuddies’s cum. After all semen is only spermatozoa, proteolytic, enzymes as well as fructose. I think, what turns me on about cum is that it is the result of a male orgasm. I really enjoy cum. I don’t care much for cum in my …

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Have you ever or would you ever eat your own cum? Some say it’s a healthy shot of protein and what-not…Some say it taste nasty…

When I was a teenager, I used to eat my own cum EVERY time I was jerking off. Now that I’m a grown up, I eat my fuckbuddies’s cum. After all semen is only spermatozoa, proteolytic, enzymes as well as fructose. I think, what turns me on about cum is that it is the result of a male orgasm. I really enjoy cum. I don’t care much for cum in my ass though, having it in my mouth is mentally more stimulating for me.

What about you? Ever eat your own cum? Do you swallow other guys’s cum?

Dave

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