I told you I met a police officer right? So I had another lunch with him yesterday. When the waitress asked us “is it two bills or one bill?” at the end of our meal, I immediately said “two”! Then my police officer said “one bill only, Dave is going to pay”. Then I said as a joke (but there was a bit of truth in it…) “Noooo, the top has to pay”. Then he was wondering why I was saying that. I simply answered that tops like to take charge so they have to take charge of everything, including meals. So he started laughing….and ended up paying.
Maybe it’s because I’m used to be with older guys or guys that have a bit or a lot more money than me, but I usually expect my man to pay for me. Not because I’m a princess or anything, but as a 100% bottom, I like to be taken care of. Like a straight couple I guess…the chick likes to be treated by her man…
What’s your opinion on this? Am I right to expect a man (top) to pay for me? Or is it old school?
To my surprise, many of my straight friends don’t shower before sex. My friend Marilyn was even laughing at me when I told her I was showering before and after having sex with a guy. She and her boyfriend apparently never shower before sex even after a long day at work. Ewww!
I don’t know you, but I take a shit at least twice a day, I pee at least 5 times a day and I sweat from the crack, balls, pits and feet all day. If my boyfriend would get home after work and would want to have sex with me, he would definitely have to make a pit stop in the shower before pounding my hole. I would not feel comfortable getting rimmed and all after a hot day. Unless you’re into smells and shit, but that’s another story….
What about you? Do you shower before sex? Why?
It is a long weekend for us Canadians!
I would like to wish you all lot’s of fun with friends and family!
If you are in Montreal this weekend, let me know guys, and let’s meet for a coffee!
Happy Thanksgiving y’all!
There are many kinds of fetishes, depending on the object being fetishized. Fetishes come in three varieties : media, form and animate.
In a media fetish, material is what is obsessed over. Media fetishes include rubber, leather, latex, spandex and many more. With a form fetish, it’s the shape of the object that has great significance. Underwear, socks, sneakers all fall into this category. Feet, pecs, butts, penises, and all that good stuff are also considered fetishes, but since these objects are human, they’re called animate fetishes.
People can turn anything into a fetish. There are different degrees of fetishism that go from mild to wild. It’s quite easy to tell whether your fetish is getting out of hand. Basically, if your fetish interferes with life, your relationship or your work , seek the help of a professional.
Nick Jonas is a singer – popular with younger girls and younger gays – I heard one of his song while driving in my car this week and it was the first time I actually heard him. I knew his name of course because he’s been around for a bit (with his brothers) but his music is simply not my thing.
Last week, the 22 years old revealed a spread in Flaunt magazine where he surely grabbed gay men’s attention, after exposing, crotch, butt, abs and all the rest. Is he building a gay fan base?
My question, Nick Jonas, Hot or Not?