24 Nov 2014

Gay Stuff : Inviting Strangers Over

Catégorie: Gay Stuff

I’m very curious how others feel about this topic. I live in a college town, but we are not a “major” city. It’s not uncommon to chat someone up at a brew house and find that there are several personal connections to others in the community.

While I am not “out,” I have shared my personal preferences with several friends, and feel fine with their consideration of my privacy. However, when looking for a bit of fun – on A4A, I become very concerned about hosting a stranger in my home.

Years ago, in the care-free college days, I had a hookup come over while my roommates were gone for the weekend. What I expected was a casual romp of one-time fun, but the guy continued emailing. I kept up the conversation, telling him it was a one-time thing, but he would not take no for an answer. He showed up unannounced at my apartment a couple times, and the ultimate straw was him coming to my work (tracked me down online – scary). I threatened him with police action, and he finally got the message.

21 Nov 2014

A4A : Preference Or Prejudice?

Catégorie: A4A

After 2 blog posts that got lot’s of reaction, I wanted to re-post a very popular post about this delicate subject of racism, preferences, prejudice….

Read below and comment!

 

What is Adam4Adam? To an outsider the site may look like nothing more than a place for gay men to find other gay men to play, but once you are a member the site can become much more.

Over time, fuck buddies often become long lasting friends, long distance friendships can be made and maintained as we cruise profiles and chat with people in far-away places, and life partners can be found as we get to know one another in a more personal way. But for many, especially when first joining the site, membership is about marketing yourself as a sexual object to find a match.

Marketing yourself and seeking others based on how they advertise themselves takes skill and honestly the more precise and accurately you describe who you are, your physical characteristics and what you are looking for in another person the better your chances of finding your match and finding him quickly.

We all have preferences in men, tall, dark, and handsome – short, stout, and average, when it comes to what turns us on we are all very individual.

20 Nov 2014

Speak Out : Ginger, Black, Grey….Whatever!

Catégorie: Speak Out
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The Story “Gotta Love Those Young Black Men” got my thinking about another group stereotyped with pro or con prejudices: Ginger

I have to ask, whats up with all these guys cruising and stalking us Gingers?  I don’t get it.

Ok, lets look at the facts: Sure the red hair is sort of hot on a YOUNG guy.  Mine has changed colors over the years.  I was a brilliant fire red in my teens, auburn as an adult, and now at 50 dulling to a weird rust red with gray.  (Thank you Clairol for saving me.  A touch of ash blond – and it grabs the red pigment and I’m red again.)

19 Nov 2014

Stories : Gotta Love Those Younger Black Men

Catégorie: Stories
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I’ve always had this thing for younger black men.  I grew up near an air force base in Michigan where there plenty of black airmen running about and driving me wild.  I will always regret when I was walking down a road one day on my daily walk when a hunky, cute black airman asked if I wanted a ride.  I froze and shook my head no.  What can I say?  I was young and not too bright.

 

Through the years, I’ve traveled throughout the world and encountered plenty of young black men.  I just love the color and texture of their skin, the contrast between their darkness and my lightness, and, of course, their deep voices, their big cocks.  They have the most luscious huge cocks, and I haven’t met a black cock I didn’t like — or didn’t like me.

 

I was traveling for work in Chicago a few years ago, staying in a great hotel overlooking beautiful Lake Michigan.  Black men were everywhere I went in Chicago:  running the shoreline, hurrying to work, going about their business — driving me wild.  I swear I had an erection for the whole six weeks I was in Chicago as the cute young black men were everywhere.

 

One night, alone in my hotel room, I decided to go online as I was in a pent-up frenzy with these black men driving me crazy.  Out of the blue, a younger black man started chatting with me.  He asked my age and I said that I was in my later 40s.  He was in his mid-20s and he loved older men, he said.  He was just a couple of miles away and said he could come to the hotel room, if I wanted.  I saw his photo, and he looked absolutely gorgeous. I said, sure, come on over.  Anticipation entered ever pore of my body.  A gorgeous six-foot four-inch 20-something black man was going to be over soon, I hoped.  You never know with online hook-ups, so one can never be sure, but ten minutes later, there he was.

18 Nov 2014

News : Gay Man Died After Being Beaten

Catégorie: A4A : News

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(This post was written by one of our members, if you wish to submit a text too, send it to us blog@adam4adam.com)

Some of you may have heard about the guy in North Carolina that was beaten and set on fire in a hotel last Saturday night after leaving a club with a guy. The Advocate and the Q Notes has been posting about it. His name was Stephen White and I remember seeing him at the clubs through out the years. I never met him or knew him personally.

I was shocked to learn of the attack on Tuesday when my partner texted me about it. I had heard about the fire at the hotel on the news over the weekend but never put two and two together.

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